someone know the title of the song at ep 4?Min. 21.47
It seems to be a children's song, so I googled it and this is what I found :) Akatombo "Red Dragonfly" (Japanese: 赤とんぼ, Hepburn: Akatonbo) (also transliterated as Akatombo, Aka Tombo, Aka Tonbo, or Aka Tomba) is a famous Japanese children's song (dōyō) composed by Kōsaku Yamada in 1927, with lyrics from a 1921 poem by Rofū Miki. I also found a youtub video with the song sanged by a choir in Eng translatino. Or a Japanese version called - Lyrics) AKATONBO (Children’s song) | 赤とんぼ (童謡・唱歌) I think this is the song :) because this is the only thing I could find.
Interesting. I didn't know the back story. However, that has very little to do with the success fulness of this…
People and relationships are complicated, some can forgive and get over such things. I don't like the idea of cheating and I would never do sucha thing, it goes against my being. Also if you would ask me, sex is not only about intercorse, but again it depends on the people and how comfortable and open they can comunicate. If I would have been in the same situation I would have goten very creative when it comes to sex and cheating would have never been an option. Her inability of talking to her partner from the start, made her shutdown, after deciding to do the right thing, be open and sincere maybe they got creative as well.
If one chooses someone else and then comes back that is not love, going around it's easy, sticking around when it's complicated it's hard, that makes the difference. It depends on people and their values and what kind of relationship they want to have (if it's not a superficial one they would try everything before they give up). I find it admirable if a person would also put in effort to try to save a relatinoship, it would mean it matters, it would mean they cared , they would have their partner's back (together in good and bad). :)
Interesting. I didn't know the back story. However, that has very little to do with the success fulness of this…
They stoped cheating and stayed together. Loves is choosing the same person every day. They stayed together because they loved each other, but learned how to comunicate. We know what happened only untill the jurnals after that and what they are doing today we don't know. Maybe they resolved everything bit's 2024 now.
Interesting. I didn't know the back story. However, that has very little to do with the success fulness of this…
No it was not because they wanted to cheat, it was frustration, the guy payed for sex every weekend for a profesional and never slept with the same woman twice, he did not want to get to know them or to create an emotional conection, they would litteraly have intersorse without too much prelude and he never kissed. He wanted to have sex get it out of the his system and kept any human conection out of it. The woman had sex because she did not want to feel like a failure, indirectly her husband was frustrated that they could not be together and she started feeling like it was her fault, like she was not a good woman, like she was a failure as a woman for not being able to be with her husband. So when she first accepts to have sex with another guy, she does it because she thinks her body will shut down and physically not be able to have sex (she thinks it is impossible for her), she is surprised that she can do it. She then feels happy that she is not a failure as a woman, and that it's not her fault for being unable to have sex with her husband. She is also doing this because she knows her husband sleeps with sex workers. In the end, they talk it out and tell each other everything and they decide to work things out even if at first they almost break up. I think the show is layered and there are a lot of psychological things, and everything is complicated. I was frustrated that at the end of the series, they did not ask for help from the professionals who could have helped them... No therapy, no doctors, and her "sickness" was never identified or cured, when it is something that can be worked through in so many ways. But their upbringing and the society's stereotypes stopped her from asking for help out loud.
Interesting. I didn't know the back story. However, that has very little to do with the success fulness of this…
She can't have sex with him literally, there is a phenomenon or strange reaction in certain cases when the reproductive organ contracts in such a way that it closes down/tightens automatically. In her case, it's triggered because of a trauma and is based on a psychological problem. It was triggered when she was about to have her first time with the man she loved, and she felt dirty when she realized he thought she was pure and a virgin. She created a barrier in her mind, because of the pressure of opening up, wanting to be perfect for him. Things became worse because she did not search for answers in the right way. She went to the doctor and they assumed it was because of infertility, she did not even explain the reason and what was going on.
For episode 4 as they talked some parts I consider as a blade with 2 edged sides :)) The girl mentioned she went out agree to split the bill with the guy but ended up buying 2 things while the guy just one, so he expected her to pay. Everyone thought the guy was in the wrong. I on the other side thought it can get complicated, because going out saying "we will slit the bill in half" and then the other person buys the most expensive things on the menu and 5 course meal and desert for takeaway, it would not be fair (and I saw this type of taking advantage). Normally people should be respectful, thoughtful, and have commune sense, if you split the bill half, people should buy similar things it's the respectful thing, if not each should pay their own bill. If I invite someone out, and I want to treat them, I plan and I pay everything, because I want to do this gesture for them. If my boyfriend takes the initiative and wants to pamper me he will pay in full. But this should be talked and people should not take advantage, communication is the key, if you know you eat a lot tell them so they would know.
