Nah2ML does not love FL.. Even his little son doesnt see it :) But he sees the Pretty Lady and the 2ML sees her…
I understand what you are saying, so I will nitpick.
There is absolutely nothing hot about 2ML feelings to FL. He is blah bland meh ... cook... babysitter... but nowhere close to a man wanting to share his inner self and a few body parts...
Roughly speaking, "love" means wanting to come close to your loved one, and comes in all flavors depending on the maturity of it - toxic possession, obsession, crush, hormones, heart connection, etc. Romantic Love always involves some kind of sexual attraction. If you dont feel it, you got a friend, not a love.
Real Love is the "deepest shade of color of love" and we cannot even begin to analyze that here - it is between family, friends, or lovers, between humans and Divine, etc etc etc. It is a BIG TOPIC
Most people, when they say "love" mean some deep genuine feelings. And when thy refer to anything toxic, they say - crush, obsession, fling, desire, etc.
When we say "love" in the context of rom com, we mean romantic love, so I will use that term now.
I said 2ML situation is not romantic love in any of its many forms. He wants to stay distant. WHEN WAS HE SEEKING HER COMPANY ALL THE TIME? A person in love wants to talk, to do things, to hug, to share, as much as possible, they eagerly seek those situations. In a toxic or clear way LOL They stalk, take you to dinner, keep you locked up in the basement, marry you, etc. But they have feelings and they act on them.
2ML wants to keep emotional distance, never sharing, never coming too close for comfort, and never challenging each other. By definition, sex is impossible in that situation LOL So he is already rejecting "love" in many of its forms... and certainly romantic love...
I am saying he is THINKING that love would be nice, and he is not feeling it. She is just comfortable, like an old pair of jeans, so he wants to keep her and so his approaching her is like a business proposal. Like keeping your personal assistant/companion.
There is absolutely nothing hot about 2ML feelings to FL. He is blah bland meh ... cook... babysitter... but nowhere close to a man wanting to share his inner self and a few body parts...
So yes it is more than friendship... but not more than a business deal proposal... for a comfortable DISTANT relationship... where they never come close. Since he was alone for a while, he might get excited about her bc he is hungry, but I do not see even that!!!!! I really do not see his hormones reacting to her at all. he is just happy to be around her WHEN THINGS ARE HAPPY AND GOOD, like walking Jun, etc. But he is not there when she needs help.
That dude feels like a jealous neighbor, not like a potential lover...
"FL can drown in a rain puddle or a cup of water" LOL Damsel in distress .... getting into accidents every few minutes and being saved by ML... lying to everyone... I feel like I am watching 1950's idea of what a woman is...
"FL should develop a brain" "ML should use his brain, not only his hormones" "I am skipping through episodes.. lost interest.. too many tropes... pathetic FL... repetitive plot... etc etc " so many comments like that
OK, so... we got 6 episodes to make FL grow up real fast... and transform from a slimey liar 3-yr old to an adult with integrity... Good luck!... and ML to realize where he needs to grow... he cannot be a mama boy, and he has to rely on his brain, not only hormones
I am interested in ML actor getting a better project after this, because I saw him progress from a small but critical role and amazing acting in legendary drama, a true masterpiece, classic, My Mister, to being a rather simple ML in masterful drama My Roommate is a Gumiho, and now he is a ML of complex character and acting is well, so I want him to keep going to bigger and better roles bc he definitely is talented, he is showing emotions so well.
So I want drama script to improve so that the drama can take off more
I bet you that he’ll apologize for it if he does get mad, and they’ll make it look like he’s the one who’s…
what you described here is the nightmare soapy soap trash romance ... we all pray to god that nothing like that happens here... as it is totally ... repulsive
finally but im somehow not satisfied with the reveal
Exactly.. this is not real development... bc DR is just caught red handed. She is still the same slimey liar as before. Until she grows up to be honest... the plot will not move
I would've preferred for DR to tell JH herself but at least he now knows the truth. Hopefully she does get to…
2ML is interested in 2FL.... when she played with Jun, he looked at her with that "this looks good.. I wish... " look ... But he is a snowflake, scaredy cat, and he is afraid to even think about it
That's why he is clinging to DR, bc she feels safe - but she is not - she does not tell him what is going on and she keeps lying to him. She is "safe" bc she is DISTANT
But that is utterly stupid script ... there she is, at a job party, she is supposed to be married, and she lets…
Yeah I remember that part, him giving her shoes, and that I was not paying attention to the scenes of FL and 2ML interaction ... feeling like - nothing worth watching here.... LOL
Wasn't the boat kiss before the charade? FL also told 2ML about the loan sharks and ML paying them off, he knows.…
Ok I do not remember if the boat kiss was before the "I am married" lie. But ML currently thinks she was married on Jeiju and the boat.... her kid is 6 yrs old!!!! and she was on Jeiju to chill off from her husband... that is what FL told him. **** ML believes he unknowingly had an affair on JeJu with a married woman ****
+++ FL did not tell 2ML about the Jeiju ++++ and 2ML is supposedly her best friend like family She did not have to mention any names... she could have shared he had a good time with a nice guy... ... She lied there is nothing between her and ML... and lied that she doesnt like him ... they work together, he saves her all the time, SML finds her in his arms, she is so happy to mention him.... and there is nothing going on ... etc.
second male lead is so punchable omg Ruining this whole drama..Sfl deserves better..It will be so eww if she ends…
FL lied to 2ML that she doesnt like ML and she never told him about Jeju, boat kiss, etc. So he sees ML and FL are attracted but he doesnt know that they have a history of being together and that he is intruding. FL incessant lies are the root of all problems with this drama
he looks cute and has potential, his kid is a proof that he is capable of love. He was always nice to FL. Except that h finally exposed his true selfish clingy colors :) and it is time to dig out that dirt and grow up. If he will...
