Is there something wrong with me. Everyone abandons me. (!,!) Why does the children have to pay for the wrongs of the adults? Uggh ZQ, theres nothig wrong with you. I slightly dread the next episode. Although i noe CT will turn up sooner or later and LX needs closure, but i feel so uncomfortable evytym i see her. Like theres red ants crawlig over my body. Also afraid of the hurtful thgs she might say or do to JJ, as Li ba's afraid of.
Her kiss in the 27th episode looked fake. It showed that she was hesitant to kiss him. She did it like, she was…
If u compare with love o2o which was a hit back then n was touted for its many kisses n overall generous romance..n see the female lead's passive to no response to male lead's kissing.. that was way way more evident. Jj and Lx's kiss nvr looked that way. JJ is just more shy, and the tree kiss scene was technically her 2nd proper kiss from bf, which she was learning to respond..and maybe by the time she wanted to kiss back..LX stopped..hence her huge eyes staring back at LX .
I can empathize with both mothers, Chen Ting (Ling Xiao's mother) and Hei Mei (Ziqiu's mother). They are not bad…
Actually after watching last night's episode and rewatching the one before that. I wonder if ChenTing's psychological issues were properly address n treated aft the death of her daughter, would it turn out differently. Given that its such a stigma and even Ling ba's reaction about this sort of illness, it seem they nvr see it as somthg that needed the right treatment immediately. .im also thking the emotional support from Ling ba is lacking.. even LX says his dad doesnt balance work and family well.
It's definitely pity, haha. But it's more of an inside joke thing at this point. It's mainly bc everyone in the…
Haha dont u love the screenwriter, so golden these lines. JJ again effectively use "pity" again when she coax him to share how his life was in singapore. I love that true to JJ's personality, the way she talks, and switch between joking/emphatising ..coaxing/teasing her brothers to get them to open up and share instead of clamping up/retreating.
Interesting write up. Makes me thk of my own opinions. Age gaps dont actually bother me as much as other red flags: eg. Story characters that are Teacher- student romance, older man involve with a minor, stocklohm syndrome type of love. Or super dumped down female characters with pea-sized brain and no redeeming character. I also notice that i dont care real age noonas with younger men if their character isnt noona romance. Hence obvious noona romance dramas usually im not interested to watch. But a romance drama that a slightly older actress who plays a character age younger than herself (and doesnt look her age) im fine with that
Can't claim to be a real expert but from what I can tell, the main cast has either filmed using their own voices…
Yup. Seven is from Beijing academy and speaks in a clear mainstream mandarin tone, it is rare for her to be dubbed. So far this drama keeps evyone's natural voice. U would notice tang Can's voice and intonation to be bit heavy but they didnt dub her either.
"I've taken a look at the one who I love from far away. He's so shining and complete, far away in the center of…
Yes JJ's narration is really the nail to the coffin. An outsider would look at LX and thk wow so perfect- tall, handsome, young denstist. Thk is depression can take away a physically healthy person anytym. Glad that he has a strong will to live. I jus want to see him break out of that bleak line of thought. In many ways i thk his mum might ultimately be the one that allows him to truly shed it. Bcause his mum blamed him for the death of his sister and refuse to let him mourn and remember her in a healthy way. His "illness" and trauma already began before the 9yrs stint in Singapore..which further compounded the problem. So im praying that ChenTing can deal with her own demons and acknowledge her part in causing LX's health issues. Similarly ZQ's issues on abandonment might only be put to rest thru HeMei as well. I felt the ones that cause the issues are the ones that are needed to clear up the mess..coming full circle.
Besides mental challenges, special need kids are not acknowledge early enough with treatment and management bringing…
Yes i was suprise with the development on He Mei's child. I intially tot would be a normal plot device. Theres really alot thay this drama is addressing and i appreciate the subtle and not subtle ways they show it to us
I would imagine the name to have the same characters or homophones of their names, given Ling Xiao such a sentimental…
Yes LingXiao is actually a vy interesting character. He has some black belly characteristics but is also particularly sensitive and vulnerable. U cant ever doubt the depth of his feelings for JJ, somtyms i fear JJ might go up in flames the way he stares at her.
