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Sorry but I have to pause the episode (13) and say this. Johnny saying he is a reasonable person is the biggest joke I've heard all year. This guy literally acts like a child with a pea sized brain rn... Throwing a tantrum, hoping that Hai Yi comes after him but completely neglecting that Hai Yi is in mourning and has no reason to tell sh*t to someone who is eager to leave his life and go back to his own reality anyway. At first I thought he just didn't know the circumstances, but his convo with Wynn just made it clear he simply doesn't care and thinks Hai Yi is wrong for not disclosing his entire life to him. smh - . -

PS: If anyone tells you that friends shouldn't have secrets, leave. If it is detrimental to your friendship you should definitely say something, but everyone is entitled to their privacy. A good friend would allow you the space to keep personal things private if it has nothing to do with them.

I love how we all collectively fell in love with Noey's character. A beautifully flawed but genuine person 🥰

I need more of Noey! I can never get enough of him haha probably my all time favorite character in a bl show

I'm literally crying.. wtf is wrong with me xD I never cry when I finish a show but this one just quickly found a little soft spot in my heart. I watched it in episodes of 3's so each time i came back after a few weeks of waiting I was scared it would fall flat after not watching it for a while. But without a fail it made me smile within under 10 minutes no matter how long it had been. Although I hope we get a special episode, because the last 5 minutes were not enough for me, I can't deny that I thoroughly enjoyed this show :) I will definitely look back on it with fond memories, let me emphasis that I'm never like this.. I can like and rave about a show. But never do I get genuinely sentimental!

What's the warning?

Okay in defense of many comments that had a WTF moment. It's not the last half of the final episode. I couldn't care less that it had an open - do over ending. The wtf moment is because we got no answers on why it's happening, what is happening, how it is happening and last but not least why jump in front of a knife??? xD I was in such disbelief when that happened, he came out of nowhere as well, that I just started shock laughing. If the first half of that episode never happened and they had explained why there is a do over when prior he had to wait decades to be reborn it would have been better. Even though there would have still been unanswered questions for a multitude of reasons.

People say it after me: We do not jump in front of danger, when we can simply push others aside. Come on, I know you can do it. We have been over this a thousand times before... we do not jump in front of danger..

Whahaha I don't even get to think about the ending, my brain checked out when he jumped in front of a blade. I just can't wrap my head around that specific moment.. will probably think about the rest a little later

Why do I feel like I just got the bad ending in an otome game..

That truly makes me so happy to hear 😊 I'm glad this show did that for you and thank you for commenting and sharing that with me! It feels nice to hear others enjoy something that I liked as well when I had no one else to relate to when this show started

Was thinking the same thing but I let it slide until Mum purposefully seemed to avoid checking the picture his friend send to him of his sister's potential bf. (according to his friend ) he has little to no interest in his sisters life I guess even when she seems to care greatly for him

Okay I just finished episode 5... guys does Mum ever check his phone for the picture or nah?? It's legit bothering me lmao

I know some people have criticized the lack of talk about labels. Because they want characters to clearly state that they are in fact bi, pan or gay. Which I understand from the perspective of not wanting to tiptoe around their sexuality but they completely miss a super important point when that's how they look at things. It irks me that this acceptance and nonchalance should honestly be what the world we live in should strive for. You can't complain that you think people see straight as the default sexuality and simultaneously debate a show that has NO sexuality set as their default. You just like who you like and that's it. No need to argue it further. Perhaps if this show was a coming of age story about what it's like being of the lgbt+ community I would understand it. But his sexuality or that of anyone else in this show, was never the point. I wish the world was more like this tbh so seeing people accept your interest in someone without caring about the gender they identify with just warms my heart. I get that is still a daily fight to find validation, love and acceptance for the labels we have come to identify ourselves with. But it's okay to not hold on to them so so tightly that you get pressed when someone else doesn't feel the need to specify the fluidity in their sexuality

I suddenly remembered that Noey tells his friends outright that he is going after Thi. To dispel all your worries that he might not be sincere. That sentence alone when he said that should be enough :)

Omg that scene made me feel second hand embarrasment but, I loved it! It's honestly the perfect example of why it's okay for Noey to push Thi a bit. Thi kinda likes it and that should be good enough. He never gives the impression that he genuinely dislikes it. Sure sometimes it might be a bit much for him, but not to the point where it truly upsets him. And I have a sneaky suspicion that if he got upset for real, that Noey would take the hint. Thi even seems to understand that all comes from a good place, so why should we judge and say it's not okay 🤔

I would even argue that it wasn't a sudden realization for Noey. The guy just needed closure. It's like wanting closure from an ex or situationship before you can date the person you have started to like. He always mentioned he surrendered to Thi anyway xD
I love how people get upset with Noey's character meanwhile I'm sitting here getting annoyed together with Noey at how f'ing slow Thi sometimes is. Sir just eat, take my hand, get on the bike. Don't make me say it 500x he is just too darn slow xD I'm a softie and even I would get fed up

I think to me Noey is such a character that I can't even over analyze it in my head as real life. Which I usually do tend to do when I criticize a show. Though what I will say is that I've totally seen friends before that are like cats and dogs. Noey is super rough around the edges, but someone who can put up with that suits him pretty well. I think the dynamic was meant as someone who needs to calm the f down and clean up their act a little bit (which Noey is starting to do) and have the other person be someone who needs to learn to be a little louder and less timid. Which I think I can see Thi do a lot more. Both are growing from knowing the other. Although I would say Noey benefits more from what Thi teaches him for obvious reasons. If it had started as romantic I don't think I would have liked it, but it works pretty well for a enemies to friends dynamic tbh. And once that friendship exists, nothing else is off the table

BUT I say this as an introvert that kinda wishes they had an extroverted friend xD I don't know why I love that combo but I just do. Because if I enjoy my time with you, I honestly wouldn't mind being a bit more tired and uncomfortable from time to time. And Thi is literally me when someone makes me do something I lowkey end up enjoying but won't admit to for the life of me xD

Wait did I misread the subs? I definitely thought that at the end of ep 7 it as clear that he was saying that he was going to Pursue Thi instead. He finally got the closure with Pam, knowing she would never want him (Which I think he just needed to let go, he had already started noticing Thi in a different way as he was making little comments about how Thi was the one and how he thought he was nice and always took care of him. Obviously in his own mind) So at the end of the episode he asks Thi if he believes in destiny and proceeds to say that he is going to flirt with him instead. The entirety of ep 8 is to showcase the sincerity Noey has towards Thi to let us know he didn't just say that in the heat of the moment, but actually meant it. It wouldn't be practicing, since he isn't asking Thi for any help or advice, he stopped talking about Pam completely and he is doing things he usually would have done for Pam to impress Thi. Which tells me that he isn't planning on changing his methods to pursue someone at all, he's just pursuing someone else in his own way all over again. ;)

Okay but why is the way Noey choses to go around dating lowkey the standard I want for myself xD
Not gonna lie, I would've already melted when he said he wanted to be the one to court him properly ❤️

After all the bl's that I've dropped in the last half of 2022, I don't understand how this one gives me so much joy! I need more of this, obviously this show proves it is possible. It's so simple but it's done in such an enjoyable and genuinely funny way