What she did with In Gang is understandable because she could not predict that he would do that, she thought she…
She did tell Jun Seo she would come back though. She keeps avoiding telling him that she doesnāt want to be with him like that and itās because she wants to be able to retain some control over him. Tbh even if she tells him firmly he might still lose his shit and crash out anyway but it would still be a product of her original manipulation. Itās a no win situation
Now you guys know that devil didnāt born that way. The world made them. Ahjin since young, she was abused cruelly…
How can you say thatš Jun Seo is someone she moulded into who he is since they were children. She told him his duty in this life is to be sorry to her and to protect her so thatās what he thinks. She has used guilt to control him since he was just a child. She said he should have rescued her in the bathroom that day but itās something she says to keep him obedient. He was a child too and couldnāt actually have saved her š but because she also made him think she was the only one that ever loved him as they were growing up heās bonded to her now. We watched the same show how could you miss thisš yeah, she went through a lot but he and Jae O are literally her first victims. That doesnāt completely absolve them of their wrongs but when youāre talking about their dynamic you have to be clear that itās on her. Jun Seo is acting crazy because he doesnāt know how else to be. He thinks he was put on this earth to protect her but she keeps leaving him and telling him sheāll be back- he canāt understand it and wonāt. Humans are not always perfect robots so because he has his own conscience and is becoming obsessed heās now acting in a way she didnāt plan for. If she stayed by his side he wouldnāt be struggling with his identity rn. His madness is also her creation, sheāll have to bear that. Thatās on her. Donāt turn it on himš
I might be the only one who doesn't want to see her downfall (even if i know it might be coming). At first i really…
If she had left him in one piece he wouldnāt have committed suicide. She pushed him to it and she knows it too. She didnāt have to be so cruel. She brought up his insecurities and basically implied that it was because of his own foolishness that she could come into his family and hurt his grandma like that. She knew what she was doing there. Donāt reduce it. She was putting the blame on him and knew he was fragile. It wasnāt even true that it was his fault. She orchestrated the whole thing. But she made him feel that it was his fault. Yeah most of the people she hurt deserved it, but not In Gang at all. Not this level of hurt
These last episodes were really heavy. I feel drained after watching them. After Halmeoni died I was wondering why she was acting like she was self destructing and seemingly blowing her own cover and not being clear about if she didnāt it or not. Turns out she really was descending into deeper madness from Halmeoniās death. Everyone is collateral damage if Ahjin feels like sheās suffering. I wish In Gang didnāt have to hear all that and go through all that. He didnāt do anything wrong. He didnāt even bring up what the neighbour said to her because he didnāt want to lose her. But no, sheās hurting so he has to hurt even more. She couldāve left him in one piece at least but she doesnāt like to do that. They have to become as twisted as she can make them. And will give herself the excuse that they were weak anyway. He died in a lot of pain and thatās what hurts the most about it. The whole thing with Halmeoni confirmed that her madness was created but now she really is descending in to the pits of madness.
I wish she would have been satisfied with a good, stable situation. I wonder if she would have told him to hold off on the marriage until much later? She didnāt love him but seemed to have a soft spot for his grandma the most. She might have married him just for that or kept the breakup simple so she could still visit his grandma? I donāt know. I feel that she wouldāve gone ahead with the breakup seeking higher grounds of success because she really had gotten all she could out of him. Their photos together were so nice and seeing him so happy was sooooo nice. But that happiness was built with a version of her that wasnāt really her. She probably couldāve kept it up forever if she thought the arrangement was good enough though. He definitely should have told her about his plans but itās not like he told the press to follow him and take photos. At worst, they couldāve talked about it and settled it. He probably had a feeling she would say no, and it was a selfish request anyway. But he wouldāve taken her no, not yet. So that level of beating he took about her intentions was by farrrrrrr, unnecessary
When Jun Seo says he wants her to be happy he means that he wants are to be happy with him. Not anyone else. I wish he would face himself and take care of himself instead. Though I know he canāt. Why did Ahjin promise that she would come back to him? She should look him in the face and say that theyāre not in a relationship or that she likes her position now and wonāt go back to him but she didnāt because she doesnāt want to lose him either. Heās useful to her thatās all. Turns out his friendship with the other girl was completely his choice. To some extent, he wants to hurt her too because she hurt him. Everything is a mess. Why is the gross classmate back? Also, itās not believable to me because why would she let her in?!!! In Youp should play more melo roles like this. It suits him so well. Maybe a show where he and his wife are going through potential divorce? It would be soo good Iām so pained about this episode. How do I get over thisš
I'm sayingg like you understand why they're allowing ajin to use them but they're acting so pathetic it's embarrassing.…
With Junseo, she literally raised/groomed him into a human that can and will protect her to the best of his abilities. Because of this, If sheās hurt, he blames himself, so he has to help her for his sanity. With Jae o, she validates his existence and gives him a reason to live. Sheās primed them to be like this for her using their weaknesses. Theyāre situations that wouldnāt exist if they werenāt so scarred as children.
i feel like Jun Seo has some psychopath tendencies on his own.. it's impossible to read how he truly feels / who…
Heās definitely twisted now. I can never tell what heās thinking either. He observes people in the same way and seems to categorise them and understand their usefulness to him/them quickly. But I think itās because he grew up with her.