Lol guys just to share on Go Ahead's official weibo, they invite people to guess and suggest the name LX planned for his n JJ's kid. Haha currently the biggest contender is Ling Ling Qi (which sounds similar to 007). Gives me bellyache from laughing too much.
Aiya 1episode tonight is really not enough. But tonight's episode the best part was JJ's phonecall to dad. My heart was so full and grinning ear to ear watching that scene. Love the analogy Li ba made that evyone goes to JianJian to refuel.
I have an uneasy feeling - something ominous is going to happen.
Have you watched the trailer for next episode? Some of your questions would be answered there. Jj really is his whole world, and to not sink he wants to grab hold of her and get married the next day if he could. Thats when JJ finally asked him the right questions. His life in singapore besides school, caring for his mum n sister, what else did he do. He said missing JJ and home n daydreaming. He had depression evy single day for the last 9yrs. A normal person doesnt really understand what a depressed person's world is like. Someone told me its waking up and hard to get out of bed each day, bcz evythg is mundane and bleak and meaningless..luckily LX was smart enough to acquire MY to provide him with the needed dose of JJ to help him get thru dark days.
I have an uneasy feeling - something ominous is going to happen.
While i was feeling heartache i too feel like my innards are rolling too. That theres gonna be more to com that will wring my heart even worse. LX's mum will surely reappear too. Shes way to fake in her pleasantries on the fon. Then theres the girl LX mentioned that help him out in uni. I felt like that was mentioned for a purpose
Hurt so bad for LX and ZQ. ZQ toiling away last 7yrs silently. N still nursing mum abadonment. LX broken emotionally by the needy mother; psychologically and emotionally drained by 9yrs living in a place he didnt want to be in..missing JJ and home evy single day,evy single moment. The kind of living hell worst than any physical injury. I wonder from which deep well of hurt did the writers pluck this story from. Such pain. I bleed for ZQ and LX. And now that JJ is truly aware of the scope of hell they went thru. I cant wait to see wheels and means of healing them in motion. Need to stock up on kleenex..
Hurt so bad for LX and ZQ. ZQ toiling away last 7yrs silently. N still nursing mum abadonment. LX broken emotionally by the needy mother; psychologically and emotionally drained by 9yrs living in a place he didnt want to be in. I wonder from which deep well of hurt did the writers pluck this story from. Such pain. I bleed for ZQ and LX. And now that JJ is truly aware of the scope of hell they went thru. I cant wait to see wheels and means of healing them in motion. Need to stock up on kleenex..
He will be. I thk of this as a healing drama. We are watching the process of all our leads find their happiness. And both male leads to face their demons, and find their peace with the help of the family, the people who love them. I thk ZQ needs to find the best way to love himself. He is still holding on to that tag, that brand of "abandon". Like Li ba said, he has a "xing jie", a "knot" in his heart..which will eventually unravel
Why does the children have to pay for the wrongs of the adults?
Uggh ZQ, theres nothig wrong with you.
I slightly dread the next episode. Although i noe CT will turn up sooner or later and LX needs closure, but i feel so uncomfortable evytym i see her. Like theres red ants crawlig over my body. Also afraid of the hurtful thgs she might say or do to JJ, as Li ba's afraid of.
Their sofa kiss looked more comfortable imo.
Age gaps dont actually bother me as much as other red flags: eg. Story characters that are Teacher- student romance, older man involve with a minor, stocklohm syndrome type of love. Or super dumped down female characters with pea-sized brain and no redeeming character.
I also notice that i dont care real age noonas with younger men if their character isnt noona romance. Hence obvious noona romance dramas usually im not interested to watch. But a romance drama that a slightly older actress who plays a character age younger than herself (and doesnt look her age) im fine with that