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Here it did not happen. Don't project your experience.
Especially since the OP did not even say they dropped the show. They just said they are disappointed so far. So no, it's not necessary.
The "PS" in your comment is amazingly unnecessary.
For me, this season was really good in terms of the story, and even tho the execution could have been slightly improved, i love that we saw the characters in context outside of their relationship.
They used the tropes in the best way possible.
To be honestly, I specialized in clinical and neuropsychology, and most of the focus was put on the neurological disorders, so it's a bit different branch then affective and personality disorders (sure, technically they all connect coz brain, but with strictly neuro-issues, you can point the cause in more specific way and the symptoms are far less... wishy washy, same with diagnosis)
Not to mention you did not say the symptoms become less severe, you said you grow out of your mental issues, that's a different statement that has a different meaning.
I'm not saying Ji Woo is an angle and shit shitty behavior should be excused and everyone should sympathize with him, but people make him into a psychotic monster which is ridiculous.
I would advice you to read a little bit on depression and low self esteem issue (in more clinical levels, not someone just not being a complete confident king lol), because the lack of motivation to change fits perfectly into te picture, it's literally part of the "problem" and why it's extremely hard to deal with issues like that.
From psychological perfective, his actions make perfect sense when compared with the real behavior of people who deal with similar issues.
Sorry, but it's a fact Lhong organized gang rape on a minor, and then face zero consequences, and was even emotionally supported by some side characters in that special episode. Mame literally has rape fetish going on for gat characters, as majority of her novels has rape in them. It's not just one or two stories, it's literally most of her stories.
What I'm saying - I don't think the problems they are facing right now came out of nowhere. And to be honest, it's not like the promoted season 2 as a fluff cute thing either. So jumping to any conclusion - be it angsty or cute, would be on the viewers not on the writers.
I'm not saying what Ji Woo did was fine, I'm saying calling him trash, abuser etc is a ridiculous and not fitting the actions he made.
"Imagine your boyfriend leaves you with just a note, and later on he treats you like shit despite you always putting in the best effort." He would not be treated as anything if he did not put himself in the position to be treated as such. That's my point - it was not Ji Woo who looked for Seo Joon to hurt him over and over again, it was Seo Joon who kept being clingy after each and every rejection. So saying Ji Woo is an abuser, because he keeps being mean to Seo Joon, because Seo Joon does not want to give up and keeps coming back is ridiculous. It does not even fit the typical cycle of abuse with honeymoon time and Ji Woo trying to keep Seo Joon close to him just to hurt him more later. He kept rejecting Seo Joon. His emotions got the best of him once that led to that kiss and them sleeping together, but it was one event.
Just get your sh*it together! They should have changed the mood after the kiss in Ep 4 < yeah coz kisses and love can cure mental struggles... oh if life was this easy 🙃
I honestly don't think what he said was abuse. Not everything shitty someone says can be put on the same box as abuse. Not every hurtful interaction is an abuse. People drop abuse and abuser so fucking easily nowadays the words has little to no meaning.
While there is no rape between main couple, the lack of consent and the "forcing yourself until the other person gives up" ideas are in it.
But some of you act as if he is Satan incarnate and eats newborn babies as a hobby 😂
He is not abuser for fuck sake. All he did was leave without a proper explanation. If that's your standard for abuse, you truly did not experience much in your life. Him being indecisive in treating Seo Joon later on is the result of Seo Joon clinging to him. It's not like Ji Woo chased after Seo Joon to torment him. Seo Joon kept seeking Ji Woo over and over again, no matter how many times Ji Woo rejected him.
Did Seo Joon deserve an explanation for the break up? Sure. Was it an awful thing to do to leave like that? Sure. But you are acting as is he was emotionally abusing him, which is not true. They both have issues. Their life situation with Seo Joon being a celebrity adds to the complexity of the potential problems they might face.