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Don't worry, you're lucky to never have seen or read Fifty Shades before this (I don't recommend ever doing it). This is a way more accurate and responsible depiction of BDSM

You seriously think the message of the movie is "BDSM is the only way to live and everything else is wrong"?

No problem! 👍

What's up with your friends that lie to your faces like this? Another person also commented that they were told this movie was super explicit

No, it's not 'crazy' at all. There isn't even anything explicit in it. I don't know what kind of porn your friends are watching but porn can't even BEGIN to be compared to this

Or even the same woman you were previously a Dom with. If you feel like a Dom sometimes but there are times when a woman makes you want to submit to them, it's likely you're a switch

🕯 Manifesting more dramas and movies that have the 'Submissive Male Lead' tag in them 🕯

Also he didn't just start the job! He just transferred areas. He worked in the company already

By the conversation he has with the security guard, it doesn't look like this was the first time he did it. The only problem was that the security guard didn't know he'd transferred areas and there is the coincidence of having a coworker with an almost identical name.

I don't know how they receive packages in Korea, but if they just leave them at your door even when you're not home it's much more dangerous for him to do that and risk a neighbor or anyone else stealing it and opening it. At work, it's way less likely someone would open something that is not for them because the security guard is the one handing them out.

I've only seen him in Imitation and I literally liked every other member of his group more than him 😂 And the SML as well! He plays adorable characters perfectly so fingers crossed he'll play more in the future. We've got enough brooding male leads, bring in the puppy male leads now!

OH LMAO I thought you were saying they didn't have it dubbed in your native language, I assumed korean was included 😭 I wish I could offer a solution but it just sounds like pure Netflix nonsense

Yes, he was. He explains at several points in the movie that it makes him feel free and he enjoys being broken down by her. The Dom's enjoyment of inflicting pain is directly tied to the submissive's enjoyment of receiving it. It's a constant give and take between two people who are into the same thing, but on opposite sides of the spectrum.

Not giving her enough confidence to voice her concerns and make her afraid to confront him instead of making her feel safe is a major, major failing as a Dom and a huge red flag. Not to mention Christian is very controlling and abusive towards her in general.

I don't know if you think the characters exist in a vacuum or what, but Fifty Shades is not a book about the wrong ways to be a Dom. It's a book that portrays what happens as what BDSM is supposed to be, and how "hot" everything they do is.

"Just having a contract" is not the right thing if the contract is a shitty one, especially when you are making a complete newcomer who has no fucking clue about right and wrong in BDSM sign it.

There most definitely is right and wrong in BDSM. If you are a Dom, it's your strict responsibility to recognize whether or not your sub is enjoying themselves and engaging in play because they want to. Anastasia repeatedly states that she doesn't really enjoy most of what they do but she is afraid of how he'll react if she refuses to obey him, and scared that he may leave her because she is too innocent and virginal and can't take what he gives. Not feeling safe enough to say no during play because you're scared of the consequences goes against everything BDSM stands for.

If your sub feels that way you've already failed as a Dom and need to reevaluate everything you've been doing.

He literally prepared for the role by watching videos of Golden Retrievers 😂😂

Sadly he doesn't normally play characters as precious and adorable as this one, he plays more brooding characters

It's probably some weird Netflix thing that restricts dubs. I have the LATAM Spanish, English, Italian and German dubs available

Also, Ji Woo's mom is a gem. Not judgemental at all!

Her dress during the candle scene is my favorite. She looks beautiful in it

One thing I really loved that I feel is not talked about enough, is Ji Woo wearing comfortable clothes during some sessions. There are some where she is wearing high heels or tight leather clothes-- but in others she's wearing very comfortable-looking dresses. I love that they didn't reduce female domination to simply a leather-clad Dominatrix and instead showed that domination is not mainly about the way you look but about the way you carry yourself during play. 10/10

He did it again in an interview while grinning ear to ear so I think he was ok with it 😂