In the first episode after they entered they crossed paths with 2 guys running in nude, and they feel embarrassed... but in Korean bath houses/spas the men are naked, it's nothing new, but somehow they have a strong reaction in the first episode :)))
This is a pathetic attempt to capitalize on one of the greatest xianxia novels ever written without spending too…
I remember they did the first season, and people loved it even though it garnered a few strange points of view in China. This project is not a Xianxia it's a Xuanhuan, and in that period there were not a lot of projects like this on TV, even now compared to other genres Xuanhuans are not that many. But if looking at what they need to accomplish it's insane, a lot of CGI is needed and it's expensive, with all the powers that grow and the multitude of characters, leveling up and all. They cut out characters, they changed others and with that, they changes some of the action and story, and in the end, people got pissed with the ending of the first season as well. They always had the intention of doing the story, but in the end, this second season turned out as a reboot...
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Akatombo
"Red Dragonfly" (Japanese: 赤とんぼ, Hepburn: Akatonbo) (also transliterated as Akatombo, Aka Tombo, Aka Tonbo, or Aka Tomba) is a famous Japanese children's song (dōyō) composed by Kōsaku Yamada in 1927, with lyrics from a 1921 poem by Rofū Miki.
I also found a youtub video with the song sanged by a choir in Eng translatino.
Or a Japanese version called - Lyrics) AKATONBO (Children’s song) | 赤とんぼ (童謡・唱歌)
I think this is the song :) because this is the only thing I could find.
Also if you would ask me, sex is not only about intercorse, but again it depends on the people and how comfortable and open they can comunicate. If I would have been in the same situation I would have goten very creative when it comes to sex and cheating would have never been an option.
Her inability of talking to her partner from the start, made her shutdown, after deciding to do the right thing, be open and sincere maybe they got creative as well.
If one chooses someone else and then comes back that is not love, going around it's easy, sticking around when it's complicated it's hard, that makes the difference. It depends on people and their values and what kind of relationship they want to have (if it's not a superficial one they would try everything before they give up). I find it admirable if a person would also put in effort to try to save a relatinoship, it would mean it matters, it would mean they cared , they would have their partner's back (together in good and bad). :)
The woman had sex because she did not want to feel like a failure, indirectly her husband was frustrated that they could not be together and she started feeling like it was her fault, like she was not a good woman, like she was a failure as a woman for not being able to be with her husband.
So when she first accepts to have sex with another guy, she does it because she thinks her body will shut down and physically not be able to have sex (she thinks it is impossible for her), she is surprised that she can do it. She then feels happy that she is not a failure as a woman, and that it's not her fault for being unable to have sex with her husband.
She is also doing this because she knows her husband sleeps with sex workers.
In the end, they talk it out and tell each other everything and they decide to work things out even if at first they almost break up.
I think the show is layered and there are a lot of psychological things, and everything is complicated.
I was frustrated that at the end of the series, they did not ask for help from the professionals who could have helped them... No therapy, no doctors, and her "sickness" was never identified or cured, when it is something that can be worked through in so many ways. But their upbringing and the society's stereotypes stopped her from asking for help out loud.
It was triggered when she was about to have her first time with the man she loved, and she felt dirty when she realized he thought she was pure and a virgin. She created a barrier in her mind, because of the pressure of opening up, wanting to be perfect for him. Things became worse because she did not search for answers in the right way. She went to the doctor and they assumed it was because of infertility, she did not even explain the reason and what was going on.
The girl mentioned she went out agree to split the bill with the guy but ended up buying 2 things while the guy just one, so he expected her to pay. Everyone thought the guy was in the wrong.
I on the other side thought it can get complicated, because going out saying "we will slit the bill in half" and then the other person buys the most expensive things on the menu and 5 course meal and desert for takeaway, it would not be fair (and I saw this type of taking advantage).
Normally people should be respectful, thoughtful, and have commune sense, if you split the bill half, people should buy similar things it's the respectful thing, if not each should pay their own bill.
If I invite someone out, and I want to treat them, I plan and I pay everything, because I want to do this gesture for them. If my boyfriend takes the initiative and wants to pamper me he will pay in full. But this should be talked and people should not take advantage, communication is the key, if you know you eat a lot tell them so they would know.
But if looking at what they need to accomplish it's insane, a lot of CGI is needed and it's expensive, with all the powers that grow and the multitude of characters, leveling up and all.
They cut out characters, they changed others and with that, they changes some of the action and story, and in the end, people got pissed with the ending of the first season as well. They always had the intention of doing the story, but in the end, this second season turned out as a reboot...