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Theres so many people that it may difficult to manually moderate, but a general auto mod would be good to limit constant spamming. But it also drives engagement on site... so idk

As complex as a environmentally polluted puddle.

Yeah. Being depressed isn't an excuse for being a shit human being. Depressed people deserve better than to be grouped with this. Mental health isn't excuse to treat people, esp, who support you like shit.

So you bring a morality contest around cheating and rape, but not anywhere else... do you see the hypocrisy? You either have the morality or you don't, you don't get to around calling everyone a prude because they have sense of morality yet hold on when it's comfortable.

I have no issue with anyone watching anything. Just people need to stop pretending it's more profound when it isn't because people are upset. It's akin to to those art pieces that use manure in it and act as if they have done something grand.

This is a reality TV melodrama soap opera, yet people are acting like it's a masterpiece shaming anyone else with any media literacy. That's the issue.

My favorite shows are about depth and deep topics. Some concerning topics much heavier than this, school bullying, murder, terminal illness. I promise you a pathetic character in their drama stage is not center piece of deep writing.

it's sad how any comments here discussing how superifical and pathetic the characters are dismissed as not having this special dust that makes so oh and mighty.

No one is saying she isn't depressed, depression is just not merely an excuse. It's not great to use mental health as an excuse to be a harmful person. She never once told anyone in her family or even sought help. She told a man who literally is a loan shark and harrassed her deepest darkest secrets? Do you seriously live in sunshine and rainbows or patheticness?

Deep topics have existed for centuries, accepting bottom barrel characters in name of depth is only excuse for self suffering and inadequacy.

Have some media literacy for goodness sake, or at the very least stop shaming people for having any.

What morality contest? I mean, at this point, why not make the SML a rapist and add that as a touch of pretentious "romance"? Where do you draw the line for where you lose any sense? And when you draw it, why do it then? And if you don't, what makes you have any sense of good story telling? To take away morality, is to take away humanity.

I'm sure most people aren't having issues with the topic being discussed but justification. No drama has a justification where a wife beater is given grace. It's intellectual hypocrisy to gravel at poor food because it's suited in a fancy bowl.

Really odd tbh. Happens much more in reality though, but yeah.

Exactly LOL. He needs to therapy and get some self respect.

I mean, maybe someone else will do to you?

That's why she should have gone to therapy, but that takes accoutability.

Oh, no, what a unique thing. The loan shark douche is impressed by a woman...when will women stand up?

She's pathetic, immature, and lacks respect and self respect. Difficult undercuts it.

That was not the best way. It just showed how pathetic the "relationship" has come. Have maturity and decency to end a relationship yourself and not be a coward.

Exactly!
"If you can find complexity and nuance in lies, deceit, and the betrayal of the people who love you the most, you don't sound all that mature to me. You sound like wisdom is chasing you, but you are much faster."
😂😂😭 I love that!!

the least toxic thing would be for them to go diff ways

Some flaws and mistakes are bigger than others, and continiously making them without repenting, learning, or doing anything from them makes a terrible pathetic person who only can help themselves.

Psychologically, unforunately, the more repeated and shown the more normalized and "okayfied" something is. It's why so many people are defending the SML and hating the SFL.

It's very simplified to excuse someone shitty behavior bc of a "dark past", he literally commits violence against the FL...
And there was nothing the ML and SFL currently have done, grasping at straws to excuse the shitty. Do you believe men and women cannot interact at all in a professional manner?

The second ML actually does violence against women and the FL commits violence against herself by playing along with him.
Please, give women some more respect and grace.

Therapy would be easier.