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no one said he had the right to do so, i can disagree with his actions and recognise he is a psychopath and still want him to receive genuine love. he is the type that has been raised with the wrong kind of love or probably no love at all (in his pov) so he would never know the right way to love someone or to be loved by someone and that lead him to become the adult him. i just want him to experience genuine love and it doesnt have to be romantics. healing does not necessarily need to be done in mental facility, it could some brief moments or realisations or just brief interactions but his heart gets healed albeit a little

sigh i wish eunsung get to be loved at least once i just want to see him heals

no kdrama character has an aura the way vincenzo had and that's what kills me bc i want more characters that gave me chills like his, his eyes when he in his vincenzo killing mode is truly something else

yes, and no i dont advocate cheating. i just dont get angry or called someone trash if ppl cheat due to them being not treated right in the relationship, be it men or women my stance are the same. dont come at me bc im not one of ppl who have extreme view at men. i have defended men multiple times when women displayed hypocrisy. proof: go to park seojoon page on mydramalist and search my comment from a year ago, i'm not his fan btw.as i said i have not watch the drama but from what i have seen i really dont care that gao peng was cheated bc i dont think he treat her right (again based on what i have seen through edits) sure the courting are things he did long ago, but she only came to know about it now and her hurt is very much valid but that alone was not justified for cheating but him not remembering stuffs they did or basically anything about her implies her value to his and if that what propels her to cheat (fueled by knowing what he did before they get into relationship), i can understand the decision. i dont root for it but im also not gonna be angry about it. if the gender is reversed, my reaction will be the same. notice how i said nothing about hansu bf bc idk if he were treated right but from what i have seen i do pity his situation, insecurity etc but it is not enough for me to know if his cheating is justified to my principle. i only do not care to be angry at someone cheating if they were not treated right or they get cheated on so they cheat for revenge, but ofc these people who cheat need to have some shame and not being morally condescending if they were caught bc that would make them detestable (this do not apply if it were the latter). as i have yet to watch this drama idk if HZN & QYP act superior but i have seen in some other drama where i can understand their cheating but act superior to hide their guilt. me saying "cheating is justified" is referring to whether the cause is something i should be angry about or hate the person for the act, to sympathise to the behaviour that caused them to do so and continue watching like typical silent viewers or thinking the character is trash bc i cant understand the cheating. does this consider as advocating for cheating? i personally dont think so. i just think for every bad behavior people did, some are justified and i can understand the decision and not be angry at it eventho i do not agree with it.talking about double standard, almost everyone love "first love" (the japanese drama), they turn a blind eye to ML cheating bc the person he cheat on is not FL, but i cant love the show as i dont think his cheating is justified. him kissing fl for the first time while still in the relationship is something i understand and was not angry about (i believe ppl can do lots of irrational stuff in the heat of moment and it's hard to control our rationality) but him continue to emotionally cheat on his gf and keep texting fl iirc instead of being firm of wanting to breakup is what fuels my dislikes for him.

yeah im just curious did hansu ever get to know why zhinan decide to cheat also wishing they wouldnt go that route of GP falling for HS but well

try watching soshite ikiru, this is their reunion drama and it was really good heartbreaking slice of life drama

wow so han su became friend with zhi nan bc of gao peng? i have not watch single ep of this show but this piqued my interest. did she came to know why zhi nan cheat? and sorry to be that girl but i really dont care if she cheat on gao peng he seems like trash who never appreciate her (well based on edits i have seen might be wrong lol) im a cheater advocater if your partner is trash be it man or woman lol (ofc it would be better if one just break up but we human are messy like that)

anyone knows what the writer past work? idk why i thought our blues writer is responsible for this but it doesnt seem to be the case, i do have high expectation if it was her bc i adore her writing. honestly not excited at all for the romance hate it in the original and hopefully it will be written better here but it would be excellent if it was scrapped (fck that bs that he cant live without her they can work it out somehow and i feel like she was coerced into it, idk ling xiao need therapy and jian jian should have fall for him by continuous interaction and throughout all his therapy (that if i was the writer and really keen on making love plot but im not one))

ok but real just here for he ziqiu character and the father bc they have my whole heart! love bae hyeonseong and hopefully he will deliver here too and praying we get to see a real cute sibling relationship like the OG (before the romance plot)

more annoying you mean, kidding! maybe not haha but real i hate the twist kdrama adds to many of their romance drama recent example: love next door

the music scoring seems very much a jdrama melodrama coded

it simply bc they think she was mistreated and honestly we dont know but i do hope her voice are heard, especially regarding the styling issue.

male lead as in who? hu xianxu? may i know which accent he has? is it northeast?

i think ZXC has explosive chemistry with Tong Yao

please spoil me what happened to yue ya in the novel and nina (i love her so far) curious will there be something between her and cheng hui, tho if i must be honest im also quite liking nina with our ML 😂

where yall watching this bc it is not on my wetv and iqiyi (malaysia)

not discrediting the writer in any slightest but angel falls sometimes was from jdrama boku no ita jikan, and yes the cdrama make it longer but the original inspiration is from the jdrama and maybe im biased but i do find the jdrama version much sadder

end of ep2, why is he looking for her instead of dealing with teng rui

my historical knowledge is very poor so forgive me for this question! as of ep6, is khan and emperor of qing same person or not? or were they in same side? all this time im assuming they speaking manchu language (cmiiw) and google search shows the mongols and the jurchens are quite of enemy so im very confuse who is who now

is it only me that prefer watching blood of youth first instead of dashing youth? kept seeing people recommending to watch dashing youth first or saying DY should be released first instead of TBOY just bc it was the prequel but in all honesty, where is the fun of it? TBOY is the reason im very much invested in DY. knowing the leads present life (TBOY) made it all more interesting to see about their backstory

i definitely would have drop this long ago if i dont have TBOY as my reference. my main driving force of watching is definitely ye dingzhi and xiao ruofeng simply bc i love angst, hence i get more satisfaction and pain watching them from the beginning of DY to the end, that's what gave the drama and my watching experience more flavours, and the reason why im so attached, so if anyone ask me which to watch first, if you love pain and want more attachment to your shows, watch blood of youth first followed by dashing youth.

i might probably enjoy DY still but i wont get attached if i had watch it first instead of TBOY, there is simply a pain pleasure from knowing how certain character ends from beginning and watching it unravelled

love the looks for both baba and feiyu today!! and been curious since before, how was huang xiaoming as a producer? was this his first time or does he has any work we can refer to before