Plenty has happened so I'm confused on why you think nothing has happened.
nothing happened. FL keeps lying, and ML keeps suffering. FL has not grown one iota. The same old damsel in distress, not discerning, not smart, lying to ML, to 2ML, etc And ML is stuck bc he lacks skillZ to nail her down to admit who she is really is and why she, a married woman, is hitting on him, and why her husband kisses around.
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There is absolutely nothing hot about 2ML feelings to FL. He is blah bland meh ... cook... babysitter... but nowhere close to a man wanting to share his inner self and a few body parts...
Roughly speaking, "love" means wanting to come close to your loved one, and comes in all flavors depending on the maturity of it - toxic possession, obsession, crush, hormones, heart connection, etc.
Romantic Love always involves some kind of sexual attraction. If you dont feel it, you got a friend, not a love.
Real Love is the "deepest shade of color of love" and we cannot even begin to analyze that here - it is between family, friends, or lovers, between humans and Divine, etc etc etc. It is a BIG TOPIC
Most people, when they say "love" mean some deep genuine feelings. And when thy refer to anything toxic, they say - crush, obsession, fling, desire, etc.
When we say "love" in the context of rom com, we mean romantic love, so I will use that term now.
I said 2ML situation is not romantic love in any of its many forms. He wants to stay distant. WHEN WAS HE SEEKING HER COMPANY ALL THE TIME? A person in love wants to talk, to do things, to hug, to share, as much as possible, they eagerly seek those situations. In a toxic or clear way LOL
They stalk, take you to dinner, keep you locked up in the basement, marry you, etc. But they have feelings and they act on them.
2ML wants to keep emotional distance, never sharing, never coming too close for comfort, and never challenging each other. By definition, sex is impossible in that situation LOL So he is already rejecting "love" in many of its forms... and certainly romantic love...
I am saying he is THINKING that love would be nice, and he is not feeling it. She is just comfortable, like an old pair of jeans, so he wants to keep her and so his approaching her is like a business proposal. Like keeping your personal assistant/companion.
There is absolutely nothing hot about 2ML feelings to FL. He is blah bland meh ... cook... babysitter... but nowhere close to a man wanting to share his inner self and a few body parts...
So yes it is more than friendship... but not more than a business deal proposal... for a comfortable DISTANT relationship... where they never come close. Since he was alone for a while, he might get excited about her bc he is hungry, but I do not see even that!!!!! I really do not see his hormones reacting to her at all.
he is just happy to be around her WHEN THINGS ARE HAPPY AND GOOD, like walking Jun, etc. But he is not there when she needs help.
That dude feels like a jealous neighbor, not like a potential lover...
I feel like I am watching 1950's idea of what a woman is...
"FL should develop a brain"
"ML should use his brain, not only his hormones"
"I am skipping through episodes.. lost interest.. too many tropes... pathetic FL... repetitive plot... etc etc " so many comments like that
OK, so... we got 6 episodes to make FL grow up real fast... and transform from a slimey liar 3-yr old to an adult with integrity... Good luck!...
and ML to realize where he needs to grow... he cannot be a mama boy, and he has to rely on his brain, not only hormones
I am interested in ML actor getting a better project after this, because I saw him progress from a small but critical role and amazing acting in legendary drama, a true masterpiece, classic, My Mister, to being a rather simple ML in masterful drama My Roommate is a Gumiho, and now he is a ML of complex character and acting is well, so I want him to keep going to bigger and better roles bc he definitely is talented, he is showing emotions so well.
So I want drama script to improve so that the drama can take off more
I feel like I am watching 1950's show
But he is a snowflake, scaredy cat, and he is afraid to even think about it
That's why he is clinging to DR, bc she feels safe - but she is not - she does not tell him what is going on and she keeps lying to him. She is "safe" bc she is DISTANT
and lacks discerment and is not very smart. For example, not realizing she is hitting on him as a married woman, like... going to his apartment
**** ML believes he unknowingly had an affair on JeJu with a married woman ****
+++ FL did not tell 2ML about the Jeiju ++++ and 2ML is supposedly her best friend like family
She did not have to mention any names... she could have shared he had a good time with a nice guy... ...
She lied there is nothing between her and ML... and lied that she doesnt like him ... they work together, he saves her all the time, SML finds her in his arms, she is so happy to mention him.... and there is nothing going on ... etc.
FL incessant lies are the root of all problems with this drama
he looks cute and has potential, his kid is a proof that he is capable of love. He was always nice to FL.
Except that h finally exposed his true selfish clingy colors :) and it is time to dig out that dirt and grow up. If he will...
FL has not grown one iota. The same old damsel in distress, not discerning, not smart, lying to ML, to 2ML, etc
And ML is stuck bc he lacks skillZ to nail her down to admit who she is really is and why she, a married woman, is hitting on him, and why her husband kisses around.