My Fated Boy

Surprisingly great noona romance

This was so much better than I expected it to be! It’s a classic noona romance - not a particularly original story, but very well-executed and avoids the most annoying tropes associated with the genre. There are no prolonged miscommunications, no noble idiocy, no silly breakups. Once the couple is together, they are in it for real, and conflict is navigated with maturity and healthy communication. There is also great female friendship plot, the workplaces are full of kind and well-intentioned people, there is a lovely side romance, and even the second leads are better than usual. The second ML was mildly annoying, but the second FL was very sympathetic and actually had a great redemption arc.

One note on first few episodes - if you are struggling with the FL or worrying about an imbalanced relationship dynamic when the show starts, know that is by design. We begin our story while the FL is in the midst of a self-destructive depressive episode, and the way she treats the ML at first is directly related to that. As soon as she begins to feel better, it becomes clear their affection for each other is quite mutual, and the path opens for her to begin seeing him in a new (adult) light.

Overall I just really enjoyed this more than I expected to, and I wasn’t tempted to fast forward through anything, which is rare for me! Even the original music was good, which is sometimes not the case for plots that involve idols. My only beef is that the best song is for someone reason not included on the OST and it’s pretty inaccessible.

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Too good to be true?

Lin Yang (FL) and Lu Zheng An (ML) grew up together as kids, both families were very close. She was 7 years older than him. But one moved away after 6 years. Somehow when LZA was 15, they met again and started liking her. He never had a girlfriend because he was set on her, but she on the other hand had many bfs. He went to study abroad and at 24 yrs old, the moment he came back, he went to look for her to live and work near her.

Their love story was good, and also not good. Good because he was very focused on her and her alone (borderline obsessive). I thought in most instances he was quite mature in his thinking, a little impulsive but sweet and earnest. She only treated him like a little brother at first, cos she couldn’t wrap her head around the idea of dating him. But eventually she realised she had fallen in love with him, but still refused and rejected him. Only with the help of friends then she finally admitted and agreed. There were many sweet moments and PDA so that was nice.

Not good- he directed his whole life based on what she liked- what food she liked, which music star she liked, his whole world revolved around her. She, the lawyer cousin and many others treated him like a kid (cos they were all older than him) which I felt was kinda unfair.

Supporting characters and side stories were not that interesting to me. Unfortunately I skipped quite a lot, and focused mainly on the lead couple and whatever involved them. I also skipped the beginnings of each episode where the scene would flashback to when they were kids with their parents. Found that dull. Sometimes the story was too good to be true, everything worked out perfectly- both parents were so supportive, whatever scandals were dealt with easily and smoothly.

It was a nice easy drama to watch, but don’t expect too much. :)

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This is one of the most cutest noona romance
You are going to watch

I fall for the ML's character totally 😍❤️

The plot was strong
The story was solid
The events were smooth
There were character development for most of the characters
And it has lots of fluffy and butterflies moments

But what bothered me that I found the last four episodes were too much to end the story
It became draggy , a little boring and monotonous

I found they made a huge problem about just seven years different and said it was huge and from another generation
Wow .. 😂😂

All the characters where good except that B**** li xin till the end

Worth watching
HIGHLY RECOMMENDED
Especially for those who loved noona romance


And I'm sure I was going to enjoy much more if the subtitle were accurate
Most of the time I was trying to figure it out as much as I can which annoyed me so and spoiled enjoying the drama
Because it was really horrible

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Noona romance done right

The series shows the importance of keeping a core group of friends who will give you guidance for the sake of your well-being. It also shows how important it is to keep a core group of people who believe in you.

The family dynamic presented in the series reminds me a bit of Reply 1988 while the golden trio reminds me of the kdrama 39.

I loved the characters' growth throughout the series and loved the main couple. Although their chemistry wasn't the best, they played their roles as best as they could.

Being from a "study first" family who couldn't help try to experience being in a relationship, I couldn't help but see myself in the main couple - many times I had to smack my forehead thinking "so this is how stupid it looked" but it was a thrilling ride.

I disagree with the comments saying the ML is mature - rather he was surrounded and guided by mature people - otherwise he was really just a clingy and whiny kid.

