Reviews

The Luke Show

If you’re wondering what this show is about, the answer is simple: Luke. Everything revolves around Luke. Every event, every conversation, and every emotion somehow comes back to him. I honestly can’t remember the last time I watched a drama where the male lead was put on such a ridiculous pedestal.

K-dramas love their cold, handsome, powerful CEOs, but usually we eventually get to see their flaws, awkward moments, or funny sides, which makes them more likable. Here, though, we’re constantly being told how amazing this guy is, without actually being given a reason to believe it. He isn’t even particularly impressive compared to your average K-drama CEO.

And then we have the female lead. She’s supposedly ambitious and hardworking, but most of the time she just comes across as painfully naive and clueless. Being innocent is not a problem. The problem is that she seems terrified of everything, constantly doubts herself, and needs validation for every little thing. She even writes down every compliment she receives. Meanwhile, she’s doing unpaid overtime without even realizing she should be getting paid for it. Honestly, she’s basically the dream employee for corporate exploitation lol.

I’m only on episode 10, but there are already some technical problems too. I’m watching the original-language version with subtitles, yet the voice and lip syncing are terrible. The dialogue often doesn’t match the actors’ mouths at all. Like… it’s 2026. How is this still happening?

The biggest problem, though, is that I still don’t understand what kind of drama this is trying to be. Is it a workplace drama with some romance on the side, or a romance that happens to take place in a workplace? If it’s the first one, fine. But if romance is supposed to be the main point, the leads barely spend any time together, and there is absolutely no chemistry between them so far.

I’m going to finish it, but judging by the first 10 episodes, I have a feeling this is only going downhill from here.

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Peak of Industrial Espionage

A botched operation 3 years prior came with a new lead of the escaped wanted criminal Micheal, forcing the Korean National Intelligence Services to bring up the legendary spy Baek Chanmi back into the spotlight. She lost an agent that she cared very dearly in that botched operation and carried huge grudge against Michael, that the top echelon is counting for her to go all out for this mission. Going undercover at Il Kyung Technology with 2 other teammates, Baek found herself in a pickle as the secretary position she interviewed for is of a CEO who turned out to the student she tutored 15years ago, Yoon, who had a crush on her. Forced to avoid recognition by Yoon and the targets they are after, Baek and her team discovered that the mission they are on might have already been compromised by an insider, a traitor in the NIS that keeps the villains one step ahead of them every single time.

I totally love the Industrial Security Team 3 lineup despite their ridiculus misadventures. Out of the team of 5, only 1 is a competent spy, the most crazily unhinged of all NIS, Baek Chanmi. The other 4 are either semi or total doofus - The middle-aged ahjumma negotiator/interrogator Hwang Misung, the supposedly tech whiz but totally clumsy-never-been-in-the-field Im Yeeun, the wimpy backup tech Bae Mohyuk and last but not least, the team leader constantly being intimidated by Baek Chanmi who happened to be the girlfriend he dumped years ago, Dong Gwansoo. I really liked how they manage fit in the clumsiness and comedy without trying too hard or looking slapstick or downgrading the kickass FL character.

I am totally for older actresses in the main leads, and Baek Chanmi’s character is an absolute badass that doesnt give other people chances to do her dirty. She stands up for herself, and others, and she doesnt care of the consequences so long as her objectives are achieved. Basically a total contrast of Im Yeeun’s character.

The scene where Baek took a shot at the villain’s car tyre while propping on one knee on a sliding motorcycle much like the superhero pose was so damn james bondy-mission impossible-like and she looked really good doing it. Her action sequences are all on point and doesnt look awkward or rehearsed at all. Although, this show still suffer from the usual action trope of having a professional spy/assassin/mercenary almost always turn their backs on the enemy without a confirmed kill/subdue, which becomes the opportunity for the other party to gain an upper hand. The moment the good guy turn their backs on the fallen villain, i absolutely know the villain is going to get up and either kill or severely injure the good guy which will eventually become the emotional burden for the mainlead. 🙄 yep happens here too.

