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Bro, how come people not like it! After a long I could finish a BL.

It was so my type. The characters were flawed, unable to understand each other. But they developed so good. The storyline, the pacing, the characters, the actors were so good.
The first episode was so realistic. The approaching, the seeing each other, Lil Jane's struggle to trust Big Jane and so on.
They made dancing together a very special thing. It was their stuff.
And the red flag thing? Well, Big Jane spoke too softly with Lil Jane. Never spoke hurtful things to Lil Jane just because Big Jane was hurt.
His obsession didn't feel creepy to me, was more like devotion.
I think Lil Jane being with Dan was more hurting to see from the pov of Big Jane.
Yes, it was repetitive how they would get separated for some reason and again coming back together but its just how relationships are. And the fact they involved family problems made me get more close to them. Ugh I could talk about it for long.

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the story is real, but i dont want the ending its leading to

While Between Steps attempts to present a grounded, realistic look at healing, the central relationship quickly becomes exhausting due to a massive imbalance in emotional maturity.
Park Min-jae (Choo Young-woo) is a character who has stared death in the face and spent a long time battling severe illness. A person carrying that kind of profound trauma needs a partner who offers a safe harbor, genuine support, and deep empathy. Instead, he is paired with Im Yu-jin (Kim So-hyun)—a sheltered, incredibly spoiled, and self-centered individual who demands that he constantly put her first.
Yu-jin consistently centers herself in every situation, making every single event and conflict about her own feelings rather than showing sensitivity to what Min-jae has endured. Watching her add to his emotional exhaustion and sadness is genuinely painful. A slow-burn romance is only rewarding if the partnership is worth rooting for, but here, the dynamic feels entirely toxic for Min-jae.
I sincerely hope the writers choose realism over traditional K-drama tropes and separate them by the final episode. Min-jae deserves peace, care, and someone who actually knows how to look past themselves to support a partner who has suffered.

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I don't have difficulty suspending disbelief, but...

Good :
-the interactions between the leads at the beginning. Their banter was funny. However, once they got together, they were pretty boring.

Not so good:
-FL looked a lot older than the male
-Get the ML a barrette! His hair was driving me crazy!
-2ML was evil and got away with stuff for TOO long - Started in episode 1 and lasted until episode 23
-Costuming. His suits were just bizarre, and I really don't like the shorts and high heels thing for women.
-ever changing bad guys
-he was trying to become the president, but kept getting demoted, promoted, asked to resign, etc.
-too much focus on the business - filler (is there a rule that Chinese dramas have to be a certain number of episodes? Because, for the most part, in my opinion, they could be cut way back to make them better)

The worst: (for me)
-the strangest time travel story I have seen. She meets and becomes friends with herself 10 years in the past? And I have a hard time believing that the mature woman in the present was the same as the past FL. In the past she was clingy, stalker-ish, childish, immature, needy.
-the 2ML didn't care for her in the past, but when she shows up from the future, he likes her?
-the ending. I'm assuming that 10 years were supposed to have passed (because the office workers have a kid and are pregnant again), but everyone looked exactly the same. I know Asian dramas are big on the long, intense stares, but they were apart all that time and just stood and stared at each other. The ending was abrupt and very underwhelming.

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cutie patootie lil show

What a sweet little show i really enjoyed binging this one.

All the tropes u want from a k drama but most of all I kinda love how they switched up the usual miserable cold chebol heir to being more light hearted and fun all the way through, yet still obviously serious when needed to be.

The mc is also really likeable, I wish more was done to explore her powers further and they didnt just dissapear in the end, k dramas have a habit of just "curing" characters to wrap up plots but I have yet to see a drama that allows its female lead to still struggle with their problems but still find happiness. I know we're meant to suspend our beleifs, she has a big monologue about how that makes k dramas so special, but I feel its sad to watch someone be cured or fixed when the real message should be theres nothing wrong w them in the first place.