He grew up watching and understanding life from her lens. He doesnāt find joy in things or actually find them funny because she doesnāt really either. Using guilt and naivety, she turned him into a sort of shadow of her when they were just kids. A shadow that protects and understands her, gives her what she needs and exists for her. His feelings seem numb because his sense of self is sort of tied to her I think. I think the fits of rage are his obsession and frustration coming out. Heās like a suppressed human being. She couldnāt get rid of his empathy though so thatās why he wasnāt completely ruined and thatās what they disagree on. So Iām trying to say that maybe heās a āprogrammedā sociopath? Maybe therapy could fix him though. Iāve definitely wasnāt born with his psychopathic tendencies. She sort of created them. So I donāt his character can be explained outside of his victim hood. But thatās just my theory.
When he was watching her with Jae O and In Gang, I think he was annoyed and wondering why she never thinks to treat him like she treats them? Why can she try to love In Gang and laugh with Jae O? Why cant he have this with her too? Why does she only hurt him? But itās because she comes to him in her truest form lol. But maybe he was thinking something else? Iām not sure
I wish I could read him though. I just want to know what heās thinking š« but he keeps it tightly wrapped away. Idk about the Lena situation yet. I guess weāll find out if Ah Jin sent him to her or not. If she didnāt then that would be super intriguing!!
You can like a character without agreeing with their actions. Have you never liked any villains in movies/tv shows?
No no itās not that I like her. Itās just that itās not her fault she was created as someone who doesnāt ālike peopleā. She was literally created rotten lol. Instead, what makes her bad is her continuous cruelty. Sociopaths can choose to if to make bad or good decisions like regular people because sheās an adult that now understands that her actions hurt others so of course sheāll have to be punished for this. I understand that.
āI canāt wait to see her destruction for her evil actionsā. So far, only one person who was originally innocent is in prison. Jun Seo and Jae O know what theyāre getting with her. Theyāre not blind. Itās true that sheās taking advantage of them but theyāre not completely averse to this. Jun Seoās situation is more complicated because she created his dependency on her, but at the same time he knows what sheās up to. Jae O needs her to feel validated. So far, they havenāt hurt anyone (that didnāt deserve it) by helping her just yet. The situation with the man in prison- she did that herself. Sheās just largely manipulated peopleās thinking so far. But it hasnāt caused much harm yet. Iām just trying to say that of course she will meet her downfall but with the way people say it youād think an innocent person was already dead. It will happen Iām sure but until then the comments will make you think it already did. So many corrupt politicians and regular cruel people are just as bad because they have feelings and still do these and even worse things, and are walking around freely. But now that I think about it, maybe some of those people are also sociopaths because how can a person be so cruel damn
I wish she would have been satisfied with a good, stable situation. I wonder if she would have told him to hold off on the marriage until much later? She didnāt love him but seemed to have a soft spot for his grandma the most. She might have married him just for that or kept the breakup simple so she could still visit his grandma? I donāt know. I feel that she wouldāve gone ahead with the breakup seeking higher grounds of success because she really had gotten all she could out of him. Their photos together were so nice and seeing him so happy was sooooo nice. But that happiness was built with a version of her that wasnāt really her. She probably couldāve kept it up forever if she thought the arrangement was good enough though. He definitely should have told her about his plans but itās not like he told the press to follow him and take photos. At worst, they couldāve talked about it and settled it. He probably had a feeling she would say no, and it was a selfish request anyway. But he wouldāve taken her no, not yet. So that level of beating he took about her intentions was by farrrrrrr, unnecessary
When Jun Seo says he wants her to be happy he means that he wants are to be happy with him. Not anyone else. I wish he would face himself and take care of himself instead. Though I know he canāt. Why did Ahjin promise that she would come back to him?
She should look him in the face and say that theyāre not in a relationship or that she likes her position now and wonāt go back to him but she didnāt because she doesnāt want to lose him either. Heās useful to her thatās all. Turns out his friendship with the other girl was completely his choice. To some extent, he wants to hurt her too because she hurt him.
Everything is a mess. Why is the gross classmate back? Also, itās not believable to me because why would she let her in?!!!
In Youp should play more melo roles like this. It suits him so well. Maybe a show where he and his wife are going through potential divorce? It would be soo good
Iām so pained about this episode. How do I get over thisš
He observes people in the same way and seems to categorise them and understand their usefulness to him/them quickly. But I think itās because he grew up with her.
He grew up watching and understanding life from her lens. He doesnāt find joy in things or actually find them funny because she doesnāt really either. Using guilt and naivety, she turned him into a sort of shadow of her when they were just kids. A shadow that protects and understands her, gives her what she needs and exists for her. His feelings seem numb because his sense of self is sort of tied to her I think. I think the fits of rage are his obsession and frustration coming out. Heās like a suppressed human being. She couldnāt get rid of his empathy though so thatās why he wasnāt completely ruined and thatās what they disagree on.
So Iām trying to say that maybe heās a āprogrammedā sociopath? Maybe therapy could fix him though. Iāve definitely wasnāt born with his psychopathic tendencies. She sort of created them. So I donāt his character can be explained outside of his victim hood. But thatās just my theory.
When he was watching her with Jae O and In Gang, I think he was annoyed and wondering why she never thinks to treat him like she treats them? Why can she try to love In Gang and laugh with Jae O? Why cant he have this with her too? Why does she only hurt him? But itās because she comes to him in her truest form lol. But maybe he was thinking something else? Iām not sure
I wish I could read him though. I just want to know what heās thinking š« but he keeps it tightly wrapped away. Idk about the Lena situation yet. I guess weāll find out if Ah Jin sent him to her or not. If she didnāt then that would be super intriguing!!
So many corrupt politicians and regular cruel people are just as bad because they have feelings and still do these and even worse things, and are walking around freely. But now that I think about it, maybe some of those people are also sociopaths because how can a person be so cruel damn