The most irritating characters had to go to Im Yeeun the clumsy tech whiz and her supposedly paired character the celebrity Kang Wowon. The former being a total clutzy pushover while the latter a total bully with an ugly attitude who spares neither respect nor consideration for other people around him. Their side couple story took up so much of screentime that it made me cringe whenever they come on. This show doesnt need a romance side story, and by making the supporting characters as the focal romance just disrupts the plot’s pacing. And as a tech whiz spy, i am disappointed that this character gets flustered so easily at being targetted, either by the villain or even the snobbishly narcisstic Kang Wowon. Like, how can an NIS agent be this gullible and wimpy to be easily gaslighted and threatened with legal action for executing a sanctioned intelligence operation that eventually led to her being ordered around by a civilian? I was like, really? Reaaaalllly? 🫩😒 just to slip in a love story, the screenwriter would butcher this character so badly. I just cant stand both of them I keep pressing the FF button until the next scene comes on.

As for Kang Wowon, my god i can’t stand this crybaby spoiled manchild. He screams and yells all the time, gets frustrated easily and is constantly mean towards everyone around him, including the one he supposedly fall for. This show could really do wothout this character, he’s a total plot hijacker that gets on people’s nerves so constantly. I can’t understand why they had to create such an ugly character to pair up with the gentle Im. He’s the kind of guy that would gaslight people when things doesnt go his way, absolute narcisstic that would ruin a woman’s life should something happen to the relationship. Especially one who doesnt fight back like Im. I just hate this character so much he totally doesnt deserve a good love story. This character actually fits to be ML’s ex wife’s partner instead. Both are narcs, the only kind of partner that they should have.

And despite being action-comedy, each character has their chance at displaying different kinds of intense emotion and they did them all really well. i love it how these characters could display contrasting reactions in different situations. Like the no nonsense ahjumma Hwang Misoon, she is generally very loud and outspoken while packkng good punches, but when faced with her daughter’s school bullying problem, she turned timid and lost all that confidence she usually displays as an agent, all because of guilt and fear for her daughter’s safety at school. The expressions are genuinely conveyed and convincing.

Fortunately, this show is also one of those rare korean productions that does a spectacular job at using other languages other than the native tongue in their dialogue. There is no incomprehensible english, in fact other than English, the characters speak fluently in russian, japanese, chinese and other language that i dont remember FL used to pass her interview when she was going undercover. And the japanese that Im Yeeun and Hwang Misun spoke sound so authentic as if they had ripped it off right from anime.

I enjoyed this show very much, it’s a shame that they didnt do a sequel. 🙁

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Those boys stole my whole heart

At its core, this is a workplace drama. Except they've traded the office for the field, and the gossipy coworkers for the sweetest group of boys you can imagine.

It's not an understatement to say that the heart of this drama is really with the football team. Someone said we're watching the future generation of leading men, and I have to agree. They made me laugh and cry (and I never cry!) and root for them all the way through. Yu Shuxin and Chen Jiangke set the tone as the drama's leaders, but the youngsters bring the story to life and kept me sat for 32 episodes.

Personally, I felt that the romance was a bit shoehorned. If the true story was the team, then we really didn't need the teachers to fall in love. I understand it was meant to be a healing drama where two traumatized people tend to each other's wounds, but the problem is that their trauma was the least interesting part of the story. Pulling out the 'psychopath' trope for both of their issues felt like really bad writing. It's such a lazy method of creating conflict, especially in 2026. The story would have been better if both leads' trauma backstories were eliminated, and the focus just remained on coaching a losing team to victory.

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A series that tells the story of a woman’s emancipation more than a love story

First, I want to make it clear that I don’t want to compare the series with the novel. Even though I have read the second part, the series has become a work of its own for me. They changed certain elements, especially by significantly softening Luke, while Flora remains more or less the same. So I prefer to judge what I was actually given to watch rather than look at the novel to understand what the series was supposed to be.