Unrelated to that, Grandma chebols hair was immaculate she served and slayed that bob

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storyline

damn, 1 hour n 44 minutes wasted on a movie with a ridiculously messy plot n characters who make the dumbest decisions. 😭😭 such a waste of time. out of all those characters, not a single one seemed interested in actually breaking the curse. n don't even get me started on all the unexplained plot points. where did the church suddenly come from? why was it on fire? none of these things were properly explained. so many questions, yet barely any answers. honestly, the whole thing felt poorly written and unnecessarily confusing. n can someone please explain why their so called miracles suddenly disappeared the moment they returned to seoul? like, what was the actual reason behind that? was there some kind of condition or limitation to those miracles that the movie simply forgot to explain? because the whole thing makes absolutely no sense. everything just happens out of nowhere, with barely any explanation or proper buildup. it's frustrating because these could've been interesting plot points if the writers had actually bothered to connect everything and give the audience some answers. instead, we're left trying to piece together a storyline that doesn't even seem to understand its own rules. istg, i've never seen a movie leave this many unanswered questions while expecting the audience to just go along with everything. 😭

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Finally, a K-drama that’s actually worth watching!

Tackling such a sensitive topic takes real skill. It’s a fine line to walk: the writers have to handle it with nuance and sophistication, without slipping into vulgarity, while still keeping the story engaging for a broad audience. Judging by the first four episodes, this drama has all the potential to be a success.

I particularly like the contrast between the two main characters’ family backgrounds and their views on relationships. One comes from a traditional, conservative family with clearly defined expectations about family life and the roles of men and women, while the other grew up without those traditional family values. It’s an interesting setup that makes me curious to see how their different perspectives will shape their relationship especially around their line of work. Finally, what I most curious is how it will be accepted by viewers in Korea because even for Western countries it's quite progressive (it's not taboo, but definitely not that topic that will be discussed at family dinner or even friends meetings).

Back to the show. The casting is spot-on. Both the ML and FL fit their characters perfectly, and their chemistry is exactly what this drama needs.

The scriptwriters & director deserve credit as well with some wonderfully subtle humor in the dialogue and scenes that are genuinely hilarious to watch.

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Underrated

What makes Tigers Sniff the Rose so addictive even in its unfinished state is how it handles the characters. Yan Shang is the perfect definition of a "cunning and intelligent" lead who presents a calm, gentle front to the world while holding massive strategy behind his eyes. Paired with a princess carrying a painful past, their shared journey to root out corrupt officials handles the typical "court conspiracy" trope without feeling childish or rushed. Pursuit of Jade might have dominated the global charts earlier in the year, but Tigers Sniff the Rose is carving out a massive name for itself as a masterclass in atmospheric, smart historical romance.

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More Than Just NC: Sex as Storytelling

This review section, unfortunately, reminds me of the commentary for 'Seoul Trip' and 'The Scandal '. All three spaces are filled with audiences angry about the mere presence of nudity and sex. It makes me wonder: is the audience completely unaware of eroticism as a genre? Erotic movies/films/stories that use sex as the driver of the story? Where sexual acts or tension serve as turning points that alter relationships, escalate conflict, or expose secrets?

While I disagree with the overall hate, I do agree with a few specific critiques:

🍆 The editing could have been better. Some scene transitions are jarring and confusing

🍆The story could have taken a beat to explain Kang Do Jin to us more. For example
• Why was he so attracted to Lee Seon U? According to my understanding, that 1st night in his house wasn't a coincidence, or simply a chance that the heavens dropped in his lap. He wanted that man and found a way to get him into his house. He undressed in front of him to seduce him.

• What was Kang Do Jin's relationship, or rather history, with the creepy client Mr. Baek? Did they know each other b4 the contract? Or was the dude just a creep to everyone?

🍆 I'd have liked a scene or two after the 3some incident to see how the two dealt with the emotions from that night. Hot as that night was, I'm sure it also carried a lot of anger and hurt. I'd have liked to see how they navigated that. A little side effect from the night can be seen in the later scene where Seon U talks over Do Jin when talking to a client. Do Jin looked shocked, guilty, and later, proud. But how did we get here? I'd have liked to see that.

That said, I do not agree that this drama was just NC for the sake of NC or, even worse, just softcore p🌽rn. All the sex tells you something, if you pay attention. They tell you who the characters are, how their relationship evolves after each encounter - from pure lust to love- and even how the power dynamic shifts within said relationship.

