sweet alma

They are two sides of one coin . I imagine the husband in flourished peony would end up doing the same shit to FL if he was talented and had the power like the husband in the double . His attitude is inexcusable

at certain point , I feel that he is delusional

LC got his karma back for what his family did to mudan , the issue is he is going to be the true villain based on his reaction at the end of ep 28

That's why I'll wait 😂, my brain can't process these exciting dialogs

thank you for reply . I started ep 28 and it was confusing. I'll do the same by waiting for better translation

Is the available translation understandable ?

I'm really glad to know that she is doing well

It is really sad , I really don't know what to say . I think your friend should ask for help from psychologist and one of the organization which helps domestic violence victims . She needs someone to pull her out of that jail created by the society. That aunt is really hopeless and she cares about her social image the most . Hopefully , the parents of your friend would speak with the husband and to convince him to seek psychological therapy for his extreme unacceptable behavior because he is a danger to his wife , children if they have and the society.

I felt sorry for her because she was trapped by her traumas and without wake up call , it would be impossible to get over that prison. Even nowadays there are women who still return to their abusive husbands and what they need are financial support and psychological counselling , in that time , there was no mental health care.

Shengyi represents a type of woman who was belittled by her family and was verbally and physically assaulted by her husband . Her story is a lesson and kind of a wake up call for these women to choose a different life by relying on themselves .

me too . What hurts the most is that there are still women like her in our current time

She is obsessed with him and at same time , she is a control freak

This drama is all about karma and greediness from one side and goodness from the other side . I would simply say that ML's life was destroyed by his mother who is the villain of this show.

I watched it at asiaflix
https://asiaflix.net/show/my-love-by-my-side/674f4d88d7a0bd34a22e1a5f

I just don't feel that she is her friend and like you said people change with the time . For the main love , love is more complicated than it looks for third parties. ML has to right to move after hearing that from FL , but he didn't because it takes time to heal alone and to start a new relationship just after years of waiting wouldn't be fair for the new partner.

yes, in ep 22 the justice brought back

Let's say I pity him as a friend but as a friend , I should respect his choice . In real life , a friend can give advices, but mustn't intervene with their friend's romantic relationships because if they move on based on that friend advice but they end up miserable with their new relationship or regretful for not giving a second chance for their previous relationship , they will end up blaming it all on that friend .
Honestly, I want ML and FL to move on but they must be the ones to decide and to bear the responsibility of their choices.
The funny thing is that nobody is dating and it is all based on rumors . This drama will show us if her friend is right or she is the one who created the mess .

It is obvious that she is still in love with him and if her friend was a true friend , she would at least stop bringing ML updates to FL. She is just trying to separate ML and FL without taking in consideration their true feelings . They're adult and they should take responsibility for their mature decisions whether by moving on or starting over . The friend said that she wanted them to be happy but she is just ruining their chance to make the choice on their own.

It is the fault of her friend who is spreading false rumors about ML and FL dating other people. FL and ML both love each other but the rumors are killing their romance . Honestly , I would prefer seeing them to grow up as person and to move on , however , whether in drama or real life , we can't control people's hearts .

Shengyi is without remorse and she should have taken in consideration what FL had done for her . I think she got her punishment by losing her friends and being married to that jerk .
The only thing which can make me feel sorry for her is that she is an ancient time woman and it is hard to have a wake up call , so it's impossible to fix her .