I LOVE ep 42!!!! The twist is soooooo good!!!!! I was smiles from ear to ear as Lucia ran into the sea LOL I think there is no revenge left on SR.... and Lucia can have a happy life. I love how Lucia doesnt have to do anythng, GC is doing the revenge on her own and SR already did a major revenge herself too LOL Also, GC is entirely evil cold. Wow a monster. SR mom is dead???
***** I was thinking of this drama. My parents and family are not any different than the parents in this kdrama.…
MY MOTHER IS A CHRONIC SLIMEY POLIT LIAR... SHE ACtUALLY HATES ME.... AND... SHE INTENTIONALLY WANTS TO REMOVE ME AND HURT ME AS SOON AS SOMETHING IS NOT TO HER LIKING, and her liking is to have her ass kissed and to let her be abusive It took me like 60 years to finally figure it out, and what did it is comeback to live with my mother alone for a year, after being absent for 40 years and gaining skills and education to tackle these subjects.
I think she is called a narcissist? I also want to share bits of my story as it is happening now. I come from a super sexist background so my mother (and late father) and the rest of family treated me like as low grade slave, and male children had super extra privileges. I was beaten and ridiculed and abandoned. THE WORST PART, just like it was done to the kids in this kdrama, is that they tell you they love you and you ar just imagining everything. That creates such a split inside, a lot of grief and anger, because you KNOW you are gaslighted but there is "no evidence" as they are so ... polite to your face but doing bad things to you. Of course I ran away as soon as I could :) and I came back after 40 years to help my mother, she is 91 and just widowed after 60 yrs... . I took care of her alone 24/7 for a year. I overheard her talking such vile shit to my brother over the phone several times already.
Today I listened to it too. IT IS AN INCREDIBLE FEELING WHEN THE GASLIGHTING IS OUT IN THE OPEN. Suddenly grief and anger disappear because there is nothing hidden lurking there. You see the stark truth of the situation.
And refunding the kids at any slightest chance... today my mother and I were talking about something about the household. It was a dry talk about what to cook for lunch etc. In the middle of the conversation, out of blue she suddenly started laughing loudly and said that I got huge boobs like Sophia Loren since I got here. She was laughing in ridicule at me. THAT she does a LOT and has done it all her life. I said hey you are making fun of me. She - like every professional bully - said - hey you dont know how to take a joke. I said, I NEVER heard a nice joke about me, it is always some kind of ridicule and humiliation. So I just left to another room, not saying a word.
i stopped later to give her fruit for snack and I went outside, and she called my brother to HARM ME. I overheard her talking shit to my brother. She was telling him how abusive I was and how I talk back at her and she just stays silent because I will "take out her eyes" in retaliation... My brother was telling her to call police and she was saying she would but is too ashamed for her reputation... My brother of course did NOT have any other useful suggestions - he and she play this game where she complains and he caters to her and they fuel hate for me in each other, BUT NEVER does he step in to actually FIND HER a better helper LOL that is his slimey way of getting out of any responsiblity.... so she was venting like that and was telling him not to worry, she will take care of it. MY BROTHER NEVER CALLS HER. His wife is completely evil and has alienatd him from his own family.
So my mother doesnt want me taking care of her and plans to kick me out. What a stupid situation. I am here SACRIFICING myself, I dont really want or need to be here and I am just doing what I can to help, and it is very hard on me, I reather be somewhere else having fun!!! I would leave as soon as I could, so as soon they tell me they dont need me, I am out. Why talk shit behind my back... ? it is totally stupid. My brother is doing all this because he has NO intentions of really helping her and finding someone. His solution was to put my mother into a senior home... and my stupid mother still talks trash with him. My mother is stupid, since I take good care of her and her health improved, and nobody is stealing her things or abusing her anymore, but as soon as she got stronger, she became this mafia boss type
. Then my mother called a neighbor and talked shit about me too. The neighbor hung up on her LOL
***** I was thinking of this drama. My parents and family are not any different than the parents in this kdrama. I lived like those kids all my life. I had to leave for 40 years and live alone with my mothr taking care of her for a while to really really SEE what my mother is like. **** The clarity of seeing that is quite liberating. Suddely the fog around you lifts up and all is clear. MY MOTHER IS A WATERED DOWN VERSION OF SE HEE it makes me think what kind of karma it is? Maybe I was like that in past lives? Maybe I had to experience it to understand what so many children have to endure? I dont know.