Here's my understanding of these characters

Do Jin
He starts off as a POS, but a POS with a mission. He takes advantage of his position as team leader to make Seon U work overtime. Then takes advantage of the storm to take him home and seduce him, to test the waters. He could've asked Seon U to send him the material once he was done.

Emails exist, but he chose to remain in the office till Seon U was done with work. He could have gotten the man a motel room for the night and gone on his merry way. Hell, he could've let the man have his sofa, but undressed in the bedroom and not sat in the living room with his robe half open, but he didn't.

Imbalanced power dynamics are a staple of psycho-sexual erotic films, often bordering on the taboo. He wants the man, but draws a hard line between personal and professional. Acting like a tyrant at work, pushing his buttons to get a reaction out of him. In some way, he's a bratty 'bottom,' and if their relationship leaned into D/s dynamics, he'd be the bratty sub pushing his soft 'top' to get a reaction so he can hopefully be 'punished' sexually.

Seon U
The story doesn't explicitly tell us why he fell for his boss. How I think of it, however, is in terms of the 'forbidden fruit'. DoJin is untouchable. It's easy to worship the untouchable. To want to impress it. But what happens if you are allowed to touch it? When this far-away thing is finally in your hand, and it's more 'malleable' than you thought?

I think the contrast of 'in-office unmovable Dojin' and 'at home/in secret Do Jin, who lets me touch him, kiss him, and moans in my arms' is very seductive. It's what makes Seon U fall as hard as he did. Sex allows him to see a different side of Do Jin. One that no one at the office sees. When in bed, Do Jin 'submits' to him. Not necessarily because he bottoms for him, but because he lets him do whatever he wants to him. Again, this is very different from in-office boss Do Jin.

However, despite all this, and as much as he likes Do Jin, there is a chasm between them. He cannot cross it because Do Jin won't let him. Won't meet him halfway. So when Do Jin shows up at the hotel room he sent him to, he takes the chance to punish him for it. He hears the apology but chooses to go through with it. To make Do Jin hurt, and for once, to have power over him. As I said before, sex escalated the conflict, altered their relationship, and shifted the power dynamic.

They communicate entirely through sex. It brought them together; it's how they fight and reconcile, and it's what keeps them together

Final Thoughts
No, this is not a show with gratuitous sex scenes. It is a story that successfully uses sex as a vital tool for communication—both between the characters and with the audience.

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10/10 plus an extra 10

From episode 1 to 10, this drama was such a delightful watch. The storyline felt fresh, engaging and gripping, and I genuinely enjoyed every bit of it.

I loved the characters, the humour, the romance, the chemistry and the little moments that made the story so enjoyable. Yeon-su and Dal were an absolute delight to watch, and I particularly loved seeing their relationship evolve.

I honestly don't even know how to put my love for this drama into words. All I know is that it delivered from beginning to end, and I have absolutely no complaints.

A solid 10/10, plus an extra 10 for making me this happy!

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Not all beautiful things always end happily

After watching this, I'm even more curious about NetJJ's '30 DAYS OF US' series. Where both of them are about a relationship that has become 'bland' cz of the differences in desires and hopes of eo, forcing themselves to maintain something that has been destroyed, and try to fix the situation which actually hurts them more

This story isn't what we usually expect when we see LGBT+ series, where it ends happily and they'll be together in the future. It's more complicated than that. I'd even say that heterosexual relationships wouldn't be this complicated. They could even separate over issues that heterosexuals would consider trivial

It's not good to compare things, but sometimes it's necessary

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Give this one a try..

I wasn’t aware of the Hidden Love and The First Frost connection but watched it because I’m a Lu Yu Xiao fan ever since I watched her in Love in the Clouds. Maybe watching it without expectations is good?

Loving it 4 episodes in and relishing a modern drama after a streak of historical ones. Lu Yu Xiao is super cute in this role and I’m already feeling the buzz between her the ML. First time watching Lin Yi but he gives off aloof guy vibes similar to Sang Yan.

The second leads are also interesting to watch. Don’t really much for the music at this point but still early days..

Will update as I go..

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