And this is precisely where, for me, one of the main problems lies: the series raises much more interesting issues than it actually dares to develop.

To me, this is above all the story of a young woman moving from young adulthood into genuine adulthood. Flora enters a highly hierarchical and coded professional world, where social background, education, experience and connections strongly determine one’s opportunities. On top of that come family pressure, social expectations, the search for a stable job and the material difficulties faced by many young adults.

Flora is still young and lacks confidence in herself, but she has an extremely strong ambition: to succeed, become financially independent and find her place in the middle class. She learns from everything around her, observes, absorbs knowledge and takes every opportunity, without ever losing sight of her goal. Even when she receives help, she wants to feel that she has built her success herself. This is quite an interesting way of portraying female emancipation.

And paradoxically, it is the romance that sometimes undermines this message.

Flora rejects certain material and social codes, such as obvious signs of wealth, yet her aspirations remain deeply connected to individual success and social mobility. Her relationship also gives her considerable intellectual support. Luke gradually becomes almost a kind of mentor who helps her evolve. But above all, their relationship transforms Flora: she becomes more confident, more assertive and more independent in her choices. She finishes this journey knowing better who she is, what she wants and how she wants to obtain it.

We can then imagine that once her financial independence and social status become more aligned with Luke’s, she faces a real question: "can she choose the man she loves without having to sacrifice what she has become?"

And this is where the series could have been much more interesting.

Because loving someone does not necessarily mean giving up your career, your comfort, your friends or your social life. But a relationship also involves compromises, sacrifices and the ability to give. Love cannot be built entirely around the “I”. Here, Flora is portrayed as a victim in a one-sided way. And I don’t see any emotional redemption or transformation in her at all.
This is precisely why, for me, the romantic storyline partly fails: I do not feel enough reciprocity.

What I also find interesting in the comments surrounding the series is seeing how much people’s expectations of relationships have evolved. Viewers seem much more aware of their boundaries, of what they are willing to accept or not, and of what they believe they deserve. That is, in itself, quite healthy. But it also reflects an era in which the “self” occupies a central place.

Romantic series, especially those aimed at a female audience, ultimately reflect — and sometimes reinforce — this evolution. Yet there is no universal rule that allows us to determine what is healthy or toxic in a relationship. What is a red flag for one person may be insignificant to another. Perhaps true maturity lies more in knowing our own boundaries and understanding which ones can be discussed, moved or never crossed.

----- Luke: a transformation that is difficult to believe, but interesting to observe

Luke is particularly interesting. At the beginning, he is arrogant, narcissistic, lacking in empathy and rather controlling. Then he almost completely changes through his relationship with Flora and, above all, for her.

I have to admit that I have always had difficulty with this type of romantic arc. In real life, I am rather skeptical about the idea that someone who is deeply narcissistic or lacking in empathy can suddenly transform through love. Likewise, certain jealous behaviours do not simply disappear because the story moves forward: when they become genuinely problematic, their consequences do not disappear so easily.

So I don’t really believe in the fairy tale being offered here.

But the series at least has the merit of "showing us this transformation concretely. Luke genuinely becomes someone different. And if we accept this narrative logic, Flora ultimately succeeded in giving the man she loved a kind of “emotional education.”

Which leaves an interesting question: which man did she actually love at the beginning? The man he was, or the man he could become?

---- Underdeveloped supporting characters

I also found the secondary world far too pleasant and polished. Everyone ultimately seems quite kind, which reduces the conflicts and therefore the depth of certain issues.

I was particularly unconvinced by the SML’s storyline. It moves too quickly and, in my opinion, without any real narrative impact, other than shocking the audience. **Raising such a profound issue only to treat it so superficially does not seem very meaningful to me.**

For me, this is one of the major weaknesses of the storytelling: the series sometimes overlooks small details that may seem insignificant, but which would actually allow us to understand the characters’ motivations, contradictions and evolution much better.