I AM 100% THAT PARENTS DESCRIBED IN THIS KDRAMA ARE FOR REAL THE GASLIGHTING PARENTS ARE FOR REAL.
IT IS TOTALLY REAL THAT YOUR PARENT *** LIES *** TO YOU ALL YOUR LIFE HOW THEY LOVE YOU, WHILE THEY ARE HURTING YOU, CODDLING THEIR COMFORT. So many kids live with that great dilemma and fear of the conflict between words and deeds of selfish parents.
it can play out in seemingly more innocent and socially acceptable things like wanting your kid to be a doctor, etc which is a form of heavy abuse, and it can play all the way to abuse, torture and harm in more physical and obvious ways.
I am totally impressed by the acting of older and also younger Ah Hyongs ( ooops am I misspelling it... ? ) Younger AH is an epitomy of graceful wisdom, she knows EXACTLY what is important.
I think the scene with Q/A between the Evil One and the parents questioning refunds is one of the most powerful scenes ever. It sums bad parenting, egotism, greed and entitlement of the rich in just few seconds. Bad poor parents are exactly like that too
I like the realism of the drama, nothing is sugar coated. Dumb good ppl die, bad guys have $$$$ and are in huge numbers and keep winning, ... etc These are some MAJOR takeaway lessons for what not to do and what to do. I like not avoiding difficult topics. They are ugly and painful and disturbing BUT THEY ARE THERE, this kdrama is actually real, everything shown there - bad parenting, corruption, genetic manipulation, etc - all of that IS happening today as we speak. I think kids COULD just turn on livestreaming media and get help that way.. ? Would that work?
This drama has a bit too much fighting and violence imo ... On the positive side, it shows just the right meaningful moments that mean a lot. Like two AHs conversation in the car, or refunding speech. MASTERFUL script
Ah this is JH chance to START ATONING and redeeming himself so that he doesnt end up as 100% evil . RIGHT NOW.…
JH is setting fire on the kids and AH is there, so I HOPE when he sees her burn, he will save the kids and ... die himself maybe, otherwise he will end up on the death row anyways if this gets exposed, or as one of the MAJOR devils in hell if he gets away with it for the rest of his life
I'm aware that this drama is a heavy theme but there have to be a different and better way to show the "revenge"…
which scene was deleted? What is "too disturbing"? You want to close your eyes to things that ACTUALLY HAPPEN IN REAL LIFE, like christianity going against gays? Common. Dont be a snowflake. It is what it is and we need to deal with it, not delete it and pretend it doesnt exist.
I never wanted redemption arc for that dumb bas*ard character, he needs torturous death.
but he can be useful. Right now HE is setting fire to the kids and burning AH alive. NOW OR NEVER is his chance to be useful and die with an open heart instead of dying as a cold serial killer criminal on a death row.. HE CAN SAVE THE KIDS NOW. Let's hope h does it
I was genuinely hoping that jung hyeon would get a proper redemption arc but based on the first 5 eps and preview…
He is setting fire on AH and he WILL do it. That change of heart might happen when he SEES HER BURN ALIVE. then he might jump in to save them all and lose his life and that is totally the best solution bc if he stays alive, he is gong to death row anyways
That scene with those fetuses was distrubing like really disturbing
yah very american gross what was the point of doing that ? we GET the idea... I guess to drive it home even more... ? Is that something christian then.... ?
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I love how Lucia doesnt have to do anythng, GC is doing the revenge on her own and SR already did a major revenge herself too LOL
Also, GC is entirely evil cold. Wow a monster. SR mom is dead???
It took me like 60 years to finally figure it out, and what did it is comeback to live with my mother alone for a year, after being absent for 40 years and gaining skills and education to tackle these subjects.
I think she is called a narcissist?
I also want to share bits of my story as it is happening now. I come from a super sexist background so my mother (and late father) and the rest of family treated me like as low grade slave, and male children had super extra privileges. I was beaten and ridiculed and abandoned. THE WORST PART, just like it was done to the kids in this kdrama, is that they tell you they love you and you ar just imagining everything. That creates such a split inside, a lot of grief and anger, because you KNOW you are gaslighted but there is "no evidence" as they are so ... polite to your face but doing bad things to you.
