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It's funny that at first I didn't think much of the forced kiss and the wrist grab, but overtime it lost any cuteness and started to annoy me. I'm like, how sweeter the scene would've been if he grabbed only 2-3 inch lower and actually held her HAND.
I watch Le Jun Kai and the whole time I was wondering "What is wrong with that girl?!" Yea he's sick in the head, but she is too for even looking at his face.
Itazura is both a good example but also doesn't apply. The whole concept that it is based on can be annoying, but a lot of it is the girl's fault for not having any dignity. I agree the guy keeps bating her, but she's not a kid. I guess the fact that they end up together can give girls false hope that they can get what they want if they disregard their dignity, and that is a dangerous message. But I disagree that it goes on after marriage. When they got married he was trying his hardest to make her more confident and independent but he just sucked at communicating. It has a flaw in his character, showing that he isn't perfect after all, but it didn't feel like abuse.
As for the Reply 1997, I wouldn't call it rape though. The parents were worried sick, and they have a reason for being overprotective of her. They might've over did it a bit, but they were trying to show her the severity of her actions. I guess it mostly shows how normal it is for korean society for parents to physically punish their children (to an extent) while it is a taboo in western society.
I don't watch many of those "brutal love" dramas because I can't connect with the characters and just find them childish at best, crazy at worst.
I also need to mention the reverse is also true. In present day Japan, those types of dramas are pretty rare, and when any abuse is shows, it's mostly about showing it's negativity. However I find they show how "funny" it is when they guy gets beaten. I see it mostly in anime though, but really annoys me!!
Portraying it as a problem in society is a good thing. It's actually needed. Problem is when portraying it as romantic.
I've also written a 2parts article about Japanese comedy dramas that had stood out for me
http://mydramalist.com/article/2015/06/23/japanese-comedy-doramas-part-1
http://mydramalist.com/article/2015/07/26/japanese-comedy-doramas-part-2
The main antagonist had interesting fight scenes but his personality is lacking, typical antagonist in these types of movies. I find his motivation is specially weak.
Oh and I actually really like Kuroda Nagamasa. I respect him for making the difficult decision despite how hateful he might appear.