Winny

We all know
its fictional and accept bad boy popularity, to be more precise its XL character here. And your opinion of "they" or us Jing fans act as he's real life our bf, if the words sounds like that u..., its not different from how XL fans are fantasizing him here. Don't you think its sounds like that to them especially if you go compare your fav better than theirs. Is it not like you are downgrading their likes, dont you think so? Boring maybe your opinion, but weak ..um..the other side has different view about it on it is
all explained. Therefore, some may see immediately
and think why cant you see it their way. We are all talking about the same drama here.
And if the other side is calling you names. Then actually its your written opinions there that they felt attacked on what they believe about drama and its message overall.

I m only talking what I am seeing these days on mdl. Dont tell me to go see comments 3 or 4 months ago. Besides, how would you , in other perspective, go all dreamy of what they think is abusive. B* is not a good word to call somebody even on online. However, its not good to overally go badly criticized the character which sometimes sounds one has become out of
plot to the other side of the viewers. That may annoyed the other side. Because we all are invested in the drama.

yes Im sure YaoJing are having nice time together now...💜

its viewers nature ....so just take what u like and skip what u dont like...

XL is all charming . I hope then at least XL fans dont come to reply on YaoJing comments with those downgrades the couple and go on compliment about XL there. Ohh and also about this joke of "attacking real people" nope, we are only making opinions to the comment the profile is making. Its all words. Because it makes more sense than making shit talk on fiction characters. And I wonder why this kind of explanation about being "toxicity" is not here when one side all go fun talk toxic on a character which is not even the purpose the show is doing. Or you only think its only toxic when the other side come to let out their opinions too? Anyone if this comment is sincere then its good.

Well they deny those words "not hating" and "not disliking" but their actions are opposite. They never miss opportunity to attack the character with those words. Their energy...and starting to act like victims once we judge them. And come with "no serious!...
are just having fun". And if Jing exists in real world, hes what we call decent man, and those "cheating stalker" words are all lie. but if XL exists in real world. The way he treat WXL, define by the word as "abuser". Romantic hero but abuser.

Umm...well I will be quite thankful if you have a little respect towards YaoJing shippers. That you dont come talk bash. .and go all your praise for your the posionuous serpent act like vampire. Because this post doesnt talk about XL.

Lol Im repeating YaoJing every day to get their sweet vitamin energy 😍😽🥰

QuigShui town moments are of ShiQi abd WXL are the best....😍

You talk greatly on YaoJing. Thats why they deserve their happy ending in the end. By the way by any chane welcome board to YaoJing ship. Please visit us sometimes on YaoJing Happily Ever After thread on Season 2 page.

Yes I came here later than many. Even if I feel ridiculous, I will try not to let time passed with mess. I think I better stick with my own opinion. "Both love lines in story are true love but in the world only one can survive." My only hope
is that whatever characters they like or dislike, they dont attack real people. Both the casts and the fans. I mean from both sides.

Fans war are something, I kind of feel ridiculous sometimes these days 😏. So I may burst out sometimes. Sorry if it may sounds offending at times.

"supporters of abusers, dumb 12-year-olds, blood ATMs, losers", as an attorney, don't you think it makes sense for normal human judge to those who praise XL and while bashing Jing. Its not like XL fans only praise him but downgrade another too much while the facts they use aren't even true sometimes such as "XY only loves XL", or "Never sacrifice anything for XY" Nope. What kind of a mature grown woman would not know "what is abuser" and get fanscinated by all these pain, now you can say this fiction. And Im not being petty about being unhealthy sometimes on fiction and screen. I watched a lot of dramas where ml forced kiss fl and dragged her around. But XL is another level. (i can copy paste again those thing in another
comment if you like).
You and we do not need to know who are behind the profile picture. The judgement purely based on how you showing yourself online , with that screen monitor.

It seems they do not seem to aware that how they trash talk about Jing and Jingers before. I think this comment may sort of excit them more ? Anyway i use to think it should not be our nature that we also talk bad side of XL as SADIST ABUSER+stalker too. But now I think maybe we should so as to balance out their negative take on another ml. But yep need to consider our energy. ...when it will worth it...

.."betrayal" is not right word for the situation some might use.. .nevertheless , some other definetly enjoy to live
long in gentle ..calmly roaming the world altogether with learn failures, mistakes, heartbreaksrather than
..going dreamy with "what if" with a man who is ready to push you away at any
random time.

It is not misguided, it is the way we see it. Even IF it is TV series, it still reflects to people, the viewers, TV shows do contributes should this behavior be acceptable. We cannot all be 100 % healthy..only to what extend. Whether you think Yaoliu or Yaojing is more romantic..its the way you want to see it. Most Jingers do not think Yaoliu romance is deep, because there's not enough taking action or acceptance for it to happen despite their attraction. But to us Yaojing is romantic. Theres no way to feel its just friendship bond or familial one just only because they are gentle to each other, cos we all can see his and her jealous, her jealousy when he had fiancé kekkee...make him
feed her drink because the fiance pour drink for him. And I dont think she will steal kisses to any family member. Theres more examples but this comment getting long. There is a saying gentle commitment devotion stays longer and forever than any random raw passion. YaoJing is devoted to their relationship. The only way I may accept your comment is that yeo
they will get marry so become
one family. .😁 Guess its all fine if you are so much into XL...and
ignore other things.. but it's not
right when you are seeing things in certain ways. ..commenting what you think or want to think is correct although it may not be.
not be.

Thank u.❤️

yep....it is i guess its good to debate it here sometimes
..although in the end we will stick with our own opinion but still cheers 🥂 we are still waiting for season 2 here right

"The physical abuse XL inflicted on XY would never measure the mental abuse TSJ caused her."
yep, mental abuse is suffering, physical abuse by mood can just let someone die at one time too. But oh this is fiction. umm..heartbreak is mental abuse ?...hmm As a Jinger i guess im glad she got to love him like that and yearn for it. fate still play the part and yep we got our sugary happy ending. Having no backbone or calming is something indeed. Love hurts! But unspoken but act rough love is not hurt right... but yep it did not get to bloom and therefore does not live.

i do understand you and this is not many times that I comment XL is abusive here. Well he is to me. But in the overall feel it is not toxic because there's no actually relationship. He came pass to XY life to go through fear, traumatic pasts and this unexplainable attraction bond . I'd XL is quite selfless character. I believe he actually is romantic too. But even his selfless actions are still questionable. I notice one thing though. There are viewers who think YaoJing is true romantic love and there are viewers who think YaoLiu is true romantic love. Its personal take on love or love in fiction. as far as comments go, viewers believe
YaoLiu is true love because they have this lovers bugs connection and she puts him her gorilla mirror...despite being from oppisite and they still share good feelings even if it is "buried in the ocean". But some viewers believe that YaoJing is true love because they work it out to action. Whatever people judge on WXL tests on Jing several times. Or Jing asking WXL 15 years of promise against all odds that he's engaged with loveless marriage because of his family. She gave him a chance too. Jing grabbed his opportunity and XY learn to love someone consciously even through heart breaks from it too. But having same life purpose deep down, their commitment work. And we YaoJing fans know how destined they are.
But yep characters are characters but they can also mirror the viewers deep thinking too? We can all see YaoJing fans and YaoLiu fans are all different.