--- A series carried by its main duo

On the other hand, both lead actors deserve praise. They both demonstrate a real ability to transform and a great command of their characters.

Special mention to the actor playing Luke: he manages to bring a great deal of nuance to a complex, charismatic and sometimes difficult-to-read character, while maintaining a certain consistency throughout his evolution.

The actress also deserves recognition. Here, she shows a completely different side from her previous roles, something much more sensual and mature. It is quite surprising, and precisely for that reason, very interesting.

I actually think the main strength of the series lies in this duo and in their chemistry, which works particularly well because it feels more mature and less adolescent than in many romances of the same genre.

Visually, the series is also very successful: the aesthetics, cinematography, staging and direction contribute greatly to its atmosphere.

However, the narrative choices remain, for me, its main weakness. The series sometimes overlooks small details that may seem banal, but which would have allowed us to understand the characters’ motivations, contradictions and development much better.

And despite everything, it remains captivating — mainly because of Flora, Luke and the very particular chemistry between the two actors. And for the performances

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Such a fun ride!!!

I really didn't expect anything big from this show, but that's okay because it never promised that. Everyone involved in making this wanted you to have a good time ... and I really, really did. It was so much fun.

The comedy ranges from goofy to witty. There's a comedy scene in the later episodes that involves seamlessly tying together multiple plot lines, and it's executed so brilliantly that I never saw it coming. The show may be silly, but the writing is quite clever. And the acting delivers, especially from Ao Ruipeng and Aimi.

Unfortunately, the comedy disappears rather suddenly to make way for the 'true' storyline. At this point, a big part of your enjoyment depends on how invested you've become in the characters. Lots of people who dropped this show say they got bored from episode 20 onwards, which totally makes sense because the tone shifts suddenly and a new storyline emerges. Before you know it, you find yourself in yet another generic xianxia. And the last few episodes pull yet another sudden tonal shift, becoming a mind-bending story that breaks time and space. At this point I personally was checked out and gave up on trying to make sense of the plot, so I have no idea if the show's internal logic even holds up to scrutiny.

Suffice it to say that if it had started with the same storyline that it ended with, I would not have kept going. But the first two-thirds are so much freaking fun. This one is going on the rewatch list for sure.

Oh, and it ends with an ensemble musical number. Just fun all around!!

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Everything is good except the story... which is so bad !

I have read many reviews telling "this is a great story about friendship and growing up" but I strongly disagree!

For Western viewers, this drama can be frustrating. It heavily follows the Japanese school of cinema dramatic concept of "gaman" which means, suffering in silence, abandoning one's love for the sake of friendship and for the group's harmony and peace. Just that this concept is applied in such an exaggerated way, broken on multiple occasions, especially in the end.

All characters forfeit their love stories for he sake of a great, great "friendship triangle".
The main problem is that this is utterly destroyed in the last episode when Suuji decides to leave. This makes no sense. It is clearly shown that his father allows him to remain behind in a boarding house. However, Shuuji comes with a very, very weak excuse "I need to be near my brother to make sure he gets dinner when Father comes home late". For this, he ABANDONS his fantastically close friends Akira and Nobuta, his love and everything he worked for. Who could believe this?

Then comes Akira's decision. He is in love with Nobuta, Suuji has just left, he has his chance with Nobuta. What does he do? He Abandons Nobuta, going after Suuji (in a Helicopter no less!). No wonder many viewers have written alternate endings in which Suuji and Akira are in fact a gay couple. This would make much more sense than the official ending.

All love stories in the movie are inconsistent. In the beginning Shuuji tells Nobuta "Mariko is not my girlfriend" signaling he may date Nobuta in the future. Next, there is an important moment when Nobuta is about to confess her love in public, and it is revealed Shuuji intends to answer positively by dumping flowers on her head. So all the premises are there. But they choose to completely forsake their feelings for the sake of Akira's friendship who "happens", later in the show, to realize he is also in love with Nobuta. Even if it happens later. Even if, in the first episodes, Akira and Shuuji do not seem really such good friends.

