John Smith

After seeing the two latest episodes (27 and 28), that is why he married her. Not really, but I think it would be really hard to find an overall more attractive FL than Yang Zi Shan's Mu Wan Qing of episodes 27 and 28. Really good writing and directing, with superb acting.

I cannot say I agree with everything you said, but I do think that if you are a true fan of a celebrity, you should support them in a healthy way. It is probably just as important to support them when they do something wrong or something you do not agree with. Support is not just agreeing with a person. A true fan would never mobilize to attack or blindly put a shield up to defend. Encouragement to do the right thing, and kind words can offer support as well.

That actually makes a bit more sense. You seem to have a good recollection about events. Did you step on her shoes because you thought she was crazy for wearing them? Or perhaps you did not have white sneakers and were envious? Envy is a sin, and dealing with it can stop the darkness from growing in your heart. Redemption is a pretty strong word if you have not seen her in so long. Yeah, it could have led to something very negative, but if you never mentioned how hurtful it was, then it could just be a knot in your heart. Does not make it any less real. I hope you are able to get the help you need, and everything works out is a positive way for all involved.

I think she just could not wrap her mind around someone like him. Whatever she seemed to expect, he was the opposite. He kept all the secrets from her, seemed to know all of hers, and no one seemed to mind. When she had a problem, he solved it, even when she thought he did not know. She has such a strong personality, not being able to ever get the upper hand (over someone she probably saw as simple) probably bothered her immensely. Then, she starts to accept him and like him, and probably confuses and bothers her more. I have really enjoyed the dynamic between the lead couple.

Why would someone do that? Bullying or false accusations of bullying are matters with long reaching consequences, so no matter what happened it can be considered serious.

Of course she did mind since he was a stranger. She could have steadfastly refused to marry anyone. She could have made him stay in another place. She could have gotten a divorce five minutes after getting married without telling anyone outside her family. I think that marrying him made all the uncomfortable things you would associate with two strangers living together easier to accept for the viewer. And part of me thinks that the reason he was able to get through to her was that some part of her subconscious did not forget him. It might just be the romantic in me. Yeah, he puts up with a lot to be with her, but she has also tolerated a lot on his side that would go above and beyond what I would expect.

I watched some of the beginning again. I think what a viewer wanted to see or how they wanted to interpret it goes a long way to how you see the start of the story develop. I still think making her get married and her willingly deciding to get married (without knowing who she was marrying) was something that could have either be removed or done in a better way, regardless of the reason the drama used. I think the marriage was a tool that was used to place the mains together at the very beginning, and forcing him into her life. The one real benefit I saw from that is that it seemed subconsciously, she did not mind him in her life. It works with him saving her when they were young, him being forgotten, yet her family being so close with him.

Perhaps they became bullies in part because they did not want to be bullied again. Perhaps the fact that you did not think it a grave matter made them feel that their actions were not of much consequence either.I am not saying one person can make another person into a bully, but we all can make a difference in each other's lives, in a big way or small way, for better or worse.

Thank you for sharing your past experiences. In a world where everyone says bullying is everywhere, yet no one claims to be one, it is refreshing to hear past experiences like yours and several others in this comment section. I think it is important to realize that the emotional damage from bullying often lasts longer than any physical altercations. I do think it might be a bit unfair to think that if you think it is over, then it is over. I do not think someone should be constantly punished or have past events hang over their head forever, but one should never be shocked if their past catches up with them or comes back to haunt them in some shape or form. I do not know about you, but I do not have a PR or legal team that would help me. While we cannot guarantee that we would never hurt anyone, being aware of our actions while seeking to be better make for a much healthier life.

White Snickers were introduced a few years ago. I think you owe an apology to her since she was your friend since kindergarten and then lost contact recently over a candy bar. I do not think we are getting the whole story but thanks for sharing. Nevertheless, it is never too late for an apology, especially with someone you have been friends with since kindergarten.
All of these stories about people coming forward admitting the wrong things they have done (and wanting to make amends) really makes me feel good about my fellow MDLers.

If you have watched at least a few 24 episode Chinese romantic comedies, this was definitely one of them. It did not exceed or disappoint overall, and had some good moments with some questionable ones as well.
One thing that stood out for me was the wardrobe of the FL. I thought it matched her fashion background, and then her CEO status. It may seem minor, but some of these dramas fail at this, and it becomes noticeable the entire drama.
I have seen a few comments about some of the questionable things in the drama as well. The touching of the nose for the "superpower" and noble idiocy. I cannot argue with that. I would also say how cool the FL was to accept his return in the end was not how I would imagine something like that going. I know it was the last half of the last episode, but that seemed way too nonchalant.

