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The season started and ended at a high but kinda lagged in the middle. I think it’s because, in my view, the characters themselves aren’t that interesting. Where the drama differs and where it succeeds is with the individual cases, with the mothers, with the fathers lost in this areas, and with the babies.
The drama has some biases, but still approach it with care and consideration. Like the issue of Down syndrome, as mentioned, there is will be regrets, especially for the mom whether they decide to have the baby or not. I also appreciate how they keep reminding fathers the importance of their role as support for the mom and as parents themselves.
I think this drama touched me mostly because the journey to giving birth is rarely dramatized yet so close to reality.
I highly recommend this drama to everyone to watch, especially to mommies.
I do find some of the casting questionable, like that of Akechi Mitsuhide. I wish I had seen more dimensions to Ito Hideaki and Nakatani Miki’s characters. They are very capable actors, in my opinion even more than the leads.
Story-wise it was hard to follow, even for me who already went through the Sengoku period multiple times from various perspectives. On one hand it was too focused on the leads, on the other it wasn’t focused enough neither on their relationship nor on what was happening at the time.
Anyways, I recommend it. Just read a bit of history ahead.
Haha yeah I’m like I’m good on my own rather than end up with another idiot 😆I don’t know why men seem great when you have them as friends, but the moment you try to look for a relationship they all look like idiots!
Also if the mom wasn’t married while pregnant, she’s automatically the sole parent of the child (unless advised otherwise) which doesn’t work in favour of mom when dad can just bail from responsibility.
If either parents is a foreigner, court will automatically rule in favour of the Japanese parent unless the Japanese parent doesn’t want the kid.
I had to deal with the law in western courts and they aren’t really favourable to women either. Many women stay in miserable marriages until their kids are older so they don’t have the kids 50% of the time with an irresponsible/abusive parent without supervision.
It’s complicated I don’t know which is best. I hate how in the west the forced shared custody can endanger kids, but I also hate how the system in Japan just removes a kid from the life of the parent so easily. Both sides claim the best interest of the child but that isn’t the case actually.
On my end, my child doesn’t know her father and I beat myself up about it most days of the week. I saw multiple professionals to learn the best way to deal with it + immense family support yet it’s still hard and far from perfect. I don’t know how some mothers can just easily remove the father of their children’s lives so easily without thinking of the effect.
I know part of it is Japanese culture that put more emphasis on the name than bloodline, that’s why divorce is for the family not just the parents, and the kids take the family name of the parent they stay with. It’s still hard for me to understand, probably because I don’t agree with it (weirdly I’m living a similar situation)
Also in the context of the drama the mom had no problem the dad contacting them, the dad just chose not to. Also, they weren’t too young when the separation happened they could’ve contacted their dad.
Lee Sun Kyun is a special talent and will be missed :(
Also as mentioned in a comment below, this colourful movie is similar to musicals and artsy movies like the famous French movie Amelie (which ironically I never liked but enjoyed this movie).
Also, the female lead seemed to be kick-ass at the beginning but somehow kept falling into traps not fighting back, and passing out when confronted by something she wasn't ready for. The male lead's "love" never made sense to me.
Overall, all the main characters in the drama are typical characters found in most dramas, and most performances don't go beyond what the character is meant to be. That being said, that isn't a detractor here. While I doubt any doctor in Japan (or anywhere really except for those highly VIP/Private hospitals) has enough time to spend with their patients, I appreciate the kindness and humility all patients are being greeted with. Overall, all the main characters were likable.
This drama is where typical Japanese over-sentimentalism works well because, birth, just like death, is the biggest equalizer that cannot be controlled, which can cause the deepest emotions.
I think the best part of this drama is the patient stories and how they were performed. I love how varied the stories were and how they were brought from every walk of life.
But, am I the only one who thinks having "Baby" as a stage name is weird?
An issue that doesn’t have anything to do with the drama but affected my enjoyment is the terrible subtitles. I pur it with it cuz. It’s a short drama but better be warned.
There is this contrast of culture for me. I'm not sure if other countries are similar, but in Japan they don't seem to put an importance of being a biological parent. That is why the name has much more influence.I guess it does go back to samurai history, where an adopted son can take over as clan leader, even if there is a biological son.
It's a slow movie, and despite the heavy theme, a light watch. I highly recommend it.
Also, the leads have no chemistry whatsoever! It's not that I didn't care for them, I didn't want to see them on screen together. They were both a bit more interesting when NOT together. Also, Nana had been deceiving Shota throughout most of their relationship, making you wonder why she got with him to begin with. And their wtv time they used to untangle a mystery was done at random without much depth to the dialogue. The whole thing was a failure lol
Still debating if I'll watch the SPs/Sequel
For me the most frustrating character is the dad. Being a loser to this degree is criminal. The mom being this weak is frustrating as well. I kinda understand Makiko’s frustration and hate.
Also, though it started like some sort if thriller, it ended up being a commentary about the addiction of social media. Makiko was bound to fall from grace at any moment, with so many lies she keeps up, without any help from Anzu et companie.