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Replying to BenedictTan Apr 5, 2021
Just to add on a bit:The part at the end when Yongjie knew that Xingsi was going to cry and then lead him into…
Finally, someone who picks up on the visual symbolism and metaphor. People are missing half the levels of this drama. In fairness, it's easy to be stuck on the literal elements when you have to read subtitles and so a lot of your visual concentration is on that.

In any case, the imagery of the two on the ledge was fraught with meaning - I hope not foreshadowing...
Replying to MoonOverStar Apr 5, 2021
Me watching the hotel scene: Um... Licheng and TengTeng cannot be friends after this. There's NOOOOOOOOOOO way.…
I don't think they were really just friends to begin with - they're both just too clueless to understand what's going on.
Replying to 8999021 Apr 5, 2021
I feel like more people need to understand and accept that adult humans are flawed and damaged and that makes…
The drama is R-rated, so I'm confused why people are surprised there are adult themes. I agree, flawed and damaged people are way more interesting than perfect ones - and I think this is wonderfully written and surprising in it's complexity and nuance, although I thought the boss was too cartoonishly evil to make the point they were trying to make.
Replying to Flypsyde Apr 5, 2021
You know, writing ignorant sex-phobic opinions in ALL CAPS does not make them any more valid than when presented…
I agree with you. I think what I disagree with in this thread is oversimplification, generalization, and blanket statements, for example "all sex while drunk is non-consensual" which is not a useful thing to say, as it's obviously not true in most cases. I think you can look at an individual situation and debate whether or not it was non-consensual, but you can't claim that every single occurrence of something is.
Replying to Yuli Atta Apr 5, 2021
TL;DR: THE YOUNG STEPBROTHER RAPES THE OLDER ONE. THIS IS A PURPOSEFUL PLANNED RAPE, IT IS NOT ROMANTIC AND ANYBODY…
I disagree with all of that.
Replying to wei ying lover Apr 5, 2021
If that was rape, then I don't think there is anyone out there who is insane enough to hold the hand of their…
That is not technically right. If everyone that's drunk that has sex is by definition raped, then most of humanity has been raped repeatedly. Consent is not possible if you're incapacitated, and drunk people don't suddenly have sex with their siblings.
Replying to Yuli Atta Apr 5, 2021
The younger brother got him purposefully so drunk he had to be carried to bed. Drunk people cannot consent. Xing…
Here we go again.
Replying to jvd_suho Apr 5, 2021
ikkkk a lot of people don't like this drama and i personally don't like the brother couple (their acting's okay…
I agree with you - the 1 & 0 thing is supposed to be them being clueless and is meant to be funny. I'm the opposite though - I'm way more interested in the brothers storyline. I think we already know exactly what will happen with Mu Ren and Li Cheng, so it just seems formulaic to me, but this series has surprised me, so maybe it will go somewhere I'm not expecting and draw me in.
Replying to Tulenz Apr 5, 2021
I’m so tired of non consent and rape being shown as romantic behavior that is okay and has no consequences for…
The are not romanticizing any of it at all. Yong Jie's behavior is portrayed as deeply troubled, and Mu Ren squirming in the tub was a sex dream Li Cheng had, not what actually happened. I thought it was meant to be disturbing, but other people found it hot.
Replying to Gaia Apr 5, 2021
Hoooooly, this was one tough of an episode! O-OMuRen is so thin he looks like a giraffe, I can't help but laugh…
I'm in a minority about Mu Ren, but I find him entirely unattractive, although he has nice eyes and skin. It was clear that Li Cheng was had a sexualized reaction to seeing him naked, but I was thinking I should run and get him a cheesecake. That was scary-skinny, like I'm not sure you can be healthy and that thin.

I am in agreement about Xing Si - he's so beautiful and played by such a great actor. I will go into the minority again, but on a purely physical level, Yong Jie does it for me the most, although I wouldn't date him in a million years. The actor, however...
Replying to J100 Apr 5, 2021
Title HIStory4: Close to You Spoiler
I watched the link from here but I think it's cut. anyways, the episode was very strong and intens, I wanted to…
I'm not entirely sure I understood you correctly, but if you're asking why Mu Ren was saying he was hot in the scenes that were reality, it's because the boss spiked his drink with a rape drug. He meant literally hot, like feverish. Later, in Li Cheng's dream, it was considerably more figurative. :)

I have to disagree with you about things being done for ratings without deep thought being behind each scene - I think every scene is very carefully crafted, both visually and in dialog, with a very specific effect and narrative reason behind it. Especially for this episode, it might be hard to rewatch because of how loaded and heavy most of them were, but you might see things on a second viewing that went by quickly upon first watching.
Replying to BLFan91 Apr 5, 2021
I wasn't so sure how to make of that scene.. If anyone can explain why Yong Jie had that expression when he woke…
Yong Jie had that expression because he thought Xing Si had left him - he looked pointedly at the chair he'd been sitting in.

Xing Si cried like that because he blames himself for what happened and for how Yong Jie is. And he's probably also just overwhelmed with the whole thing, especially as he's not out to his parents, adding another layer of emotional stress to the situation.
Replying to BLFan91 Apr 5, 2021
I wasn't so sure how to make of that scene.. If anyone can explain why Yong Jie had that expression when he woke…
That's the opposite of why he was crying. He explained it earlier. It's because he can't forgive himself for what happened, and It's because he thinks he made Yong Jie this way.
Replying to kawaiidrama Apr 5, 2021
Yes there is a lot toxic topics in the show. Yong Jie is definitely not a wholesome character. Though the show…
I'm not sure it's entirely accurate to say Xing Si is not in the slight bit interested in a romantic relationship - he clearly has absolutely no intention of pursuing a relationship, which is all that matters from a moral perspective, but his feelings are more complex, and that's where the drama lies.
Replying to Jay Apr 5, 2021
I will say, I feel this episode was stronger than the others in terms of plot and character development. That…
They can have a happy ending, but it would have to require a large time jump and lots of therapy - there's really no way to accomplish it in a way that would make any sense otherwise. I suspect it will not have a happy ending.
Replying to Nolan Peale Apr 5, 2021
Ummm. Transferring the VP to a new office basically gives him a new pool of people in a new office who haven’t…
That's the reality of the world though. It may be that they've transferred him planning to get rid of him later to avoid scandal. He belongs in prison, though, and it looks like that won't happen.
Replying to BLFan91 Apr 5, 2021
did you watch the scene after that? it was definitely just Li Cheng dreaming... you might want to watch it again..…
I'm very sure it wasn't a memory because he wondered why he had dreamed that. If it had happened, it wouldn't surprise him to dream about it.
Replying to 7657561 Apr 5, 2021
Aaah, the drug that makes you horny. Wonder how many times I've seen it in yaois. It usually ends with one guy…
That was Li Cheng's dream. He was confused why he had a dream like that, so it's not a memory.

I don't think jail is where Yong Jie belongs - that certainly wouldn't do him any good.
Replying to kawaiidrama Apr 5, 2021
Now lets get to meaty character that is Yong Jie. He is not meant to be character that you are suppose to be swooning…
That's for sure. This series you really have to pay attention to, because they use a lot of visual information and metaphor, like the phallic bottle in the sand at the beach or the bride symbolism of Yong Jie carrying Xing Si - so I'm a little scared that the "outdoor scene" today was foreshadowing.
Replying to soki_1995 Apr 5, 2021
" Rape is NOT okay no matter if you truly love a person or not. Fiction or not, a rape plot as a shipping device…
I don't know what you mean my putting that in quotation marks.