Kinara

Exactly . I did not want to do the same thing that she is doing. Harassment and stalking is not romance- nor is it love. Only people who have experienced it know how painful and disturbing it is. Real love and a real relationships do not harassment or stalking. The person above is definitely oblivious to any of this.

Thank you for clarifying. There is nothing beautiful or normal about stalking no matter what your intention is. Even if you are in love with that person and especially because of that it is a very scary thing to do. So please don’t romanticize stalking

I fell asleep in front of the screen- that is how bad this was. Absolutely nothing to keep you going

On another note I figured out I like this one better than SOKP. I will finish that one but I liked Bai Lu’s character better here

Yeah the focus on the latter that you mention kind of irritates me- who rates dramas based on that? Or books or anything for that matter ? I’d everything depended on how hot and heavy something was then porn would be doing great LOL

Some people are focused on only the raunchy content and don’t want anything else. This story is more for a mature audience because the characters are not simple at all

It’s our life experiences that helps us with that

You must have heard the saying- Good and evil are 2 sides of the same coin. If you dig deeper you will always find that even the most evil characters will have a valid reason for what they do. That is why I find flawed, grey layers characters very fascinating. If I remember right Maleficent is the same- she tries to protect her people - she is a fairy in the beginning but then becomes much darker . When we are young we never understand this and I mean even as young adult. Only after some maturity you start appreciating them more and also start analyzing and questioning them. I have always gravitated towards books, movies and dramas that have this quality. I don’t enjoy simplicity

All of them

You are absolutely right - it is everything that a romcom should be and we should all just enjoy it

Fairy tales according to me don’t exist - those stories if you go deeper are sad sick stories they just got simplified for little kids. Btw Maleficent is one of my favorite ‘fairy tale’ characters

You do not know anything about me so please don’t make personal judgements here. I would not want anyone taking photos of me sneakily. That is voyeurism. As to whether I have had relationships or been in love- all I want to say is that it is none of your business. If I don’t like a show I have the freedom to say so. You can disagree with me but no personal comments .

Yes for sure! This drama portrays a very unhealthy relationship and trying to normalize it. Some things should not be ignored. This drama is not a good example to show young people

Oh yes on the outside they were packaged well - but what a mess they were

Yep an emotional train wreck that needed to be repaired

Yes exactly - that is how you know that she had fallen for him and cared for what he would think when he came to that conclusion. Otherwise when is she really honest about her feelings? That is why she was an interesting character and Bai Lu played her well

Yep she was guilty and she was scared of all the feelings she was experiencing with Shi Yan because sje thought she had ulterior motives. Her fear was also that everything would fall apart because of her so called ulterior motives . She was very insecure

Thanks!

Ok - I got done with Dark on Netflix. Now I will go to SOKP

Yes she was just fascinated from the beginning. She was always in a daze when she saw him. He actually is the prototype of the kind of guy all women yearn for LOL. Yes Shu Yi fell in love with him at first sight but of course but she was in denial because of her own contradictory thoughts . She ran away the way she usually does. A lot of it was her guilt too- she was using him to recover her pride but never thought for a second that she would actually fall for him.