Also, Shuuji and Mariko. The way he dumps her is at least dubious. Because in the last episode, when they have a final date, he admits he likes her. It doesn't make much sense except for the made-up reason hat he HAD TO pretend to date her in order to be "popular". This sound 100% cinema and 0% reality.

The girl who is a sworn enemy of Nobuta (I forgo her name) is also unbelievable. She apparently has unlimited power, like a Ninja, to observe and affect everything Nobuta does, being completely invisible. Yet the reasons for hating Nobuta so much are just not there. It is another substory not well written.

All in all, I enjoy Japanese movies and how they feel so unreal, partly because of how they look and talk and behave, and partly because of these unbelievable stories, and I didn't hate this movie. But I don't agree that his is a film about "growing up". Nobuta does grow up and she is definitely a better person in he end. But the 2 boys Akira and Shuuji... no way ! And I cannot stand by so many inconsistencies and so many writer's decisions which are the opposite of what should really happen.

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superb plot

The drama had me hooked on from the first episode. One of the dramas in which the plot is well paced, and interesting. I didn't for one episode think that it was redundant and filler episode.
The ending was also satisfying, although a bit rushed, they could have used 2 episodes to show what they did in the last episode.
The only complain I have about this drama is that they under-utilised the character of Fu Yixiao. In the first episode, we start the drama by her entry and I was hooked on. I thought that I am going to get a very strong character of the Red Clad General. But after a few episodes, her character had reduced to someone who was only Feng Suige's love interest.
I would have loved if they showed more development about her past and future, but in the middle episodes we hardly see her character, and whenever we see her, its in the sidelines.
Apart from that the drama was good. A lot of characters were introduced, and most of them play a crucial role for the plot.

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Comedy, fantasy and romance rolled into one.

Blossoms of Power is quite a parade of handsome actors and beautiful actresses. Even Fan Shuai Qi, masquerading as a man (Bu Shu Lin), looks remarkably convincing — at first glance, I genuinely thought she was male. Meng Zi Yi, of course, is stunning with her pouty lips and large, expressive eyes. I would easily rank her among the top five most beautiful actresses in China.

Shen Xi He is bestowed the title of Commandery Princess. She is the daughter of the powerful General Shen Yue Shan, sworn brother of the Emperor, and arrives in the capital with great pomp, supposedly for a marriage alliance with the royal family.

Beautiful, intelligent and from a highly esteemed family, she immediately captures the attention of the unmarried princes. Soon, she has five handsome princes at her heels. Five handsome Adonises competing for you — would that not be many women's dream?

Among them is the Crown Prince, frail and sickly after being poisoned as a child. The culprit was never found. Secretly helping Xi He from behind the scenes, he makes sure things go remarkably smoothly for her. But would Xi He choose him for his prestigious position, knowing that he may not have long to live?

Then there is the obsessive Prince Xin, who is convinced that Xi He is the reincarnation of his late wife. Jeremy Xu plays the role extremely well — at times, he looks positively sociopathic. Prince Xin is essentially a good man who has, unfortunately, been driven insane by grief and obsession.

Comedy, Fantasy and Romance

I would actually classify Blossoms of Power partly as a comedy. Much of the humour comes from the Crown Prince's attempts to woo the woman of his dreams while constantly pretending to be a poor, helpless, sickly young man.

The feud between Xi He's father and maternal grandfather is also amusing. Then there is Bu Shu Lin, who keeps dragging Cui Jin Bai along to discourage princesses hoping for a marriage arrangement with her. The situation becomes even funnier when the roles reverse: Cui discovers that Bu is actually a woman — and promptly starts courting her.

There is also a definite fantasy element. It appears that the spirit of Prince Xin's late wife merges with Xi He after Xi He falls into a river on her journey from the Northwest to the capital. She subsequently retains memories from both lives.

And, of course, the courtship between Xi He and the man she eventually chooses is undeniably romantic and heart-warming.

