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Are They still dating; la ik and his gf??? I'm confused.

Could you tell me which episode? The revealed it? The real parents of haochen. Not haoming!

I also want the angst back. I loved the tension so much. It was keeping me on edge.

We still have to suffer because of her ex! Can't they just wrap up their storyline. She’s just being spoon-fed by Xu Yan in exchange for some pretty lousy emotional support.

Just use VPN

Thank you for bringing this. I didn't want to offend some people so I didn't say it but I am pretty Annoyed!
I just skipped their scenes.

P. S: I still can't believe, I loved her so much in my girlfriend is an alien. I guess I was young after all!

Where did you watch it? Is it on insta or X ?

Of all the spoilers above. I am looking forward to this one 🫠

Yeah actually that will be really a good ending

Yes

Exactly! I thought it was just some another theory but damn!!! It's actually same without any minute difference.

I am so shocked! I don't even remember who spoiled this for me, but I couldn't hold myself back from writing this comment. I'm currently watching episode 20, and the spoiler I got was probably around the time episodes 11 or 12 were released. So, here's what I learned back then: two months after Haoming and Fang Yu's breakup, she went to him and told him she was pregnant-but it's not Haoming's child. Fang Yu had another lover, a painter in England, and she was pregnant with his child. I don't know why she lied about it, but the paternity test was tampered with by Fang Lie, and Haoming had no idea. Despite all this, he decided to raise the baby thinking it was his own. I'm going back to watch and continue episode 20!

I am so shocked! I don't even remember who spoiled this for me, but I couldn't hold myself back from writing this comment. I'm currently watching episode 20, and the spoiler I got was probably around the time episodes 11 or 12 were released. So, here's what I learned back then: two months after Haoming and Fang Yu's breakup, she went to him and told him she was pregnant-but it's not Haoming's child. Fang Yu had another lover, a painter in England, and she was pregnant with his child. I don't know why she lied about it, but the paternity test was tampered with by Fang Lie, and Haoming had no idea. Despite all this, he decided to raise the baby thinking it was his own. I'm going back to watch and continue episode 20!

Use VPN AND PLEASE USE SPOILER TAG

Xu Yan was a good wife, mother to his illegitimate son, and dutiful DIL. But what if she was just a simple wife with love? He wouldn't regret it. The shock is his sudden jealousy-he reads emotions so well, yet where does this come from when he never loved her or realized it?

I wish I could feel the same about Haoming, but I don't-I'm just not buying it. Just two episodes showing his past were enough to make the impact raw and unforgettable, yet his present emotions toward Xu Yan feel shallow in comparison. The moments of him remembering his late girlfriend were intense, organic, and deeply affecting-but now, his current feelings seem forced and unconvincing. Him sitting alone in the office might have shown regret, but it didn't feel like a real realization-I wasn't impressed or satisfied. Honestly, I don't think he deserves her right now. Him coming into her house and acting jealous out of nowhere was completely out of character-it was just so lame.

The problem with this arc is that Haoming's love feels completely manufactured instead of organic. His regret doesn't come from raw self-awareness, it comes from guilt and people around him constantly reminding him of her worth. That makes the emotion shallow. Real love in a story should be born from an internal realization-that even if the world stays silent, life without that person feels empty, helpless, and incomplete. That's the raw, organic awareness that makes love believable and powerful. But here, everything is pushed onto him from the outside, which makes the romance feel forced rather than real.

Finally, someone said it! The writers are being far too easy on the male lead-why should his family have to push him back to Xu Yan when a man in love should already know the pain of being apart from the one he loves? His sudden jealousy feels out of place, almost artificial, as if the writers decided he needed a convenient emotional trigger rather than letting his feelings grow naturally. Love isn't supposed to be switched on by external pressure; it should burn quietly, steadily, and painfully on its own. That's why this whole setup feels shallow, and the emotions never truly land.

I think that is because his father is at hospital. May be some kind of attack or something.

I guess even the writers are biased here, just like Xu Yan's Parents.