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havent watch the show and i love my parents but i agree i wish my parents taught me real life skills like being in kitchen. it really helps and really make a difference. my friends just think im someone who doesnt know anything but my parents literally never rlly force me to do it, they are expecting voluntary help which smth im not good at. i just feel shy to offer help first bc it makes me feel like im a good person (eventho it was just simple thing and i hate that feeling) and i hate it more that when i offer my help sometimes, my mom basically saying there's nothing to do bc to extend help was already a big courage i need to muster only to get my spirit dampen like that. it's not helping that when im in kitchen i dont like being watched by others so i never rlly get to learn until now that im away from my family

read the novel sang yan in first frost is closer to real sang yan self bc you are also seeing description of him not only through yifan lenses but through his friend. likewise my feeling watching hidden love as novel readers are similar bc sang yan in novel is potrayed as cold, it only took me last year to actually warm up to that version of sang yan being a comedy character hence read the novel, im not sure if it bc i met novel sang yan first but i genuinely think novel sang yan has the most attractive character out of all version of him, and honestly worth reading if you wish to understand why he is the author most popular character in mainland

i know you meant this as a zhang ruonan praise but have you ever watch her movies bc this has always been the kind of roles she played, ofc she is improving again playing sleepwalking character bc iirc i havent seen that in her movies (didnt watch her dramas besides TFF so idk) but emotional character wise, that has always been her strongest forte imo

it is bc the novel is soooooo loved, forst frost is a hit for both radio drama and manhua so the fandom is really big. since roduction team dare to make some changes they gotta embraced the criticism too. ofc novel adaptation couldnt follow 100% of the novel storyline but since they dare to deviate and add scenes, they gotta be brave to embrace the reactions too, be it good or bad

real novel age gap is 7 years but still it wasnt predatory, it feel slight predatory to me only bc man didnt hesitate or feeling conflicted at all, i dont need him to feeling so conflicted but at least i was hoping there was at least 1% but i dont see it in the novel, ofc it wasnt a concern at all since he didnt harbor such feelings for her since she was a child but no hesitation at all also makes me feeling a bit disturbed but ofc that's just me

gonna ruin your mood again bc chances 99% he was never offered bc that will offend novel fans since sang yan is one of the most popular novel character in china (more popular than DJX) and the director himself said many are scared to play main lead roles bc the characters are so loved there and when casting team are considering someone fans would always have smth to say

read first frost novel it is so much better than the drama

i dont think hidden love pain or angst was ever sad, dont get me wrong i mean it in the sense where it will give you heartwrenching pain or your heart ache for the character, but rather hidden love pain was just some character sadness which i would make a sad face with but quickly move on and no attachment whatsoever. first frost angst is the kind where it would hurt, the drama itself has more serious tones and definitely can be seen as more matured shows, it is the kind i would clarified has slight angst while hidden love i would only clarify as pure fluff despite the angst part bc it just not sad at all.

but, i recommend reading the novel, first frost novel is so so much better than the drama, having reading both, i enjoyed both novels but HL is forgettable for me while i still remember the feelings first frost gave but ofc i'm the kind that prefer romance with strong yearning and tension and i felt that with first frost.

no fr what i hate is the drama regressing her character and that they make sangyan being sooooo loved again, making viewers pitying him as if sangyan wasnt one of the most popular novel character in china, he is loved enough, there is no need to make him more loved by regressing her character. i understand that she has more trauma in the drama but one of major point of this scene in the novel is her character progression, how this became the turning point of her laying bares to him, it was her own iniative and i want it to stay that way. i understand all the nanhong chinese fans criticism before but it is especially more annoying now, what i hate is the douban score the drama will receive after bc i still it is a good show but the novel is too good for the drama to get such rating ☹️ like yes douban doesnt matter but i just dont like it for my fav novel to get that result hahha

yeah bc clearly nothing wrong with my watchlist and nothing ever shows that i am a lusi fan. dont think i would ever understand the kind of people like you but i do hope you grow out of it someday. I am not expecting too much, im already accepting all the changes they have made and even stay away from the novel, i am simply pointing out the differences between novel and drama character, and simply recommending the novel if people say they dont like it bc as someone who consume both, i just know if they are not able to enjoy the drama they will most likely enjoy the novel bc it is that good.

then you are just lazy and not willing to have a mature conversation and seems to think everyone is hating when people mention a slight difference or a bit criticism, mine was a valid opinion as both drama and novel fans, i dont criticise people who likes his potrayal as a novel fan bc i do too, i am simply think there is a bit of sangyan novel character that arent fully shown and think that it's such a shame that drama only watcher are not able to see it bc novel sangyan is that attractive and good, that's all.

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i feel you! i drop hidden love bc sangyan was so different from his own novel and i love him too much that i cant accept that version of him at all at first 😂 it was until last year where i finally enjoying his potrayal (through tiktok edits), hence i really recommend you read the novel ❤️

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For people who think im hating or lusi fan whatsoever this was my comment on this page 2 years ago. I am a simply a novel fan i have always love both cast and i defended zhang ruonan when everyone is criticising her being casted. Some of us are just novel readers who love our characters too much hence i have not read first frost for a long time bc im afraid i will not enjoy the adaptation. Tbf i have stopped watching bc i am busy with work and only checking this page today so im not uptodate to current ep at all, my comments is simply my personal opinion, i still enjoy the drama and both potrayal as per my last watch but it doesnt mean i have to blindly love everything.

i dont know why yall think i am digging on bai jingting. i am a novel fan first and foremost and has always been and i am the most excited when bai jingting was announced and idt he disappoint me but you all cant deny there is some sangyan personality in the novel that wasnt really shown in the drama, but ofc this is just my pov bc i have always love sangyan too much and i think there is just a bit difference between novel and drama sangyan. i love drama sangyan but he did not make me obsessed the way novel sangyan is, and imo eventho some of his narcisstic remarks are similar, the feelings given when i read the novel was different. I cant explain well bc idk how to describe it, but his sassiness is a bit different in the novel and i just absolutely obssesed with that side of him, i have seen other novel readers who think the same hence my comment bc i thought novel reader could feel the difference as well

what.......we literally just had good conversation last two weeks iirc and i didnt even watch hidden love or many other lusi drama. i have been here since the drama start announced it adaptation

i dont think it was that huge to be called overrated, but if you read the novel you will understand why it is the author most popular work, drama did changed some things and there is different feeling of sangyan in the novel that quite missing here, BJT still potray the same sangyan but i think novel reader would understand what i meant, bc this man is so funny in his smug narcisstic aloof way

yes the novel is so so so good, i enjoy hidden love novel but i dont get attached while it takes me long to move on from first frost novel. as for the drama adaptation i never finish hl, and do enjoy first frost despite the changes tho there is some that i wish were done better or removed from the drama plot but it is still a good adaptation to me. Hopefully the upcoming ep continue to satisfy current watchers! the drama still has many viewers in china tho it is the ratingwise that may have been influenced by novel fans

actors are just not famous internationally but even in china it is facing the issue with original novel fans hahaha this is what happen when adapting a very beloved novel and making some obvious changes, they gotta embrace the outcome