Xi He's previous life as Prince Xin's wife must have left her deeply disappointed, particularly because he failed to protect her Gu family. That experience also explains why she scrutinises her new suitor so critically. He has to work hard to win her trust and, eventually, her heart — making this very much a slow-burn romance.

Meanwhile, the identity of the person who poisoned the Crown Prince remains a mystery throughout much of the story. And what is a good drama without a twist? Blossoms of Power delivers one, although by the later episodes I managed to guess the culprit after the drama dropped a telling hint.

My Nitpicking

One thing I cannot quite agree with is Xi He's concern that the Crown Prince is too intelligent and cunning for her. Why should having a clever husband be a problem? Did she want a man she could control?

And how does someone who has died and is already lying in a coffin suddenly resurrect? We are told that a cure was found — but he was already dead! It seems happy endings have become fashionable these days, even when they are not particularly well orchestrated. Quite a contrast to the endless tragedies of Chinese dramas from the previous decade.

Lessons to Take Away

When someone is too strong-headed or stubborn, it can lead either to constant conflict or to the other person resorting to deception simply to avoid that conflict.

And perhaps the more serious lesson: one of the greatest threats to any country is internal conflict — particularly when people who understand their own country's systems and weaknesses cooperate with an external enemy.

Overall, Blossoms of Power gets an excellent rating from me. It has beauty, humour, mystery, fantasy, political intrigue and a satisfying slow-burn romance — enough ingredients to keep me entertained right to the end.

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You'll miss them a minute after episode 24 ends

I really enjoyed The Early Spring. At first, I wasn’t sure what to expect, but after a few episodes I was completely into the story. It’s one of those series that slowly pulls you in, and before you know it, you’re really invested in the characters and what happens to them.

The main characters are definitely one of the best things about the series, although they can also be a little frustrating at times. She can be too obsessed with her career and professional success, to the point where it sometimes feels like her work comes before everything else. I understood her ambition, but there were moments when I wanted her to just relax and enjoy her life a little more.

He is almost the complete opposite. He can be extremely cold, distant and individualistic. At some points, I even wondered if there was something else behind the way he behaved because he seemed to have so much difficulty understanding or expressing emotions. But as the story progresses, it becomes clearer that his personality is largely the result of his enormous success in business. He is so used to being successful, independent and getting what he wants that he can come across as quite arrogant and even a little full of himself.

That contrast between them is actually what makes their relationship interesting. They are both very strong-minded people, but they approach life in completely different ways. Watching them slowly understand each other and change because of their relationship was one of my favourite parts of the series.

I also really liked the script. The conversations generally feel natural, and the story gives the characters enough time to develop instead of rushing everything. Some situations are a bit predictable, but I didn’t really mind because I was still interested in seeing how they would deal with them.

Another thing I loved was the atmosphere. The series looks beautiful, and the music works really well with the story, especially during the more emotional scenes. It has a warm and cosy feeling that makes it very easy to get absorbed in the world of the series.

Of course, it isn’t perfect. Some parts are a little slow, and I think some of the secondary characters could have been developed more. There are also moments when the main characters’ personalities become a little exaggerated. However, I think their flaws also make them more interesting and believable.

Overall, I’d give The Early Spring a 9/10. It has a good story, strong chemistry between the main characters, beautiful visuals and plenty of emotional moments. Even though the two main characters can be frustrating at times, that’s also part of what makes their relationship so interesting. I definitely enjoyed watching their journey and would recommend the series if you like romantic, emotional and character-driven stories.

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This series was 70% very good ... and 30% longwinded and frustrating.

Every time I was about to give up, something would pull me back in. I am glad I finished it ... or more surprised because the struggle was real.

Cast ... Very, very good.
Characters ... They were well written. Enough information to empathize and enjoy their stories. The ML was perfectly cast and did an amazing job.
Side characters/seconds ... They were all great to watch.
Cinematography/fight scenes ... Very good.
Story/plot ... Good but not great. It was filmed in such a drawn out, and frustrating way that it made it almost painful to watch ... at times.

