Did yall like the 2nd couple??? personally didn't like them also the guy is very weird he is always so quick to…
Bro even I was judging her, Why wouldn't he? I still can't forget the leads dinner date with Meng Meng and Hu Tie Han. The way FL was constantly trying to stop both of them from taking her then BF Ou Xiao Jue's name didn't signal guilty conscience to you? It made her seem like a cheater so he judged her based on that. I don't find anything wrong with it.
The novel didn't have any but there were some indications of romance between Pei Qian and Lin Wan in Donghua. I hope the same happens here but it will be very minimal.
She also asked him to tell her the truthHe didn't have full disclosureAlso...family is very importantThe trauma…
I can understand that her emotions were running high and that she said some hurtful things. We all do at times, and that is a very human reaction. But that does not mean she should not apologize for it, which neither the FL nor her parents ever did. Instead, they continued guilt tripping the ML even after knowing that it was not his fault. Suppose someone had told the SFL that her husband was cheating, instead of her seeing a girl suddenly kiss him. Would she immediately ask for a divorce, or would she first try to understand the full situation and confirm whether it was true before taking such an extreme step? I also come from an Asian culture, but when I realize that I have done something wrong, I apologize, because that is how my parents raised me. Just because excessive filial obedience is normalized does not mean people should stop distinguishing between right and wrong. If that happens, then it deserves to be called out so it can change. Even child marriage was once considered part of Asian culture, but it was questioned and eventually stopped because it was wrong. So how is calling out harmful behavior today excused simply by saying it is part of Asian culture?
If only human emotions worked like that. A breakup isn't like severing electric connections. It's not like an…
That is a misandrist statement, but it is your opinion, and you are entitled to it. I do not want to spend any more time discussing a drama I did not even like that much, so I will not be replying further.
She also asked him to tell her the truthHe didn't have full disclosureAlso...family is very importantThe trauma…
You only have three episodes left, so I would say just watch it. The payoff for Pei Zhen and his father is good, but since the makers clearly support the SML, they still tried to whitewash his character. And yes, the FL and her family never apologize. Even after the truth is revealed, the ML is once again the one asking her parents for forgiveness, as if it were still his fault, while her parents never apologize at all. Then suddenly everything becomes happy and resolved. Even the conclusion between the ML and his mother felt quite lackluster, because she is also whitewashed. She even tells the ML that he was weak and that was why he never told her what happened to his father.
well. she saw ML's mother before she did that.At this point she don't know the real stuff behind the conflict…
Going by your logic, whatever Guang Ming, SFLâs husband, did was perfectly fine, right? He rejected Chi Xin, the girl who kissed him, many times, but she refused to take no for an answer. She suddenly kissed him anyway, and he did not even tell his wife about it. So does that mean he should be blamed for it? Because according to your logic, it is perfectly acceptable. SFL is just feeling jealous, and you find that entertaining, right? Guang Ming did not want any bad blood between them, which is why he remained polite in his rejections, even though he knew Chi Xin was interested in him. So there is not fault with him right?
well. she saw ML's mother before she did that.At this point she don't know the real stuff behind the conflict…
No one is saying she should be rude or mean. Being polite and setting firm boundaries are not the same thing. When someone keeps ignoring rejection, being more direct is necessary, not cruel. Saying she does not want to be involved in drama does not really change the outcome when she still keeps getting pulled into it. Intent does not erase impact. Whether the ML was annoyed or jealous is not the main issue for me. The issue is that his discomfort keeps being reused as a plot device and then brushed off just because there is âfull disclosure.â Rejecting the scarf and returning the lunch box were good steps, but they came too late. She did call Pei out eventually, but my problem is the timing, not the fact that she did it at all. Also, look at how the ML handled things when the FL felt jealous. He was quick, considerate, and even had a backup plan to comfort her. He also had no problem introducing her as his girlfriend to others, something she repeatedly fails to do. And honestly, letâs not even get into the ridiculous breakup, because that just makes me dislike the FL even more.
So I noticed that you have actually finished and now I think I can say what I understood from that scene. After…
Calling the MLâs jealousy âamusementâ does not match how it feels to me at all. If it were truly playful, the drama would not repeat the same jealousy setup eight or nine times. That repetition does not read as confidence to me, it reads as weak and repetitive writing. Yes, he believed she would choose him, but confidence does not mean being constantly placed in uncomfortable situations and expected to stay quiet. Walking away or saying âshe can chooseâ does not erase the fact that the scene still relies on jealousy to create tension. My issue is not that he was angry with her, but that his discomfort keeps getting glossed over. A confident ML does not need the same jealousy trigger reused again and again to prove his worth.
