InspectorMegre

she was set up by her own dumbness.. this is one super dumb FL .... who lies like crazy non stop

it is on kocowa

Can someone help me figure out why I feel that track 6 is somehow missing something. I dont even know what it is and why I am feeling that something is just glossed over. Thanks

Like, track 1 is a masterpiece. We TOTALLY "see" and "understand" ML and then FL.
In track 6, somehow something is just not conveyed, I am not sure who the characters are...

I think it has to do with the fact that we never "met" Min Woo for real. Or that we never really "met" the mother for real. We dont know her cancer plight.

Like in track 5, we "met" the first boyfriend, we saw scenes that totally convey WHO he is. I feel like I know the guy. I also feel like I "met" the FL and the new boyfriend.
In track 6, I feel like I never meet the characters deeply enough to come closer to them and understand them.

Lov track 5: wow Seung Min is sooo cute and so nice, such a good mature reliable guy a really nice guy... and the new one is a puppy.... So at the end, which guy made it? FL is soooo immature... I really liked the drama but how is that spoiled brat FL getting such nice guyS - multiple guys - to dote on her? I suspect the drama is cheating us... LOL

Love track 6 is a little confusing but ok it is not bad...

Love track 1 is soooo cute and such amazing acting and creative story. It is really a very unique gem. It is a miniature masterpiece. We really dig into the characters... and the redemtion arc character growth...
Track 2 is ... hm... a little choppy and not acted so well for me.. more of a classic cheesy rom com
Track 3 is LOL fun ... they are so naive ... LOL
Track 4 is also fun.... so real...such good plot and acting ... I LOVE the ML, he is such a real real real guy... a nice guy and a clueless guy LOL and the wife is so nasty LOL but also so right... I love the wolf...
Track 5 is a classic rom com with 2 nice guys chasing a very immature FL ... but it is done very well so it is not cheesy at all. It is very deep, actually... Classy.

Ttack 6 is ok but not quite "it"and I am not sure what 'it" is... Bc we never "see" Min Woo? Or Min Woo's lover? bc "that" is never defined clearly... ? It is just ... too... murky . But is not totaly bad. It is from the point of view of the mother, seems like. But somehow it is not "whole" and I do not understand WHY.
I think the drama would be the same if say Min Woo was molested and his mother didnt want to talk about it. The fact that the secret is "gay" is quite irrelevant, to be honest, the drama would be the same for many other hidden issues.
I think the feeling of "too shallow" has to do with the fact that we never "met" Min Woo for real. Or that we never really "met" the mother for real. We dont know her cancer plight.

Disclaimer: I am straight, I grew up in super abusive household and experienced some major nightmarish experiences. I had some gay friends so I have some ideas of what they go through and what they are like - they are just like everyone else, some good, some bad, some ugly LOL often have traumatic experiences and experience discrimination, and also many do not mind discriminating others... they are ppl just like everyone else with all good and bad.... Being gay is nothing special.... so many ppl in the world - perhaps most people? - experience some kind of abuse and trauma growing up and living, so being gay is no worse or not better than being ... black, a woman, a disabled person, a beaten child, molsted child, Native child, an abandoned child, a manipulated child, child growing up in war, or poor, etc etc etc etc .... One common trait that I noticed is that many gays are quite promiscuous. It is what it is. So ... I am not sure what feels slightly off in this short drama. I dont feel that things got resolved and I dont understand why.

Love track 7, 8 is a classic cheesy fantasy rom com honeymoon phase... . How long will the DarkHair guy be pursuing the other one? When will he get tired? The two never went through an argument or difficult disagreement or confrontation, so their puppy love all goody good all the time honeymoon phase may end up on the rocks. But for now, it is all rosey glasses fun.

Left Minister's Daughter (Woo Hee) actress redeemed herself... The scenes in ep 14 when she refuses to elope are so beautiful, she finally acted.... and also he acted it well. There was other scenes around that time with her that also show that she CAN act if she really tries. So .... keep going

Also, discussing like this - ahead of time before we have more info - is EXCELLENT for checking our observation skills. We are presented something - so ARE we able to sense and intuit what is really going on? It is like a test, and later in the drama, we get our answers and we confirm if we correctly saw something or not.

For example, my intuition is that ML is a rather lose person without good boundaries, and possibly a player, seems like he is too comfortable around / dating women, seems like plenty women in his life. Was I correct in sensing those traits? I will see later :)

It is ok, I love to write, I love to discuss, I love to profile, and when you ask me questions or suggest something, it helps *me* to think about it and see something new. So thank you.

Oh my antifan!!!! I havent read anything you wrote bc it is a waste of time. So go ahead and hang out with your likes and stay away from me :)

I consider you a harasser, personally harassing me as a person, instead of discussing the drama and how it plays in our lives and learning

SO, CEASE AND DESIST
Farewell

Short and sweet response - your post lacks credibility bc there is no tangible proofs of anything you wrote :) for example, your claim that rom coms are watched mostly by older women.