The story was good, and the actors did a great job, but it should have been cut to 8 episodes; that would help with pace, purposeful angst and anticipation. The comedy with the side/second characters really elevated this show. The fight scenes were very nice to watch, gritty and at times brutal but came with a lot of satisfaction.

Because of the forced frustration and drawing out of unnecessary scenes ... my rating dropped to an 8.

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Interesting story, relatable, not at all the right drama for me!

The Early Spring has a very good rating on here, with many people praising the drama, its characters, and its story. I’m finishing episode 20, and I’ve decided to drop it.

I probably would have stayed until the end just to see how much Flora would flourish and grow, but the writers’ decision to remove Yuan Zhu from the group was the last straw for me. From the very beginning, I loved the relationships that developed between these roommates. I especially enjoyed Yuan Zhu and Sun Yu and found myself genuinely rooting for them as supporting characters. I understand that not every character can remain until the end, but the way Yuan Zhu was removed felt unnecessary and disappointing. It completely changed something I had really enjoyed about the drama.

There are, however, characters I absolutely love. Lu Mi and Tracy are my two favorite characters in the entire show. Lu Mi is beautiful, kind-hearted, capable, straightforward, intelligent, tough, and, most importantly, a great friend. Tracy is elegant and kind, and I simply love her aura and sense of style. Whenever they are on screen, I find myself much more interested in their stories and personalities.

As for the leads, I do appreciate that this story isn’t a fairy tale where Cinderella finds the perfect man and the perfect relationship. I’ve seen many comments praising how beautiful the love story between the leads is, and while I neither agree nor disagree, I have to admit that I’ve gradually found myself drifting away from them.

The awkward silences during their car rides and the constant back-and-forth between them brought me back to some of my own experiences, memories I honestly wasn’t looking to revisit through a drama. More importantly, I find their relationship quite toxic.

If this had been a temporary infatuation situation between a mature, successful, good-looking boss and a newly graduated, inexperienced employee, I could perhaps understand some of their dynamics. But they were together for six years. Six years is a long time. At that point, I have a much harder time accepting the idea that their communication problems are simply the result of youth, inexperience, or not knowing how to express their feelings. Especially when they have broken off and gotten back together quite a few times. Then there was that time when Flora mentioned about one of the thing on her list is to be married with someone she loves, Luke said he could not give her that without even a consideration after all that years being together. Personally as a woman I would not invest 6 years of my youth with a guy if he doesn't want to get married. What is worst about this situation is Luke doesn't even want to introduce Flora to his parents after all these years being together, let alone marriage.

To be honest, if I were Flora, I would never choose to be with a man like Luke.

I do believe Luke cares about Flora, and I don’t think he is necessarily a bad person. He clearly has feelings for her and often shows that he cares in his own way. But being a good person and loving someone does not automatically make the way you treat that person healthy.

There are many moments when Luke talks down to Flora in a way that, to me, crosses into verbal abuse. I’ve seen comments saying that Luke is simply “telling Flora the truth.” But I always wonder: would we be so quick to call it “the truth” if we were the ones on the receiving end of those words?

What bothers me most is how often Flora seems nervous around him, constantly watching his reactions and looking for his approval. She seems to second-guess herself and worry about whether she is saying or doing the “right” thing in his eyes. That dynamic is difficult for me to watch.

I also find Luke manipulative at times, particularly when he asks Flora to repeat something she has said, seemingly waiting for her to correct herself and give him the answer he wants to hear. That is not healthy communication to me. It creates a power imbalance where one person becomes afraid to express what they genuinely think or feel. There are many comments criticizing Flora for keeping everything in and not telling, or confront Luke. I sure wouldn't if I think I will be corrected.

Metaphorically, Luke feels like a wolf and Flora like a deer. There are moments when the way he looks at her and interacts with her feels predatory to me, not necessarily in a literal sense, but in the sense that there is such a significant imbalance in power and confidence between them. He can be controlling, demanding, manipulative, and extremely harsh with his words.