If only human emotions worked like that. A breakup isn't like severing electric connections. It's not like an…
I can excuse the breakup, but did she ever apologize for saying hurtful things? Did she ever even apologize in the whole drama because as I see every apology was done by only ML.
She also asked him to tell her the truthHe didn't have full disclosureAlso...family is very importantThe trauma…
That's just a excuse. She could have asked for some time off instead of saying break up. And even if she did break up, did she and her parents ever apologize to the ML for how they treated him? It wasn't even his fault but I guess you can say kids carry their parents karma. But even after the truth was revealed, it was ML again who apologized rather than them.
Well, review is finally up and I'm leaving the link here. Thank you to everyone who chatted with me in the comment…
Your review is so good. It perfectly captures exactly how I felt about the drama. Most others didnât even find any fault with FL or her parents, and everything was just glossed over.
So I noticed that you have actually finished and now I think I can say what I understood from that scene. After…
Yeah the costume and everything is good for the VR games but I feel they could have added more thrill by really making it about a murder game just like the name suggested where players had to solve the case instead of doing casual strolling.
You need to see how this situation ends before commenting. Even before that, she refused to accept it at first…
Where did you see me criticizing the actress? I have not said a single word about her. Everything I said was about the FL and the script, so letâs keep the discussion focused on the writing and the character. As for Hu Xiu ânot doing anything wrong,â I disagree. Being friendly is not an issue on its own, but context matters. She knew there was bad blood between Pei and Zhiyu and was aware of what Pei had already done to Zhiyu in the past, even if it was under the excuse of business. That history makes Peiâs intentions questionable from the start. Yes, she rejected Pei early on and told him not to use her to provoke Zhiyu, but when someone ignores rejection repeatedly, polite refusal stops being enough. After eight or nine rejections, continuing to engage without firmer boundaries is bound to hurt the ML, especially when she is already in a relationship. About the food, returning the lunch box through Zhiyu was a good decision, but it does not change the fact that she accepted it despite knowing how sensitive the situation was. More importantly, when Zhiyu was clearly hurt, she glossed over his feelings instead of trying to understand or comfort him. That is where my main issue lies. I do acknowledge that she eventually called Pei out and cut him off when he tried to ruin Zhiyu by exposing his background, but that only happened after things escalated too far. The problem is not that she never did the right thing, but that she waited too long to do it. Not everyone takes the hint, that is true. But that is exactly why, at some point, hints are no longer enough. Being direct and firm is not the same as being cruel, and respecting your partnerâs feelings should take priority over avoiding discomfort with someone who has already crossed multiple boundaries.
well. she saw ML's mother before she did that.At this point she don't know the real stuff behind the conflict…
Yes, but she still knows there is bad blood between them and what the SML did to the ML, even if it was for business reasons. Just because he follows safety procedures properly does not make him a good person. What really defines him is how he pushed the ML into a corner purely for a project. That says a lot about the kind of person he is. You said, âIf she makes him lose face, knowing his shady character from past actions, he might do something petty.â To be honest, that sounds like an excuse. Let him do petty things. Where does this line of tolerance end? If he forcefully kisses her one day, is she supposed to tolerate that too? You can tolerate an annoying person once or twice, but if someone still refuses to take the hint after eight or nine clear rejections, then there are only two possibilities. Either you do not truly want to reject him and are unintentionally stringing him along, or you need to be direct and firm, even if it damages or completely ends that relationship.
1. Considered lighthearted and easy to watch?2. Annoying/Unbearable parents/family? (I tend to drop cdrama because…
1. Yes mostly lighthearted. 2. Both have annoying parents but the SML and the jealousy scenes because of him are more annoying. There are almost 8-9 of them. 3. One breakup but I heard it only for 1 episode.
So I noticed that you have actually finished and now I think I can say what I understood from that scene. After…
Yeah, I really only have two problems with this drama. The first is the SML and the constant jealousy scenes. I have seen almost eight or nine of them already, and all of them are from the MLâs side. The second issue is the VR game scenes, which are pretty boring for me. The ML did not need so many jealousy scenes. They are honestly annoying to watch, to the point where I end up watching them at two times speed. I would have preferred the ML to be written as a more confident character, someone who knows his worth and understands that whether Hu Xiu leaves him or chooses him is ultimately her decision.
