Da-mimi

Xuchi;s proposal was practical and most acceptable..and addresses everyones concern.. dont think they would have choosen her proposal.. as the proposal rejection was because the various depts were uncomfortable with the whole project..only xuchi addressed that concern

bu tianne's brother is sharper than her.. at that age he figured the central point to the issue between sister and parents.. and told her he wants her to be CEO because he doesnt want to work so hard.. her being smart , didnt fall for that.. told him back he will change his mind when he grows up

her mothers apartment looks average ..in average locality..how come downpayment is 1million yuan??

I find her very smart and matured. the way she handed her colleague hitting on her at office retreat , and her relationship with FL>.. she comes across sorted. knows her mind..what she wants and doesnt .. knows to say no , push back... comes across more balanced and calm than their seniors at maximise..actually i find her character very interesting...waiting she see how her part turns out in the series.. both her and FL are making this series very interesting

Ep5: Ms Lin and her husband doesnt get each other.. its as if speaking different languages ..i feel sorry for her. supposedly very capable women doing great at work , doesnt have a language to make her husband understand her better.. any thing she says , her husband takes it as meaning as opposite... there is no single empathy in his bones.. almost like he is irritated at her..find her annoying...how was she living her life till then.. what are they doing having a child together ..the child will experience negligence in both their hands , while they are busy blaming each other

i wonder what has Ms lin achieved till now, if she hadnt achieved a peaceful , calm family space...

Ep4: Ms Lin still hasnt learnt her lesson - she has so many things going on.. pregnancy , issues with spouse , impending delivery break.. and issues with pregnancy due to stress.... and losing some aura at office due to bad calls in xuchi's case ... if nothing she would have been marked as a bad leader who couldnt groom a junior . which is huge in corporate world.. leader is excpected to control and manage a junior ..she couldnt do either.. and came out smelling bad.. lost face before juniors and senior management..

and now she is shitting jealous bricks... taking FL pics with ML when she is helping him while drunk and following them till MLs apartment.. she has no response to FL's talent other than taking dark path...stealing her personal files, and trying to set her up as a corporate spy..it cant get worse.... if FL hadnt justified herself , she would have landed in jail on trumped up charges

..... such nature (of Ms.lin) would be obvious to everyone howmuchever one may try to hide.. it will hurt her long term..she should focus on her pregnancy and child first - husband next ..when that part of life is calm she can fly how much ever she wants too.. infact , she should have used all that brain to best use FL;s potential to benefit herself ..instead of using it to pull her down

Ms . Lin really disappointed me.. what mentality will try to set up a junior in a drinking with a lecher industry elite .. no excuse for that. so what if junior is smart and may be trying to replace her in job.. try to win in work terms ...but using such a dark method.. now its no holds barred situation ...FL will be excused for any methods she uses to overcome such a senior or any future seniors since she experienced such a dark and harmful situation so early in career ...and add her own personal life where she experienced betrayal from her father who abandoned her and her mother and living life of intense struggle after her mothers death..

i dont understand , isnt a job meant to help women to become financially independent and have better life without experiencing any personal injustices..since when did it slide into harming other women or anyone (a man for instance) .. is this why women fought and got into work force... really sad situation.. what would young minds, just getting into work force, watching this drama be influenced with? that it is really rat kill rat situation and not just merely a rat race .. should dramas portray such dark theme .. ??? and negatively influence young minds?

true.. but am really disappointed in Ms . Lin.. what mentality will try to set up a junior in a drinking with a lecher industry elite .. no excuse for that. so what if junior is smart and may be trying to replace her in job.. try to win in work terms ...but use such a dark method.. now its no holds barred situation ...FL will be excused for any methods she uses to overcome such a senior or any future seniors since she experienced such a dark and harmful situation so early in career ...

though both are work place dramas , both have very different vibe... both can shine independently , no comparision needed

Ms Bu is an interesting character

love or hate the show.. still it is a very interesting show..

seeing the ML for the 1st time in this series .. for some reason he is not making an impression..not good not bad.. no impression at all..could be a side piece in the show.. he has such an important role.. could have choosen some other actor .may be wang kai , or some other actor...


those are my thoughts at this point... or maybe the actor will make an impression by series ending

Exactly...Ls Lin is already number 1 in performance ...and obviously good at her job...instead of using her wisely and making path for higher realms themselves together as partners , she is making just an intern her big enemy,.her friend is reading the room better and advising her.. esp that hotel conference incident../ and it was disgusting to see her set up with drinking with an industry elite.. good that she is smart and got out the situation ... it could have been a huge harm ..Ms Lin is disgusting

we should stop coddling women too.. she was 28 at this point of story..full adult.. if she thought that relationship was that bad as those 3 labels..she could have walked have anytime.. it takes 2 hands to clap.....and yes.. ML had immense growth..didnt see personal growth in her with respect to their relationship..other wise she was super aggressive in career

DONT COMPARE APPLES AND ORANGES. it seemed to me she always thought of their relationship that way.. dirty , disgusting and ugly... my question is where did her agency go..she could have walked away anytime in those 6 years.. in the drama , ML showed immense growth, to the point his personality changed immensely..she didnt seem to have observed his change nor acknowleging it... but she is still stuck at those 3 labels of the relationship in her mind.. she is an adult now after 6 years..28yrs old...from 22 to 28 years she is still not that naive innocent person..she is showing agressive progress at work... what victim... can she be victimised..she chose to stay with him.. irrespective of what she thought of him and relationship...let her also take ownership of her mistake.. we dont have to mollycoddle her

ok , to label a relationship that one has been for 6 years as dirty , ugly and disgusting --- so why sould she be in such a relationship for such a long time

EP :ML got one last chance from the girl ..if he messes up this time...he is done for... but he seems to have changed quite a bit... also seems to enjoy being referred to as her husband.. so what is next reason for misunderstanding????

do you do this randomly??? unless you have the intension and wish...you dont randomly ask about wanting to settledown... she was weaving a story of bucket list to bring up the topic of marriage... she uses the same bucket list technique to get north west china project... her insecurities and low feelings at that point is not allowing her to confess her true feelings ..she could have just confessed her love..and talked of marriage... she loves him and wants forever life with him...is she in a condition to raise it straight with him... she keeps using terms like i dont want to trouble u...here too she is raising topic in that i dont want to trouble u fashion...

yes , it is a proposal....reread her lines again.. she said if she meets the right person she wants to get married .. and she goes on to ask if they can make their relationship public ..and take it forward ...then children and so on.... its her way of asking for marriage... for someone who feels inferior (cause of their whole problems ...inaddition to HIS whole alpha male routine..) ... this is the best she could propose marriage to him,... not the best...or honest straight forward..with all her fears and insecurities , this is the best she could ask for marriage

did she not ask if he wants it? asking if he wants to marrrying her.. how is it not proposig marriage