InspectorMegre

Ok.... if in your life it is normal to keep lying like that... but I do not see why FL lied sooooooo many times... non stop!!!... and needlessly... it is like her habit to be a CHRONIC liar... When was she honest...? only once when she was drunk.

And she could mention to SU that she had a great time on Jeju with some nice guy - it is not insensitive to say that even if her mother is sick!!! SU is supposed to be her good friend... and Jeju romance was a big deal for her... finally a good time guy after a while... dinners... moonlight... romance... dates.... she even jumped in bed with him... ... so it is a big deal in her life...

what I am trying to say - SU DOES NOT MEAN MUCH TO HER
and also ML DOES NOT MEAN MUCH TO HER

she is selfish :) liar :) and using both guys

pk I see where you got confused. You are on Da Rim's side :)

I will rewrite my sentence. I was not saying that on Jeju ML thought he was married. I was trying to say that right now, ML thinks she was married while thy were on JeJu bc FL recently told him so

Regardless if ML said to keep it secret, FL never ever shared that she met someone wonderful on JeJu and had a good time and a littl bit o romance. She did not have to mention any names... .

FL never shared that she likes ML now while they work together.

The most she did is say he paid off her debt.

Stop defending Da Rim. She is a slimey liar.

there are no more american movies or dramas with nerdy females... since like... ? Sandra Bullok as police woman... ? since decades ago ,,, Barbie Dolls are a norm now

ditto

Nope, she did not.. FL sleeps soundly at night. She is used to living as a low lever parasit and liar.

100% agree. I think Da Rim has to speak up honestly

Men in real life are seldom like that. They usually leave alone someone else's woman.

But women often take someone else's man...

100% agree
she treats him like he is her father, taking care of her unconditionally, without her having to reciprocate

100% agree.
Except I think she "likes him" in a way like we like an interesting toy that performs for us, He it like a father figure for her, always saving her - and she likes that.
I think she also likes to kiss him but as long as there are no obligations

You are referring to the times before the plastic pollution killed Y chromosome and testerone levels?
The times before the super low birth rates?
Are there men these days who can feel like JH? To be honest, they are super hard to find in developed countries.

You missed it, I complained that he acts as a mommy boy and drops his dreams to please his mother. Typical immaturity ... is it Freudian? complex - trying to "protect" your parent

Many ppl and myself complained he relies on hormones, and turned off his brain.
he is also overly controlling and a snowflake in personal life, he doesnt know how to TALK

JH is not perfect by any means, he has many flaws. But emotionally, he is a lot stronger and is a lot more mature than Da RIm, who is really 3 yr old slimey liar.

But that is what we are talking about - isnt it time to make better rom coms? And, they do not have to be based on doozey FL doormat and ML being like her father
Look at Nice to Not Meet You. It is a great rom com about two competent and smart yet flawed adults who just happen to be dense about love

FL used ML in Jeju, $$$ for acting... kissing on the boat.... running out of bed without even shouting Bye gotta help my mom right now in emergncy room! , ... loan shark payoff and still not telling him she needs the job and is not married.... Always hitting on him as a married woman... going to his apartment, flirting at the park, etc etc etc She is playing with him
Then all the times he helped her..

He is like her father or babysitter..

FL used 2ML a lot... did not tell him about Jeju, did not tell him she likes ML, etc

Yeah, 100% agree, Da Rim is written totally badly and is not really watchable

@allaboute Unfortunately, you are correct!!!! Most kdramas are fantasy of little girls - that no matter what they do and how immature and lousy and irresponsible they are, a FATHER-LIKE man will appear who will give them love, admiration, endless support and kissing, and will treat them like a princess - forever, no matter how weak and faulty they are.

This fantasy of the MISSING PIECE looking for someone to complete it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9zz0PPBe9eg

and ideally FL will tell the truth, on her own, without being caught red handed.
Since she (was( caught red handed... she has to share a lot more truths.

I really hate it when a weak FL gets a special treatment by some guy who is there really as her FATHER rather than a lover

He is driven by hormones and forgot to use his brain. He has a brain and is smart and competent but it all fell aside

I and many others do not have sympathy for him and keep saying he is driven by hormones and forgot he has a BRAIN that he COULD use, and knows how to use, for example in business situations he is a master of nailing ppl down to fess up the truth etc. So... I guess his problem is that he never had the teenage hots so he does not even know what it is and how to handle it? It is like he is 12 yrs old now and not learning fast

you have to watch to decide on your own. I think you might get some ideas from the comments, but the ultimate judge is you.
Sometimes I watched quite trashy dramas bc I had to learn something from them.
Sometimes what I think is hidden gem is boring to you and vice versa.
So - skim the comments, see 1 episode at least, and you will know

yeah, I 100% agree. This drama is a copy of very old sexist stereotyping dramas.
She is portrayed as 1950s feme fatale, damsel in distress
and he is portrayed as a fantasy for loser chicks - WHERE is that man who gets trampled on all the time, does not get even a kiss, and doggedly keeps kissing as@ and saving this never-ending damsel in distress? That is a description of a FATHER, not a lover. If you find a lover like that, I will give you $1.
So yes I vote for the solution you just proposed.
Like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9zz0PPBe9eg