The dramaaddict

His face reminds me of the Japanese actor, Yagira Yuya

Is homophobia a joke to you?

From an 8.4 rating to 7.9. This was so disappointing.

Yes I think the writers were going for an annoyingly cute personality, but he's simply just annoying.

I wouldn't be able to see the cuteness, even if my eyes are taped open

You're using the selfish word on only a particular character, so I'm not going to respond to you.

I've had this convo enough with people here the past few days, so I'm not going to start a new convo with you

If you still want my opinion, you can scroll down a bit and read my replies.

I'm tired of the back and forth about this topic. I'm no longer as enthusiastic about this kdrama enough to keep talking about it, hence me dropping it.

Have a nice day. I unfortunately do not have the energy for a new discussion about wedding impossible.

I know, the characters in this show are extremely flawed.

Him being ignorant of his own selfishness while calling Dohan selfish is a human thing to do.

I was just explaining why the whole selfishness conversation is happening in the comments and why no one is being as objective as they should be.

Then the writers shouldn't have made Jihan call Dohan selfish

Jihan was the first to use the word selfish on dohan. He caused this chain reaction of the watchers calling dohan selfish, then others who saw how the unfair and non objective narrative was being painted began defending dohan, and pointing out jihan's hypocrisy and selfishness too.

The day the episode that Jihan called dohan selfish dropped, this comment section was full of people repeating the words Jihan used to describe dohan, without being objective.

The more people that like jihan's and Ahjung's characters and have tunnel vision to their romance keep solely describing dohan as selfish, the more the selfish conversation will continue.

The selfish thing came about because Jihan used the word to describe Dohan, in the first place.

Which seems hypocritical since jihan is selfish too. To me he's the most selfish in the show.

At this point in the plot development, they're at the same level of quality to me. The only saving grace in wedding impossible, is that the main leads are acting slightly better than the leads in my demon, but they both suffer from a substandard plot.

And as much as it hurts to admit, I could feel the chemistry in the my demon couple, more than the couple in wedding impossible. The angst was unfortunately angsting properly.

So, if I judge the two Kdramas by their individual elements, they are sadly on the same level.

Which falls into one of the three possible scenarios I listed out. Having tunnel vision to the main leads and their romance.

I think the people who are replying to me aren't reading my comment at all. You're just regurgitating what I said in my comment.

Suffer an attack from what exactly? The only subject of unnecessary attack for queer representation I've seen is Dohan's character, not the show itself

But this isn't a queer show. The main leads are a hetero couple

I can't wait for more people to catch up with the episodes, so that the ratings can drop. 8.4 is to generous for this cluster fuck of a plot. I'd rather sit through my demon again. TWICE

So in summary, you don't care about him because he's not a stereotype?

I'm a gay person, not just a character. I have gay friends, not fictional characters. So, saying gay characters, in extension, gay individuals should have charisma, is problematic to me.

I can't see the compliment you are trying to give with that stereotype.

So I want to know what the charisma you are referring to might be

I'm not saying he might not be acting without charisma. I'm commenting on your statement that gay characters have charisma.

I'm just trying to understand what you see as charisma in a gay portrayal, because your comment seems rather stereotypical, rather than saying the actor isn't charismatic, you specified his gay portrayal lacks charisma. That's what made me comment in the first place

You said that gay characters inherently have charisma across the media you consume, so I just asked what your definition of charisma is, since you pointed out he played his gay character with little charisma.

So, what do you define as charisma, since you see it as a gay trait?

I've seen more about dohan. On Reddit, twitter, Instagram. I've seen more negativity towards dohan, than every other characters in this show, which prompted me to come here to comment my opinion. On the kdrama sub on Reddit, any positive comment about dohan is being downvoted to hell and back.

I just noticed an odd and obvious pattern and decided to speak on it.

So gay people should automatically be charismatic in nature? What do you define as charisma? We aren't a monolith