whoissilmoy

you're 8 yrs behind

I like this actor. Why does he have so few roles? He's only 27. I saw he has a leading role finally in 2025, but viewership is very low. On Douban, it's too low to have a rating, but the comments are mostly 5 stars. I hope he can get more roles or maybe he's a part time actor?

so, when xu kai said no more emotionless characters, he wasn't kidding around!

It was like that for Moonlit Reunion too. There were names but those names I think were pen names, so no one really know the background of those writers. You won't find anything on them.

There was never a scandal. The black PR machine introduced that loaded word—‘scandal’—knowing that if they repeated it enough, people would start repeating it too. That’s the strategy: framing and repetition. They rely on the public to amplify it for them, often without realizing it. Some do it unintentionally (like you might be doing), but others do it deliberately. Then his haters embellish the narrative, creating a feedback loop that sustains itself.

Xu Kai has never gambled, stop spreading lies.

Macau was a Portuguese colony for over four centuries before being handed back to China on December 20, 1999. Macau had a thriving gambling industry long before 1999. In fact, gambling was legalized there as early as 1847 under Portuguese rule. After the handover, it became a Special Administrative Region (SAR) of the People's Republic of China, operating under the “one country, two systems” framework.

Unless you don't provide source of the article, I don't believe it. No one knows his contract details. That's preposterous. There was never an "ex-gf." It's all fabricated.

You must be watching those made believe YT videos on Xu Kai. They even reported he was in a plane crash and died.

Of course it's from the "same person." That's why the girl's statement ended with allegations of gambling (winnings that she claimed she transferred to him, but he didn't accept it). That ending was a planned segue to gambling allegations if the cheating didn't work. The whole thing was a professional setup by someone who used these people to carry it out. Neither had an ounce of evidence that's why you don't' hear anything more about it.

TSY
Nominated Best Actress 11 times
Won Best Actress 7 times for 5 different dramas
Won Breakthrough artist 2 times

it could be more, it's not up to date

TSY fans are nice. Too classy for trolls. They didn't take the bait. Honestly, the way fans carry themselves often reflects the kind of artist they admire.

With all due respect, do you understand that not everyone likes what you like?

The algorithm is built on assumptions and criteria that MDL themselves define — and they can code any rule they want. There’s no transparency. It feels to me like the MDL team ultimately makes the final judgment.

I'm just sharing what I see on Douban which is not always up to date.

was she 16 when she filmed this?

this drama doesn't even have enough user ratings on Douban to get a rating

I really don’t think Xu Kai should step away from costume dramas just yet—he’s only 30, still in his prime for those roles. Doing one a year would be ideal; it keeps him in the genre while leaving room for a modern drama too. The right project often comes when the timing is just right.

I felt the daughter and son were emotionally disconnected from their parents — like they were living in completely different worlds. There was little effort on their part to understand the experiences or perspectives their parents came from, which made the generational divide feel even more painful. The communication between them was strained and often ineffective.

Every time I cross the street I look both sides and reminded of him.

After I watched Best Choice Ever, I realized that the actress in Raised the Red Lantern was the actress who played the mom here.