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Underrated gem

What an underrated gem! I couldn't have imagined that I'd be so charmed by a simple story about two childhood friends, seven years apart, who grew up together like siblings, only to meet again as adults and fall in love. But that is exactly what happened here. This is a solid rom-com filled with warm, thoughtful characters. The comedy is on point while the emotionally charged scenes are wonderfully handled. Script is great, dialogue is witty. Best of all THE LEADS. The bond that these two have fostered since childhood is the cutest, while as adults they both had me laughing and swooning left and right.

Lin Yang, now 31, finds herself reluctantly welcoming Lu Zheng An, now 24, back into her life. He's on a mission to finally win her heart after some growing up, while she soon realizes he is no longer the little boy she took care of as the big "sister." On the contrary, he's quite the man and an irresistible one at that. In spite of her reservations, he's the perfect antidote, bringing spark into her life that has begun to feel hollow from the stress of adulthood.

I'll admit I overlooked this drama myself seeing as how the drama has been out for four years. What I discovered is that this is not only a wonderful older woman/younger man drama, it's one of the best modern Chinese dramas I have had the pleasure of viewing thus far. At about 40 minutes per episode, it's a breezy watch in spite of the episode count, and not once did it compel me to skip, which is significant coming from someone with experience watching these types of dramas. And the drama manages to do this by balancing enough reasonable conflicts to keep things going without sacrificing character growth or engagement. As the drama progresses, it peels back layers in the form of childhood memories that converge with the present storyline in a heartwarming manner, revealing an indelible bond that extends beyond the leads. Every episode holds something special, down to the last one.

I would note that perhaps the male lead character profile may come across somewhat unrealistic, but I believe the execution is what sets this drama apart. Because of strong acting and directing with a tight script, the characters and relationships feel authentic. The heroine is smart, competent, sexy. Though she inevitably faces prejudice from society as a woman of a certain age, she is also widely recognized as a capable colleague. Lin Yang is mature and independent and she may not need Lu Zheng An but it doesn't mean she cannot be passionately in love with him either. For Lu Zheng An, it's an all consuming love. His world is structured around Lin Yang in that he has his own life, a budding career he's passionate about and is able to live a carefree life thanks to privileged background, but in an instant he can throw it all away for her. In his life she will always come first, period. Such different approaches to their relationship but somehow it works and it is convincing for me as a viewer.

One of the things I like about Lu Zheng An is his honesty and how he never forces or gives Lin Yang an ultimatum. Even when they have bitter arguments, he exits with so much maturity and understanding. It's never you owe me for my devotion. It's simply, you take care of yourself. I'll be here if you ever need me. Undoubtedly, he's one of the greenest male leads to grace dramaland. It's the way He Yu portrays his character that makes it such a joy as well. Boyish yet mature. And what a flirt! He is incredibly charming and manages to be both funny and hot all at the same time. I think he solved half the problems in the drama with his cheeky smile. His energy, enthusiasm, and excitement for the female lead is infectious; I couldn't stop smiling.

I'll be honest that I was somewhat disappointed with one of the biggest driving forces of conflict, which is another woman in her 30s acting like a scorned lover. But the handling of the conflict is well done. Every friend, colleague, and family come together to protect our precious couple with loving support. That's part of the reason the drama is so pleasing. It includes a well-rounded cast of characters while awful characters are kept to a minimum and told off in due time in the most satisfying ways. Additionally, it is refreshing to see the female lead and her two best friends living realistic lives as women in their thirties. The friends hold contrasting views about love and romance that make for great, comical conversations.

I will close this review with the drama's wonderful parting message: What aging brings us is not a limitation but more choices. It gets better and better!

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The Childhood Sweethearts Fated to Be Together

My Fated Boy is honestly one of the most wholesome and unexpectedly satisfying dramas I’ve watched. From the very first episodes, the close-up shots were wow — the chemistry between the leads felt natural, warm, and effortless. There were no plot holes, and the FL’s concerns were always valid. The story handled emotional issues maturely, which made everything feel grounded and realistic.

I really loved the ML’s character. He’s gentle, kindhearted, emotionally secure, and openly devoted without being overwhelming. The statue deserves its own special mention too — truly an unpaid character stealing scenes 😂. The OST fit the mood perfectly, and I genuinely enjoyed every episode title. They were thoughtful and meaningful, and paired beautifully with the monologue voiceovers. Those voiceovers matching the current situation and emotions made the drama feel even more intimate and wholesome, like the story was gently speaking directly to the audience.

The childhood storyline was a huge highlight for me. This might be the only drama where I didn’t mind childhood flashbacks at all. They were unique, purposeful, and added real context to their personalities, bond, and emotional connection. Even their childhood separation scene was heartbreakingly cute. This is truly one of the most adorable childhood sweetheart stories ever 😭.

Some of the early episodes had slightly abrupt endings, which could’ve been smoother, but I honestly didn’t mind. The drama shines in small, realistic details — like Boss Ma’s workplace and the receptionist constantly on her phone. Those little moments made everything feel so real. Honestly, if I were a receptionist, I’d probably be watching dramas too.

I was pleasantly surprised by Lu Zheng An’s boss. I fully misjudged him and expected betrayal, but he turned out to be solid and loyal — and even got his own amazing woman. The secondary characters were written surprisingly well. Li Tian is a great example. I disliked her at first, but her growth felt natural and convincing, not rushed or forced. By the end, I genuinely wanted her to find happiness, which doesn’t happen often with secondary love interests.

Another thing I absolutely loved was how supportive everyone around the leads was — their friends, families, and especially the parents. Healthy parents in C-drama land felt like a miracle 😭. With how smoothly everything went between both families and the leads themselves, it honestly felt impossible for them not to end up married.

The PDA scenes were adorable, and I loved how their friends cringed every time — it made it even cuter. I also never got tired of hearing him say “wifey.” Ever.

One of my favorite moments has to be the lipstick scene with their first kiss — it was so well-directed and intimate. I also loved the ML’s “falling in love” moment during his teenage years. The way his feelings gradually changed was handled so smoothly and naturally, making it really believable and touching.

This drama may not have big-name stars, but it’s full of joy, warmth, growth, and meaningful conversations. It’s seriously underrated. I loved every minute of it, and it left me feeling comforted and happy. I almost missed this drama, and thank God I didn’t. Watching it without waiting weekly for episodes was such a blessing.

I also really appreciated how the writers portrayed diverse female stories — divorced women, single moms, women who want kids or don’t, housewives — all shown without judgment. It sends such a beautiful message that there’s no “wrong” way to live your life, and it’s okay to change your mind too.

Overall, My Fated Boy is a cozy, heartfelt childhood-sweetheart story about two people who were always meant to find their way back to each other. Huge applause to the cast, writers, and Youku for bringing such a comforting gem to life 🥺❤️

👀 Who Should Watch This

If you love childhood sweethearts done right
If you want healthy communication and supportive parents
If you enjoy soft romance, emotional comfort, and warmth
If you’re tired of unnecessary angst and misunderstandings
If you like slice-of-life romances that feel real and healing

🚫 Who Might Want to Avoid

If you prefer heavy angst, toxic relationships, or dramatic chaos
If you dislike slow-burn, cozy storytelling
If childhood connections aren’t your thing at all

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My favorite drama ever! Such an underrated gem.

I love "older woman/ young man" dramas and "My fated boy" is the best by far.

I highly recommend this show to people who are looking for a ML & FL's healthy relationship. A couple that actually communicate and prefer to face the problems together instead of simply fighting or breaking up.
They had such a terrific chemistry. ♥️
A lot of sweet moments with cute hugs and great kisses.

The support from their families, friends and even bosses was also incredible.

You won't find a lot of anguish.
Probably only 2 episodes just before they get together (which happens really early, around half of the show) and 2 more episodes after that with some arguments but nothing too serious.
Actually, after most of the episodes I found myself having a sensation of joy and peace, without forgetting the huge smile on my face (and some "butterflies in my stomach" too).

I really loved watching such a devote and persistent ML (Lu Zheng An) who was totally determined to get his "wifey's" love. He was "young" but he was indeed quite mature and he never hesitated to show his love for her through actions. He really wanted the best for her. He Yu is such an amazing actor.

Li Xi Rui is, in my eyes, the most beautiful Chinese actress. She is also quite talented and was definitely brilliant in the paper of Lin Yang. I adored her strong personality.
Once she accepted Lu Zheng An's love she was determined to overcome any obstacle in their relationship and loved him back with the same passion.

I don't think there were major things or situations that I did not like.
I would not even say there was a love triangle neither. The "SFL" was a little bit childish and annoying at the beginning but she had such a great character development.
The "SML" was there just for the sake of the plot but the FL cleared things up early and he had no chance at all.

Music was awesome as well.

I already watched it twice and I will for sure repeat it many more times.

I hope there will be more dramas like this in the future.

Again, don't miss the chance to enjoy such a romantic and extraordinary story.

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Would I watch it again? Nope.

Alright bear in mind I have not fully watched all the dramas. I have only watched fully till episode 21. But that’s only because I was enjoying this drama and I didn’t want to see the main leads in trouble by the bitch that wants to brew up trouble.

Anyways, I kinda have an idea of what happened in the next few episodes so I will take it as that.

So the drama is relatively well done. The acting, the story, the casting was all decently alright. The romance and love between the leads are swoon worthy and the male lead piercing smile and gaze is pretty Wow. The acting of the female lead was top notch as well.

Overall, I may hold onto this and wait a little while before I finish this drama. But I may not watch it again only because it was a good drama, and I want to leave it as that. Who know I might watch it again way down the future. It’s like that feeling where ur so engrossed in the story that you just can’t be rewatching it again as it might lose the impression I have on the show.

Would I recommend it? Yes. There’s love, tragedy, youth, and alittle of a reality check as well. But it kinda shows simply that love conquers all. So who doesn’t like that?

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Love without the drama....just pure hearts and real connection

I just finished this drama and I'm completely in love with it! This is one of those rare gems that proves you don't need breakups, silly misunderstandings, or annoying drama stuff to create something beautiful.

The main couple is absolutely perfect together. The male lead is mature, supportive, and his love is so pure it melts your heart. He knows exactly what he wants from the start and never changes his mind. The female lead is strong, knows what she wants, and can stand up for herself. Yes, she has fears from past relationships, but that makes her feel real and easy to relate to. Their chemistry is amazing, and their hugs feel like warm blankets full of comfort and love.

What makes this drama special is how they handle problems. Instead of breaking up over every issue like typical dramas, they actually talk and work through things together. The story moves at a good pace without dragging or rushing through important moments.

Everyone around them is wonderfully supportive - their families, friends, and even their boss. The female friendships are especially heartwarming with no backstabbing, just real ride-or-die support. The childhood flashbacks add such sweetness and nostalgia to their love story.

Beyond the romance, this drama talks about important issues like pressure on women in their 30s and the judgment single mothers face. It teaches us that our biggest problems are often in our own heads, shaped by what society expects and our past experiences. But if we find courage to go after what we want, it's always worth it.

The music is beautiful, and the acting is amazing. He Yu deserves so much more recognition! This is definitely one of my favorites. Highly recommend for anyone wanting a meaningful, cozy watch that makes you believe in love again!

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Gender reversed childhood friends turned lovers story

If you exchange the genders of the leads, this is the typical childhood friends turned into lovers trope.

Their parents were best friends and neighbors. They promised each other that if their children had the same sex they'll be sworn siblings and if different let them marry. The catch? FL was born seven years before the ML. So by now you can guess that the main conflict in the drama is a society that looked down on older female-much younger male relationships.

I really liked that drama showed us flashbacks of the leads' childhood. The FL took care of the ML when their parents were busy, saved him when she thought he was bullied, basically treating him as just a younger brother. The ML on the other hand, worshipped the FL, obeyed her in everything and considered all her words to know how to please her.

The FL kept failing in relationships while the ML just looked on waiting until she finally notices him but she never did. He then went on to study abroad to become more competent and attractive. When he returned the virginal ML kept seducing the FL until she finally gave in. I really can imagine this as if their roles were reversed. A big brother taking care of his so-called sister who in turn is very obedient and tried to become attractive, then because she had a crush on him, pretended to be helpless and seduced him. See? Typical.

The real conflict in this drama is that the FL felt like she was a cradle snatcher if she will have a relationship with the ML. Once she got over this thinking, their relationship stayed strong amidst worried. I was satisfied to see that the main CP has enough people who are close to them supportive of their relationship. The people who matters.

I could not give this a perfect rating because I would have liked to see more growth in the leads, more reasons to see that they are an OTP but overall this is a fun watch which though typical was not that cliched.

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