Bai Hehuai Lover

happy ending. the ml is cordial with the sfl and she constantly bulldozes his boundaries. people in the comments like to victim blame him for this bc he's nice to her.

listen I get the frustration with wanting more physical affection between yunjae and "jihun" but are the ppl still mad at yunjae grasping what we saw in the final two episodes??? his mom had a extremely homophobic reaction to the possibility of yunjae having a boyfriend and he still didn't want to break up. when he returns back to korea, yunjae assumes his mom is still probably not going to be okay with their relationship and he asks jieun if the apartment across from her is still free. yunjae is ALL IN. like, yes, the writers made the journey getting there more complicated than they needed to and it would have been nice to see more, but imo it's pretty clear that they were together before jieun transformed back into a woman.

Minhyuk recreating Yuri's dream love confession in the cafe 😭😭 that scene was so cute

yeah it's definitely yunjae, there is no way that moment would be in the promo if it were just some random person. less than 12 hours to find out 👀

can't wait!!!!! ep 5 can't come fast enough 🥰

haven't been able to watch ep11 yet but I think a more fitting comparison than coffee prince is mr queen. as much as I love mr queen, I feel like it was a complete failure at exploring gender and sexuality, and while my girlfriend is the man is deeply, deeply flawed, I feel like it does this better if only because this time we have the visual of two men.

I've been chatting with someone who brought up that this might be trying to gauge audience interest in more overtly queer stories and I mean we'll have to see what happens in the finale, but I think that train of thought is probably onto something.

yeah I haven't watched this yet (I am going to *try* bc I suspect it will be influential to future uncensored chinese bls) but you're saying exactly what I've been thinking bc it really is a pattern that bls eroticize sexual assault and I just.... I don't understand why we are still here in 2025. is2g people just do not know what consent is, cause if they properly grasped the topic there's no way they'd find this anything but horrifying.

I know wedding robes when I see them 😏

it's not even funny how Xiao Shuhe and Duan Ziang have taken over my brain after only 4 episodes. I need the next episode now!!!!

if you scroll further down the comments there's a user who's been subbing it! they're working on ep 8 rn :)

unfortunately this is just the tip of the iceberg 😞😞

24th 9 AM

1) the writers keep finding obstacles (mostly minju atp) to keep them from being alone together 2) yunjae was initiating physical contact in ep9 3) did you miss the bridge scene in ep10??? yunjae is getting comfortable with it and misses "jihun" to the point where he's picturing jieun's male form when talking to her.

you are 100% correct, but arguing with an entitled racist isn't worth your time and energy. you can report comments by clicking the three dots at the bottom of a post, which I would recommend doing (it's what I did last night upon seeing that first comment as well)

yeah I feel like this show kinda relies on cissexist ideas (i.e. women are """"weaker"""" than men) bc yunjae's mom is physically abusive and that's played for jokes and then minju's stalker is portrayed as the very real threat that he is bc he's willing to get physical and he's stronger than minju, but since minju can't overpower yunjae her harassment is treated as comedic even tho she assaulted him (and based on the preview for ep11 she's going to assault him again). gender roles are so ingrained in every society and people reallyyyyyyy need to move past that mentality if there's ever going to be any progress.

"yunjae rejects me every time I talk to him" so you do know that you're bulldozing over his boundaries???? you have your own stalker and you're (rightfully & understandably) mad that he won't respect your boundaries but then you refuse to respect the boundaries of someone you claim to care about????? yeah I'm so done with being nice about it, minju needs to get hit by a bus expeditiously 🙏

god. we literally see yunjae experience a fear response when his mom gets excited about the news of his getting accepted into corning and people STILL want to victim blame him for minju refusing to respect his boundaries bc he does his best to be cordial with her since that's the path of least resistance. y'all hate abuse survivors so much.

THE SCENE ON THE BRIDGE???? HELLO????????????????? this really is an undercover BL lmao

god why is minju so pressed to find "jihun" and talk to him????? jihun never liked you in the first place girl, it's not like you are friends

watched episode 7 bc subs were finally up and nishino telling minami what he likes about her 😭😭😭😭😭 please if the dysfunctional polycule actually becomes a proper 4 way relationship this will be the show of all time I want it so badlyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy