Completely separate from the drama, sort of, thoughts:
A young man just out of his teens rescued by a pretty older woman from a life of abuse and poverty could mistake this woman as his life long love because he's never had any other dating experience
A woman who has left a gaslighting husband who cheated on her and showed her no sympathy after losing a child could have an attachment to a young man who will go out of his way to do acts of service. But does it come a place of lack or real romantic feeling?
Post Note: After my divorce I was in a mixed age meetup group and that's when younger men seemed to show interest in me. They might just have done kind hearted things or actually a bit more assertive thingsthan that. I didn't pursue anything but coming from a marriage where I didn't get any positive affirmations towards the end it was tempting. It will be interesting to see how their relationship develops. We are halfway through at this point.
There is really no fillers in this drama. There's 30 episodes so I have by episode 20 the writers don't throw a whole lot of extra stuff in or slow it down so the storyline becomes a stand still. So many cdramas are ruined 3/4 into the drama
I've just been browsing through the drama but I went through episode 9 and the one man tells his girlfriend of course he wants kids. Easy to say but not so easy , all the time, for a woman in her 40's. I'm saying that as a woman who had my child without intervention at 38.
van disgraces us bisexuals 😭😭😭i hope you understand what i mean hahah
the stereotype that bi people can't be trusted not to cheat. Van is completely selfish knowing what a good person Farm is. If you want to screw up find another man who is a player too.
This episode gave me boston infidelity ick. I have zero tolerance for cheating. I'm thinking at some point farm will cut him loose and van will be miserable. Farm has been pinning for van but there's probably a lot of other boys around who are already interested in farm. Van needs to see if he doesn't become serious person he's going to lose out. Even with the women he's been dating he hasn't been serious. Either realize you're not a monogamous person and find someone else who is ok with an open relationship or decide to do the right thing.
That f*cker Van can't be faithful for 1/4 of an episode. Farm deserves better.
definitely. Saying he didn't know the woman doesn't make it better and if you know you can't control your behavior while drinking it's time to stop drinking.
I'm not okay with what Van did. Like, at all! If Farm hadn't seen them almost kissing, he would have gone all…
At this point I think farm should distance himself. I'm not sure if Van is confusing not wanting to lose the closeness he has with farm to real romantic attraction. If he's bi he can still be faithful.
Watching E9 and my heart aches for young Li Wu. If one has gone through loss or abandonment, it is so easy to…
I didn't like that she didn't even let him know she got busy with work and couldn't come pick him up. That's what you do for a family member or friend.
Why didn't they take the lemon seed out of the strawberry jam? I guess it's not in the script so they didn't do it.
Why is there a ceramic carved pumpkin in her living room? Do people in China celebrate Halloween?
How could she walk in those platform patent leather shoes?
A young man just out of his teens rescued by a pretty older woman from a life of abuse and poverty could mistake this woman as his life long love because he's never had any other dating experience
A woman who has left a gaslighting husband who cheated on her and showed her no sympathy after losing a child could have an attachment to a young man who will go out of his way to do acts of service. But does it come a place of lack or real romantic feeling?
Post Note: After my divorce I was in a mixed age meetup group and that's when younger men seemed to show interest in me. They might just have done kind hearted things or actually a bit more assertive thingsthan that. I didn't pursue anything but coming from a marriage where I didn't get any positive affirmations towards the end it was tempting. It will be interesting to see how their relationship develops. We are halfway through at this point.