I honestly cannot imagine how exhausting it would be to be in a relationship like that, regardless of how deeply the other person may love you.

And this is something I feel strongly about: there is a difference between telling someone the truth and intentionally hurting someone with the truth. You can be honest without belittling another person. You can disagree without making them feel small. You can communicate your frustrations without constantly making your partner question their own worth.

Ladies, please remember that someone saying “I love you” does not automatically make the relationship healthy. If someone treats you like you are beneath them, does not respect you as an equal, constantly puts you down, or makes you afraid to speak your mind, that is not a healthy expression of love.

There are many ways to love, and some ways are healthy while others are not. Unhealthy love can be incredibly draining. It can slowly wear you down, affect your confidence, and make you question yourself. That is why I’m actually happy to see Flora beginning to recognize her own worth and learning to love herself more. That growth is one of the things that kept me watching this long.

As for the constant lack of communication, that is something we see in practically every drama. Miscommunication becomes the starting point for misunderstandings, conflicts, and endless mishaps. And honestly, it happens in real life too. We all fail to communicate properly sometimes.

The flaws we see in these characters are also flaws we encounter in countless dramas and stories. For that reason, I don’t necessarily think these elements deserve special praise simply because they are portrayed here. To me, they are fairly common storytelling devices.

At this point, though, I’ve realized that I simply don’t care enough about the leads anymore to continue watching their journey. I understand why The Early Spring resonates with so many people, and I can certainly appreciate that others see something beautiful in this story that I don’t.

For me, however, the emotional connection just isn’t there anymore.

I stayed because I wanted to see Flora grow, find herself, and flourish. I stayed because I loved the friendships and the roommate dynamic. I stayed because I genuinely cared about characters like Yuan Zhu, Sun Yu, Lu Mi, and Tracy.

But removing Yuan Zhu was the point where I finally said, “That’s enough.”

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dropped

⚠️ warning: you will probably disagree with me but this is my opinion ✋🏼

dropped it on ep5 cause wtf is this relationship!
they both irritated me on ep5 or 6 I don't remember, anyway I don't need more stress in my life 😭😭
genuinely they both need some professional help
both fmc and mmc are toxic and have zero communication skills and zero emotional intelligence.
I think they didn't actually fall in love. it's just sexual attraction and they kept going on with this grossly toxic relationship as if there are no other people.
cause tell why were they in a 6-year relationship and never learnt from their mistakes and kept repeating them?! what mature adult would do that?
although I only saw 6 episodes but I do know everything happened on other episodes, I kept myself updated just out of curiosity.

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My first review i'm writing for any drama! Wow this show really hooked me in from the beginning. I really enjoyed the mindgames at play and the hidden intentions between our two main protagonists. It was interesting learning their motivations and trying to determine what were truly their genuine feelings. It made for an emotional rollercoaster of a first half after seeing Ji Bozai's tragic past and his true feelings for Ming Yi not being reciprocated. I was frustrated by how she repeatedly continued to lie about how she felt after he had poured his trust into her. As someone who heavily shipped them it hurt to see LOL. All in the meanwhile i unexpectedly grew to love our side characters. 27 and Buxiu's dedication to their masters, and later on Tianji- Yan Xiao's broken trust slowly being repaired and budding into a relationship I was rooting for. I was pleasantly surprised by the plot twists that were introduced with our protagonists true identities, and their pasts being revealed. There were some similarities there with the story in Apothecary Diaries (top two anime for me atm) and I was really happy about that. Eventually I got the payoff I wanted with both our protagonists confessing their true feelings and swearing to be honest with each other going forward. I love the idea of forgiveness/honesty and being able to face your true feelings and be vulnerable. This show had me thoroughly happy with basically every aspect in the rating metric. Definitely a show I feel like will be one of my favorite cdramas until proven otherwise.

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