And even Shaw said "Youth is wasted on the young", it is common knowledge LOL do not make yourself not credible LOL

I do not see you responding to anything I wrote, and you just called it grumpy and dismissed all I said in one sweep. This is not a discussion, but just a rather slimey passive agressive AVOIDING to address the questions I stated. It is shutting me up by bellitling me.

I would say that the questions I addressed are most likely waaaay over your head, so you dont want to deal with them. Fine. Not all questions are for everyone.

So if what I wrote are not topics of your interest... then... stay silent. Let someone who is WILLING to ponder those questions do the discussion. You have nothing meaningful to say, so stay silent. This is not your discussion, obviously.

So ... dont bother me anymore :) Go talk to that staler Enca LOL You two hang out and stay away from me :) Farewell

Yeah, it could go like Missing Piece and Big O :) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Af-jZUR3ua0 or she can end up rolling with another Big O :) once she learns to roll on her own...

Well thank you for your kind words.

I do not have enough information on ML... if you mean the dude stalking FL...
My first impressions is that something is terribly wrong - he was stalking her - walking behind her so close late at night, lying to her - telling her he lives in the same building, and then invited her into his house late at night... He was on a blind date... My first impression: he looks like a player.

The most disturbing thing is that she never ever asked him any questions. She told him what she thinks about him and he never confirmed or denied her guesses - which is indirect lying - and she still did not ask... She is too clingy and greedy, and wants this "boy toy" but she has no clue about him, and he isnt presenting anything useful about himself, so imo this spells T R O U B L E.

So... ML is not a good guy, He is not honest, he does not communicate, and he keeps secrets. Seems like he is there to play. Seems like he got money, he has nice clothes, an apartment, and a big car. But he seems .... a frivolous kind of guy. Someone into open relationships and experiments.

Those are first impressions. PLAYER.
But ... without more info, we do not know. He could be a recently divorced dude trying to figure out his next phase in life. Or someone who just recovered from terminal illness. Or .... but I doubt it...

He looks more like a rich kid away from home having fun... Or some kind of drifter having fun.... Or some kind of ...likely-to-be-lose-and-exploring hippie profession dude - like ... well... an "artist", a nightclub guy, ,something like that.... He got money and he got time, and he keeps hanging around different women... Who else is he dating now, scheduled to go on a date with, or considering... ? We saw him on a blind date with a dress-to-impress professional-looking woman in an expensive restaurant at night.... . HOW is he pulling it off... ?

I dont think he is a criminal because then he would not be so openly after her - UNLESS he specializes in kidnaping and/or killing single women :) If he were upper crust male prostitute / drug dealer, or a gangster, etc... he would be under the radar and would have stayed away from her...
I dont think he is a policeperson in disguise who is having some fun while on secret duty LOL someone like that would also stay low key .... would not be chasing her and inviting her in.

so we do not know yet for sure WHO that dude is.... We just saw some irresponsible scary patterns that do not look promising... ... . We just know he is creepy, dishonest, secretive, is quick to play, and FL blindly fell for him without ANY discernment, ie we have a dangerous situation

Luckily, I never watched Something In The Rain :) Sounds like an awful drama ie a total waste of time.

But I do consider DK one of the worst I have ever seen. The messages are totally delulu - except environmentally friendly baby products.

Hm so much effort to psychoanalyze me as an individual, instead of discussing the drama.

dont you think you are acting like someone sensitive who got offended and then sidetracked the issues that I brought up by accusing me of being the bad guy?

Has anyone told you that you were an insecure snowflake? LOL

you are making me a bad guy so that you have a justification to skip dealing with questions I brought to the table.

you are basically trying to shut me up ( and in a slimey passive aggressive way)

OK if that is your strategy - it is waste of time :) bc issues never go away, regardless if you are shut me up or not.

I would respect you only if you have meaningful responses to the issues I brought up, if we can have a discussion on it.

Since not ...

So ... do not bother me anymore :) I said what I said and it is not going away

yeah, you got me thinking on the kids... I think the kids will have to come to him somehow on their own... and he can gently probe sometimes and offer help... and he can do that remotely too...

Once he comes back from this short trip, he should probably go see some kind of counselor and then work his way into working somewhere part time so that he can be with people, and clean up and remodel his house... that will give him a chance to part with his wife and her stuff... and see the kids... and hopefully by then... he and the kids will be starting to look more like an O and rolling together :)

there will be that period where they have to lose their sharp edges...

let's see what the writer thought of :)

Thank you for this discussion, you made me think about his duty to the kids and vice versa... The kids also have duty to him.....and he has duty to himself...

