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Replying to jason zhao Mar 15, 2021
Couldn’t they compromise and have gene write a horror fantasy bl novels.I mean we have manner of death and 1000…
Yes, it was a solution but also maybe his publisher doesn't want this (it may not sell well). Horror and fantasy tend to have more plot (even in a BL context)...you need to be patient while reading it. Not every reader has that patience ?
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On Lovely Writer Mar 15, 2021
Does anyone know how to add the series official youtube channel in the "where to watch" section ? I've tried editing it but MDL has rejected my request. They say I should request a new service in the forum thread. I've done as they say but the service is still not added apparently....

Has someone already done this ?
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Replying to dllmzca Mar 14, 2021
I don't think that there are any obligations on viewers to watch any particular number of shows before expressing…
Nope. Because opinions can be wrong. Opinions are not reasoning. Opinions can spread rumors too. Opinions can be fake news. Opinions can be death threats. Opinions can hurt and destroy. Everyone has a responsability. Otherwise this is intellectual laziness.
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Replying to Robin Mar 14, 2021
I wish comment sections of series were like sharing a common point of interest....but no...it's like a trial now.…
And no malice from my part too. But I strongly disagree witht some of the points you've often made. Sorry but I won't compromise. I also disagree when you say :
"MDL has no rules about requiring that all posts in General Discussion must be well-argued."

MDL may have not such a rule but it is a matter of intellectual integrity.

Especially when you criticize a series negatively. A lot of people work for those series and make a living from those. We should also respect their commitment especially when some of them basically get sick because of overworking (I think of Up) and are so tired. It is a matter of respect.

And sometimes I feel that the users of MDL are not so respectful of this work and the passion of the people doing those works. Be fair, respectful and thoughtful. Those users are basically consumers, never taking into account the human beings behind those works. This is dehumanizing and it makes me so angry....

We have a responsability too as a viewer and user, otherwise it is too easy....
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Replying to dllmzca Mar 14, 2021
The postings regarding the use of the word "trash" are still there. I also tried to provide an example of the…
Good bye. I won't lose my time with you.
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Replying to 8816407 Mar 13, 2021
This is a BL (Ya oi) show which is fiction, You should google the meaning of BL in the original Japanese perspective…
I understand the comment of jonq120873 differently ? Rape and non-consensual sex belongs to the narrative of the BL genre. Why ? Because the readers or fans/viewers of the genre are toxic ? That's why you find toxic themes in those works. Well, that's how I understand the comment of jonq120873 but maybe I'm wrong.
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Replying to 8816407 Mar 13, 2021
This is a BL (Ya oi) show which is fiction, You should google the meaning of BL in the original Japanese perspective…
Ah I see. Thank you.
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Replying to Bubili Mar 13, 2021
Are toxic love relationships only in BL series?Whatever straight thai lacorn I watched the main female character…
Yes, marital rape does exist too. Rape is often done by someone who's close to you (husband, boyfriend, friend, family), rarely from a stranger you meet in the street. And maybe we can do both : talk about consent in series and fight for the recognition of marital rape ? However this talk about consent seems to irritate more the viewers and fans of the genre and make them turn on you. I'm not sure this talk is quite effective.
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Replying to 8816407 Mar 13, 2021
This is a BL (Ya oi) show which is fiction, You should google the meaning of BL in the original Japanese perspective…
I'm not sure BL is yaoi ? But apparently you have many other sub-genres too : shonen-ai, tanbi, etc. I'm a little lost with all those terms (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yaoi#Etymology_and_terminology) Its origin are still quite unclear for me. There is a lot of confusion on the terms apparently. The origins seem more complicated than that and are directly linked to Japan history : with the practices of shudo and kagema, samurai history (where you can find the origin of the seme/uke role but those roles are not so definitive as many people seem to think apparently) ? Apparently, European literature (gothic novels) has a role too ? Then you have the culture of dojinshi, etc. Also rape in yaoi narrative ? For sure.

But what I find interesting in that wikipedia page :
"Thorn theorizes that depictions of tragedy and abuse in yaoi exist to allow the audience "to come to terms in some way with their own experiences of abuse."[128]"

Apparently non-consensual sex is also quite common too in bara, that is to say gay manga aimed for men : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bara_(genre) :
"BDSM[22] and non-consensual sex[23] are common themes in gay manga, as well as stories based on relationships structured around age, status, or power dynamics. Often, the older or more senior character uses the younger or subordinate character for sexual purposes"

But it is not the case for all the works.
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Replying to jpny01 Mar 13, 2021
For me, Addicted was fine - I mean, the title is Addicted Heroin, so if you didn't know you were getting something…
Imbalance of power ? That's interesting ! Thank you for pointing that out.
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Replying to Bubili Mar 13, 2021
Are toxic love relationships only in BL series?Whatever straight thai lacorn I watched the main female character…
Ok thank for your comment. Yes, it is not only in BL. I've posted another comment where I'm talking about 50 shades of grey (which is not BL).
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Replying to We Best Love: Fighting Mr. 2nd Mar 13, 2021
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Thanks for your point of view. I'm not sure because in the West you too have the very popular 50 shades of grey. It is not "BL" and it is not in the "East" but you can also find those same problematic tropes. It seems quite widespread.
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Replying to sleepyhead Mar 13, 2021
Not really sure why its rubbing so many ppl on the wrong side, but I am really liking it as of now. Its not the…
I wish comment sections of series were like sharing a common point of interest....but no...it's like a trial now. It has become so toxic.

