sweet alma

It is obvious that she is still in love with him and if her friend was a true friend , she would at least stop bringing ML updates to FL. She is just trying to separate ML and FL without taking in consideration their true feelings . They're adult and they should take responsibility for their mature decisions whether by moving on or starting over . The friend said that she wanted them to be happy but she is just ruining their chance to make the choice on their own.

It is the fault of her friend who is spreading false rumors about ML and FL dating other people. FL and ML both love each other but the rumors are killing their romance . Honestly , I would prefer seeing them to grow up as person and to move on , however , whether in drama or real life , we can't control people's hearts .

Shengyi is without remorse and she should have taken in consideration what FL had done for her . I think she got her punishment by losing her friends and being married to that jerk .
The only thing which can make me feel sorry for her is that she is an ancient time woman and it is hard to have a wake up call , so it's impossible to fix her .

I understand your point

Most of drama viewers are women and Korean women are suffering from Korean men like deepfake , taking pictures of them in public toilets and rape when they're drunk, so the best story to watch is not about 90 percent of men but about the pure ML . It is about what the Korean audiences want .
There is another popular drama called love scout , ML is different from pure virgin ML . You can watch it in case you want to break free from pure ML .

It is just drama and it's up to the writer what to show us like you said . In real life , there are people who date or have never dated , love or have never loved and live differently and they react based on their traumas , past experiences and future visions . We all know that FL and ML are fictious characters but they are for sure similar to real people in a way or another. I personally don't see myself in this drama , but as a viewer , I would like to see psychological romantic story without judging the leads . At the end , I would like to just enjoy this drama and I don't care about leads dating life because the story is more than that .

I read synopsis of drama in mydramalist and viki and I don't find anything about FL playing around , however , if she did , it would align with the drama because she was labelled as bit*ch just because her mother is foreigner and her father owns a motel and maybe the society pushed her to rebel in that way . This drama is about FL suffer with the society judgement and misconceptions .
On the other hand , when she left the town , she wanted to cut ties with everyone included ML because they would remind her with the past which she wanted to forget . FL has the right to have a life in a big city , even I still believe she has an issue with men.
For ML , he lives in small town and he hadn't the chance to meet many women except the daughters of the neighbors , so he couldn't move on from FL .
We're still at the beginning of the drama and the whole drama is about FL getting over her past and finding happiness , so it is too early to judge.
At the end , people have different preferences when it comes to choosing their partners.

We all have different perspectives

Unfortunately, but this how the world should be . Mental health is a serious issue and it is not something that can be treated lightly .Even if the world is cruel , there must a be a bright side and good caring people who would stand by others in need .

I believe even the crazy person is a victim of his/ her family , neighborhood, society , work environment and his /her own expectations and disappointments. That person should be treated with dignity and respect even if we don't understand him/her. That person needs warmth and help in order to live a better life.

I see people complaining about ML waiting for FL for 12 years but from the opposite side , FL did the same . She lived in a neighborhood where everyone hated her and gossiped about her . She felt that she was unwanted child even with the efforts that her father was making for her ,and her feelings are related to her mother and probable unwanted pregnancy . ML brought her the warmth and he is her especial first pure love . She has been going through inner fights and she hasn't gone over her past traumas especially every time she goes back to her neighborhood , they put the salt on her wounds. She is acting like bit*ch but she is not , it was the image that she puts in order to protect her self as her defense mechanism while dealing with people who refuse to accept mixed race .
I believe FL has never dated anyone except ML and she was joking with SML when she said that she may know him unless they slept together. FL has an issue with men and ML is the exception .

true

You made me realize the reason behind him giving her the rabbit .

Are they going to be immortals ?🤔

I like your explanation for Liu Chang attitude and I think he just needs to grow up and break free from his traumas . We still have 42 eps so I believe we'll see the changes to the best in his attitudes.

He is like spoiled limited boy and he blamed FL without taking in consideration her situation. He wanted to be righteous officer but he is incompetent because before serving the people , he should first learn to have a voice in his family and to be responsible for his decisions . I think he was portrayed that way in order for us to see some personality development during the upcoming eps.

I feel that he is her best partner among other actors who worked with her

toxic one sided love

He started developing feelings for her after seeing the cruelty of the princess

unfortunately , he quit the acting.
https://dramapanda.com/2025/01/li-mingde-announces-hes-quitting-showbiz.html