I think there is plenty of research available concerning child psychology. I would advise against just using a search engine and using the first thing you find. Too often we search for research that mirrors our thoughts and ideas instead of just facts, especially when they come in conflict with our opinions. You need to research where you get the research. I recommend PubMed. There are also other places out there. If you have a public library, that would be a good place too. Also, check for accredited universities or institutes, plus finding information about the authors should be easy.
I just checked my profile and it contains nothing but a few things in the details section. I cannot see comments on my page. I can promise you that this account was not made simply for that purpose. I have commented in quite a few dramas, articles, and the forum as well. While messages are private, I have carried on conversations there as well. I do value my private messages staying private but you can feel free to look at my public comments. I do try to write as if someone I care about would read them while knowing it is me. I also do not believe everything I read on here and usually take a neutral position. If you want to accuse me of pushing the narrative that we should not judge until we have all the facts, or that there are three sides to a story (your side, my side, and the truth), I would not disagree. That is not so bad is it?

One person called it fighting, another called it bullying and both were there. I do not see how you cannot get more complicated than that.

No problem. If you believe what was said was enough truth, then I can understand that. I have read conflicting reports about the statement, so I feel uncomfortable in taking a side or saying one side is right (or more right) than another.
The situation bugs me as well. For the most part because no matter how it turns out, it probably moved past "simple misunderstanding" and "working it out peacefully." There are also a lot of interests at work fanning flames, tamping them down, pushing lies, distorted truths, and misunderstandings with the goal being their truth, and not the truth.

Didn't he use the company to distract her from the heartbreak of the ex in the first place? If he felt working all the time was unhealthy, she seemed to flippant about accepting any spouse they would accept and getting back to work. I still do not understand why getting married would secure one's position. I know that is how it is written in the drama, but seems so dated. And it was not really a strategic partnership like you see in some other dramas. Company X and Y merge by marriage. I see the story and understand how it is written, but do not like that it was written in the first place and wonder if there would have been a better way to go about things.

What happens if the statement might not be the complete truth? Or a misrepresentation of the truth? Or even a misremembering of the truth? I think if the PR team has everyone focusing on one incident in the fifth grade and taking his word even while admitting he was not completely forthright, then they are doing a good job.
I do hope that things can work out in a way that is beneficial to all parties involved. A gold star sticker if the public can accept it too. I would even consider three or four star stickers if it helps others too.

Why should she have to get married at all? I do not understand threatening anyone with getting married or else. Could the board not accept her and was hoping getting married would "put her priorities in order" and start a family and leave the business to the elders/men? I just think it could have been done better.

The SML really just wore her down by intruding on her life and dragging her into his. Maybe that is what they both needed, but still seemed off to me. Hasty was not a figure of time passed for the second couple, but the hurried sense with which things transpired during episodes. I just did not feel the flow of the relationship matched the words and actions on screen.

It is possible that different eyes and ears saw an d heard things in a different way than me. It has not stopped me from enjoying the drama.

I think burning someone would give anyone trauma. Best friend, friend, or enemy. Small or large burns. Even if you do not become famous you should probably apologize if you have not already. Stuff like that is an issue whether you are famous or not. I never thought an article would resonate so much that others would be willing to share stories as well. You are brave to share your story and I hope things work out.

I thought there were a few missteps early on. I think the first was the scenario of having her get married to stabilize the company. I know it is the engine that drives the drama, but seems like something out of an ancient drama where the princess marries to help her country. She seems to be written as a strong character, but the drama undercut her at the very beginning. Another one would be the 2FL character. She seemed pretty hostile to the idea of dating and even seemed to like the FL. I thought the transition from that to the lovesick puppy was a bit hasty and clumsy. Neither one has prevented me from really enjoying the show. The past few episodes have really (up to 26) gotten better as the main leads share more of their feelings, and their relationship develops.

I think that the incident bears further investigation. I was not there, so I do not know what happened, but the fact that it has stuck in your mind for so long may mean that you have remembered it wrong. Sometimes our brain tries to shield us from traumatic events by either forgetting them or misremembering them. Of course, it is possible that neither party might remember exactly what happened. You refer to her as your best friend so it seems that you are still in each other's lives. It is not my place to tell you what you should do, but if this article has triggered something in your heart, it means that it is important and should not be ignored. It also seems very complicated. I hope for a positive resolution for all of this for you, your best friend, and family and friends surrounding both of you. I know that while you feel comfortable talking about it in public now, at some point it may become a sensitive and private matter. I am glad that articles like this encourage people to open up about their experiences, both positive and negative. You were not the only one who felt the need to apologize, and that was a brave first step. Thank you for being brave.