Every show has it good and bad aspects. Problem is they only talk about the negative ones (when they are not blatantly saying irrelevant criticism).

A constructive criticism is fair, always balanced and...well-argued. It also means you have some kind of expertise (they generally don't have lol). Otherwise it is just their feelings. But feelings are just feelings. A show can be good even if you don't like it....just like I don't like opera and find it boring even if opera has a great quality of music.
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On We Best Love: Fighting Mr. 2nd Mar 13, 2021
This season 2 seems to be more problematic than the first. And sometimes I wonder : why are shows depicting toxic relationships so popular (Addicted, TharnType, etc.) ?

Saying a scene is wrong and being indignant because of the issue of consent unfortunately won't make it stop. Because you still have those tropes everywhere. The good question is : why does people like this ?

PS : I'm not shaming people liking this but I really want to know their reasons.
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Replying to dllmzca Mar 13, 2021
The postings regarding the use of the word "trash" are still there. I also tried to provide an example of the…
That was an interesting comment for sure. But apparently you're still ignoring the point I've made earlier. I was just commenting on ONE argument of the comment of that guy. Every other subject was not mentioned by me but by all of you.

But why do you still want to talk to me about subjects I was not even talking about ?

Sorry but I won't lose my time with people who are dishonest. Good bye.

The point I was trying to make :

"If you tell people you should not steal but you're also at the same time leaving the supermarket without paying the bread you've taken..."

Aren't you just an hypocrit ?

An hypocrit who has the freedom of speech lol but still an hypocrit with a null argument....

And I wasn't even talking about freedom of speech. I was talking about rhetorics, validity of arguments and reasoning...

So it is not my subject. And you still don't want to understand.
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Replying to Robin Mar 13, 2021
It's really really good for now. It has everything. Fortunately I don't take much into account the comments on…
Well too bad I guess lol
Personally, I really like it. But thai comedy is like that (and I've seen worse in other shows). Maybe you could try the first two episodes ? Generally I watch three episodes before making my mind.
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Replying to Ivy Mar 13, 2021
The commentary on this is so mixed that I can't get an idea if it's good or bad or so bad it's good.... But I'm…
It's really really good for now. It has everything. Fortunately I don't take much into account the comments on MDL because I would have missed some really entertaining shows...

- good and natural acting
- a show with many layers (and irony) : there are many levels of interpretation etc.
- endearing supportive characters
- a badass female character
- very good chemistry between the main couple,
- beautiful shots
- good soundtrack, etc.
- Gene is absolutely adorable and cute lol,
etc.

However, the genre is rom-com for this series. You have some criticizing of the BL industry but it is not the main objective. So if it's not a genre you usually like (like horror, science-fiction etc.), maybe you won't like it ?

Here is their official channel, if you want to check it :
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Y9KbrcLhmM
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Replying to PolinaElectric Mar 13, 2021
Why did it go from 8.6 to 7.9? I remember the first ep got good reviews…What happened?
Some Tharn Type fans not appreciating the Mame shade (and other shade) lol
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Replying to ethan koo Mar 13, 2021
Not sure how I feel about this series so far. It's uneven and there are more "bad" things than "good" so far.…
I personally think Kao has quite good expressive eyes. His acting doesn't bother me and I find it quite natural ? And it's the first time I've seen him acting. I guess it is a matter of preference.

As for the BL tropes, well it is a BL romcom more than a BL parody. If people watch this expecting more, they will be disappointed...Still it is a very nice and enjoyable series....However, this series has many layers which are very interesting to see and analyze :

https://watchinglikeafangirl.tumblr.com/post/645362235038990336/lovely-writer-episode-3-analysis
https://life-rewritten.tumblr.com/post/645242101532114944/lovely-writer-ep-2-the-price-of-ambition
https://life-rewritten.tumblr.com/post/644040294057295872/lovely-writer-ep-1-an-introduction-to-ambition

I find it a little sad that people are always talking about Gene and Nubsib relationships but not other themes mentioned in the show (and there are a lot more!).

You have other subjects mentioned and not only the usual BL tropes : ambition, masks, dream and desire vs the wish to succeed, etc. So I disagree when you seem to think this series is not that original...It is not revolutionary for sure but you have themes and some kind of irony you don't find in other BLs....that doesn't mean other BLS cannot be interesting too though.

Also it is one the rarest series where one male lead always asks the other if he's ok with what he's doing...You don't see this often in other BLs shows...Does that mean Nubsib is free of flaws ? Of course not. He's still a little manipulative...but all of the characters are flawed so...

Besides, I've seen in your drama list you've watched Tharn Type the series. So...

What do you think about the tropes in Tharn Type ?
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Replying to Robin Mar 13, 2021
Really. I'm not surprised. Since the beginning of this series, you can literally feel that some of those commentators…
Thanks for this very interesting point of view....I'm still thinking about your dishonest comment earlier....You seem quite credible by saying this...
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