I am gonna check out, I had much fun, but it is very late now :)

The daugher acted as a reckless spoiled entitled brat. She asked that someone FAST bring it in rain, called her mother repeatedly over cell phone and talked for a long time while mother was driving in heavy rain, than called again while mother was driving in heavy rain and yelled at mother to hurry up...

and her mother is equally guilty .. not calling courier, answering her phone and talking while driving and rushing in heavy rain .... The mother should have said ***NO*** HEY KID IT IS RAINING TOO HARD JUST LIVE WITHOUT YOUR THING SORRY!!!!!

What mother and daughter did are all MINDLESS RECKLESS BEHAVIORS that did contribute to the accident. Ok I can use the word "contribute" if word "cause" irritates you

you can say well WTOD caused the accident anyways - maybe - and maybe not. If it were not raining and IF the mother was NOT on the cell phone and rushing to her daughter, ... most likely the mother would be more alert and somehow avoid the accident

Yes I agree with what you wrote. Imo you described well his enabler role in the codependent relationship aka toxicity with wife and kids and what was necessary for the family to heal, and never happened

I see your points of him being there for the kids.. Well... his daughter wasnt there for 7 years and his son wasnt really there... so ... I dont feel any pressure for dad to sacrifice himself again .... the kids are adults and chose what they chose, so ... they will have to deal with it on their own...
In short: the kids never respected their father, they never helped him for 7 year, so ... to hell with the kids :) To be blunt. Staying in that house where he was jailed for 7 years ... for the sake of kids who never moved one finger for him or the mother ... NO THANKS :) It is best that he start his own life right away. If he had some loving family he could stay with for a while, that would be the best m but I dont think he has

I hear your concern about him rushing into a new woman... Yeah bc he was an enabler, a coddling type, he is definitely not prepared to have good relationship... so hooefully he will have a good new learning experience...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Af-jZUR3ua0 HE NEEDS TO LEARN TO ROLL ON HIS OWN

so far he was a missing piece to his (toxic) wife and kids

answer to how to get ready https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Af-jZUR3ua0

yeah FL and her mother together are guilty for causing that accident and they have to accept it is their fault, they were mindlessly RECKLESS

and then hating each other for 7 years is ... really bad

highly recommended: Ordinary People (1980 american movie) which is about resolving the exact same flawed situation - that movie resolved it, this drama did not :) but hopefully will do so in 11 more episodes

ok we have different opinions on that. It's ok. But my main question to you is: *****What WOULD he be doing at home all alone.... ? *****

Clarification: I was not trying to say she was dead to him or 7 years. I was saying that **he** had no life and no wife for 7 years. *** He*** was essentially dead for 7 years, pretending he is happy and caring for his wife, totally forgetting himself and his needs and his own personal life. He had a terminally ill immobile depressed bitter PATIENT to care for. She never went out. So he never went out. He was sad and lonely but he faked happiness and kept trying to communicate witih her, but essentially he banged his head against the wall for 7 years.

I personally think it is great for him to get out after 7 yrs. What WOULD he be doing at home all alone.... ? It would be sooo depressing... he alrady spent 7 years thinking of things....

Life is too short, my dear. This man is ALIVE after being essentially dead for 7 years. Let him live. Asap. The best thing for him to do is to go somewhere where some nice people take care of him so that he can rest and enjoy himself. A very lively place where he can enjoy the vibrancy of LIFE. he was out of life for 7 years. Time to catch up

and yeah this is equivalent of those cheap romance novels that ppl read in 1900s :) But this kind is intended to feed sexism. Young girls are new to hormones so everything related to s.x is ah so enticing to them, and they just do NOT ask questions. They are too greedy and hungry to get it, so they run into it without much thinking. So they are eager to catch some action... This is as old as dirt and will not change any time soon LOL We are talking mating call and strategies to ensure mating in the animal species called homo sapiens LOL From the point of view of survical of species, young women ARE supposed to reproduce, so the hormonal pull into that ancient setup will be working hard to blindside their thinking and their heart :) Their youth nd immaturity drives them to seek happiness via someone else who will adore them and take care of them ...
In other words, they are sooo setup to look for love in all wrong ways and wrong places... looking for a cute dotting puppy in love, a powerul protector and sugar daddy who also provides great s.x

And these cheap romance novels teach young women they will somehow "succeed" by the same strategies that enslave them. Be pretty, be dumb, be kind, be clutzy poor loser, and you will catch a sugar daddy who will run your life for you. It is a double wammy brainwashing... you are becoming a perfect slave so that you can become a coveted slave...
Society is ah so no intrested in teaching kids any better :) moms and dads are guilty too...
Sexist men in power benefit from this. Women are too busy fighting each other and chasing some d.ck who will give them nirvana, and the good old boy networks stay intact :)

men are guilty too... it is much easier to control a dumb loser woman so men will secretly like such chicks :) If she doesnt cause any problems, does not ask difficult questions, is not as smart as the guy, is always on his side, and jumps into bed easy, she will be popular. / her guy will keep her..... Dont you think men support those types? Girls chose not to be good at math so that theyt can get dates...