Suppose someone had told the SFL that her husband was cheating, instead of her seeing a girl suddenly kiss him. Would she immediately ask for a divorce, or would she first try to understand the full situation and confirm whether it was true before taking such an extreme step?
I also come from an Asian culture, but when I realize that I have done something wrong, I apologize, because that is how my parents raised me. Just because excessive filial obedience is normalized does not mean people should stop distinguishing between right and wrong. If that happens, then it deserves to be called out so it can change.
Even child marriage was once considered part of Asian culture, but it was questioned and eventually stopped because it was wrong. So how is calling out harmful behavior today excused simply by saying it is part of Asian culture?
Even after the truth is revealed, the ML is once again the one asking her parents for forgiveness, as if it were still his fault, while her parents never apologize at all. Then suddenly everything becomes happy and resolved.
Even the conclusion between the ML and his mother felt quite lackluster, because she is also whitewashed. She even tells the ML that he was weak and that was why he never told her what happened to his father.
SFL is just feeling jealous, and you find that entertaining, right? Guang Ming did not want any bad blood between them, which is why he remained polite in his rejections, even though he knew Chi Xin was interested in him. So there is not fault with him right?
Saying she does not want to be involved in drama does not really change the outcome when she still keeps getting pulled into it. Intent does not erase impact.
Whether the ML was annoyed or jealous is not the main issue for me. The issue is that his discomfort keeps being reused as a plot device and then brushed off just because there is âfull disclosure.â
Rejecting the scarf and returning the lunch box were good steps, but they came too late. She did call Pei out eventually, but my problem is the timing, not the fact that she did it at all.
Also, look at how the ML handled things when the FL felt jealous. He was quick, considerate, and even had a backup plan to comfort her. He also had no problem introducing her as his girlfriend to others, something she repeatedly fails to do. And honestly, letâs not even get into the ridiculous breakup, because that just makes me dislike the FL even more.
Yes, he believed she would choose him, but confidence does not mean being constantly placed in uncomfortable situations and expected to stay quiet. Walking away or saying âshe can chooseâ does not erase the fact that the scene still relies on jealousy to create tension.
My issue is not that he was angry with her, but that his discomfort keeps getting glossed over. A confident ML does not need the same jealousy trigger reused again and again to prove his worth.
As for Hu Xiu ânot doing anything wrong,â I disagree. Being friendly is not an issue on its own, but context matters. She knew there was bad blood between Pei and Zhiyu and was aware of what Pei had already done to Zhiyu in the past, even if it was under the excuse of business. That history makes Peiâs intentions questionable from the start.
Yes, she rejected Pei early on and told him not to use her to provoke Zhiyu, but when someone ignores rejection repeatedly, polite refusal stops being enough. After eight or nine rejections, continuing to engage without firmer boundaries is bound to hurt the ML, especially when she is already in a relationship.
About the food, returning the lunch box through Zhiyu was a good decision, but it does not change the fact that she accepted it despite knowing how sensitive the situation was. More importantly, when Zhiyu was clearly hurt, she glossed over his feelings instead of trying to understand or comfort him. That is where my main issue lies.
I do acknowledge that she eventually called Pei out and cut him off when he tried to ruin Zhiyu by exposing his background, but that only happened after things escalated too far. The problem is not that she never did the right thing, but that she waited too long to do it.
Not everyone takes the hint, that is true. But that is exactly why, at some point, hints are no longer enough. Being direct and firm is not the same as being cruel, and respecting your partnerâs feelings should take priority over avoiding discomfort with someone who has already crossed multiple boundaries.
You said, âIf she makes him lose face, knowing his shady character from past actions, he might do something petty.â To be honest, that sounds like an excuse. Let him do petty things. Where does this line of tolerance end? If he forcefully kisses her one day, is she supposed to tolerate that too?
You can tolerate an annoying person once or twice, but if someone still refuses to take the hint after eight or nine clear rejections, then there are only two possibilities. Either you do not truly want to reject him and are unintentionally stringing him along, or you need to be direct and firm, even if it damages or completely ends that relationship.
2. Both have annoying parents but the SML and the jealousy scenes because of him are more annoying. There are almost 8-9 of them.
3. One breakup but I heard it only for 1 episode.
The ML did not need so many jealousy scenes. They are honestly annoying to watch, to the point where I end up watching them at two times speed. I would have preferred the ML to be written as a more confident character, someone who knows his worth and understands that whether Hu Xiu leaves him or chooses him is ultimately her decision.