Of course I ran away as soon as I could :) and I came back after 40 years to help my mother, she is 91 and just widowed after 60 yrs... .
I took care of her alone 24/7 for a year. I overheard her talking such vile shit to my brother over the phone several times already.
Today I listened to it too.
IT IS AN INCREDIBLE FEELING WHEN THE GASLIGHTING IS OUT IN THE OPEN.
Suddenly grief and anger disappear because there is nothing hidden lurking there. You see the stark truth of the situation.
And refunding the kids at any slightest chance... today my mother and I were talking about something about the household. It was a dry talk about what to cook for lunch etc. In the middle of the conversation, out of blue she suddenly started laughing loudly and said that I got huge boobs like Sophia Loren since I got here. She was laughing in ridicule at me. THAT she does a LOT and has done it all her life. I said hey you are making fun of me. She - like every professional bully - said - hey you dont know how to take a joke. I said, I NEVER heard a nice joke about me, it is always some kind of ridicule and humiliation. So I just left to another room, not saying a word.
i stopped later to give her fruit for snack and I went outside, and she called my brother to HARM ME. I overheard her talking shit to my brother. She was telling him how abusive I was and how I talk back at her and she just stays silent because I will "take out her eyes" in retaliation... My brother was telling her to call police and she was saying she would but is too ashamed for her reputation...
My brother of course did NOT have any other useful suggestions - he and she play this game where she complains and he caters to her and they fuel hate for me in each other, BUT NEVER does he step in to actually FIND HER a better helper LOL that is his slimey way of getting out of any responsiblity.... so she was venting like that and was telling him not to worry, she will take care of it. MY BROTHER NEVER CALLS HER. His wife is completely evil and has alienatd him from his own family.
So my mother doesnt want me taking care of her and plans to kick me out. What a stupid situation. I am here SACRIFICING myself, I dont really want or need to be here and I am just doing what I can to help, and it is very hard on me, I reather be somewhere else having fun!!! I would leave as soon as I could, so as soon they tell me they dont need me, I am out. Why talk shit behind my back... ? it is totally stupid. My brother is doing all this because he has NO intentions of really helping her and finding someone. His solution was to put my mother into a senior home... and my stupid mother still talks trash with him. My mother is stupid, since I take good care of her and her health improved, and nobody is stealing her things or abusing her anymore, but as soon as she got stronger, she became this mafia boss type
.
Then my mother called a neighbor and talked shit about me too. The neighbor hung up on her LOL
MY MOTHER IS A WATERED DOWN VERSION OF SE HEE it makes me think what kind of karma it is? Maybe I was like that in past lives? Maybe I had to experience it to understand what so many children have to endure? I dont know.
I AM 100% THAT PARENTS DESCRIBED IN THIS KDRAMA ARE FOR REAL THE GASLIGHTING PARENTS ARE FOR REAL.
IT IS TOTALLY REAL THAT YOUR PARENT *** LIES *** TO YOU ALL YOUR LIFE HOW THEY LOVE YOU, WHILE THEY ARE HURTING YOU, CODDLING THEIR COMFORT. So many kids live with that great dilemma and fear of the conflict between words and deeds of selfish parents.
it can play out in seemingly more innocent and socially acceptable things like wanting your kid to be a doctor, etc which is a form of heavy abuse, and it can play all the way to abuse, torture and harm in more physical and obvious ways.
I think the scene with Q/A between the Evil One and the parents questioning refunds is one of the most powerful scenes ever. It sums bad parenting, egotism, greed and entitlement of the rich in just few seconds. Bad poor parents are exactly like that too
I like the realism of the drama, nothing is sugar coated. Dumb good ppl die, bad guys have $$$$ and are in huge numbers and keep winning, ... etc These are some MAJOR takeaway lessons for what not to do and what to do. I like not avoiding difficult topics. They are ugly and painful and disturbing BUT THEY ARE THERE, this kdrama is actually real, everything shown there - bad parenting, corruption, genetic manipulation, etc - all of that IS happening today as we speak.
I think kids COULD just turn on livestreaming media and get help that way.. ? Would that work?
This drama has a bit too much fighting and violence imo ... On the positive side, it shows just the right meaningful moments that mean a lot. Like two AHs conversation in the car, or refunding speech. MASTERFUL script
BUT In ep 6 he is going to seriously harm "his" AH ....