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This is the saddest, most depressing wedding ever. no one is happy and no one wants to attend.

Question, furong said 23years, soo did 23years pass since what happened to her family? isn't that similar time period to what happened to shen family? didn't it happen like 8years for shen family since??

Although, I don't approve what ml did bc he disrespected fl and her family by not asking for her hand in marriage, it is quite heartwarming to see all his silbings/cousins in one room helping him. It's quite rare to see "shu" and legitimate siblings so harmonious. other dramas, they tend to be jealous and scheme each other.

haha, the drama mentioned it right after

Did anyone notice 2nd lin brother was going to fake a heart attack to stop the planking on ml??

No, i feel like that's not enough, if other higher ranking officials got executed.

Mr. Lu is male version of fl. His whole family was executed like hers and he's the only one left. But, what I don't understand is how he was able to live as his own identity but fl has to hide. When he told her to live her life and not waste her life like him. He's so in grief he drinks daily to numb his pain.

Damn, no one was happy with the royal marriage decree. both moms' fainted. I hate that it was royal decree that killed her family and now this royal decree that binds her freedom to ml.

Just finished ep 25 and too much feels, too much happened

The script has already been leaked and some people have read it. I havent bc for once I don't want to be spoiled more than what I know. Lets just say it's bittersweet

Oh no, well she did say that her dil is a maid in that disbelief voice. I'm sure she will win her over in no time. I do like a bit of angst (not like we haven't had enuf since ep 1)

Yes, that's a good one too!! History will always repeat itself

Malaysians in Kuala Lumpur, you guys are soo lucky!! Ya'll can watch this drama on the big screen from Sept 23-29 at Pavilion Kuala Lumpur.

Exactly!! Low maintenance, ugh I was offended. That means when they marry he doesn't need to impress her at all

Definitely! But for our fl, in her period relying on a good man is her end game

It's like choosing the least worse for her. I'm sure the Lin family will be harmonious. ml's dad barely appears, and his mom is fair.

SAAAMEEE omg, I'm already sad it's half way. I haven't had much of dramas that interested me. I did watch her My Destiny, but I haven't finish, and I powered through her fantasy drama. I tried other dramas, but they didn't catch my interest. I watched half of POJ and dropped. Then I just watch ai dramas until this drama aired. Now I'm obsessed with this drama, it consumes me. and once it ends, I feel lost.

Guys, google Chen Shimei. I'm afraid 2ml will become him hence why it's one of the reasons why I don't think he could be a match for fl

Right! I'm so surprised haha, I love that this drama reached the legal field. I am more convinced now

In summary she made 3 points for love brained girls:
1.Calc your own interests when choosing a partner, this isn't being calculative this is self perservation.
At least look at 3 things
-household chores after marriage and the bulk of expenses who will should that
-your career would it be sacrificed
-his risks, will it be counted on your head. If it's not sorted out prior to marriage then it becomes your risk
2. Dont let his kindness bind you. His kindness is his quality, your well-being is the very purpose of marriage, no matter how good that person is, if it costs you your entire life to support him, then that goodness is not meant for you.
3. keep the power of choice in your grasp, the best end result isn't about marrying to wealthy faily, but having a room to your self, and a livelihood. Don't have to watch others' emotions and social cues to live your life. LX already achieved this so don't return it back.

OMG, a beijing family divorce lawyer made a video to clarify why lx shouldn't marry han scholar! This is hilarious, I wish i could share with yall