Day was upset not only because he was lied to but also because he felt/thought Mhok also pitied him (just like…
And I think that's the most annoying part for me. I think I could have seen all this differently if it had happened in an earlier episode so that they can both see that Day needs more freedom and independence. I know that they needed development first but...man...why this ep 11-thing? That really feels unnecessary if you already know the outcome :(
Day was upset not only because he was lied to but also because he felt/thought Mhok also pitied him (just like…
I can understand but am not capable of accepting this. But then again I know that I am very close-minded in many areas and have a lot of difficulties to understand different approaches because I experienced differently and just wonder "why don't they do it THIS way? A breakup is SO unnecessary!". I understand your explanation and that in a story it makes sense and it probably happens in real-life as well, but I still can't accept it because to me this is completely illogical. But as you also pointed out, this is about emotions and healing and I have to say that I fail at those quite badly many times. I suffer from loss thus I struggle with anxiety when I don't hear from my loved one for a day or so and they just won't reply to messages or calls (we live a bit farther apart). There are lots of unhealthy things in this as well and I know that. I just fail to see how a breakup can make it better. If that was proposed to me I would know for sure that we were never be able to get back together again.
Day was upset not only because he was lied to but also because he felt/thought Mhok also pitied him (just like…
His reply at that time made me think that it wasn't on impulse. Otherwise he could have just followed Mhok or call him. And I was talking about way before this happened. Day could have said so when Mhok proposed joining him in Hawaii. Day just kept silent though. He's not a hindrance in any way and to me it seemed obvious that Mhok doesn't see him that way either and just doesn't want to be apart from him. We all see certain action differently but it's just frustrating that this is the typical ep 11 when it could have been solved otherwise. Because both characters grew and matured a lot.
I have to say that I am disappointed. I didn't even think about the ep 11 curse, but here we are. I was quite confused though because they already discussed if Day would join Mhok in Hawaii. So...why was there suddenly a problem? Day could just have said that he likes the idea but wants to finally finish his studying at university. After that he'd be free to follow Mhok or maybe Mhok would decide to come back again. Thus why is there unnecessary drama/break-up? I get Day's anger because he's been lied to but I saw enough growth in him that they could have talked this out properly. I'm honestly saddened because I saw this show as another 10/10 for me. Everything was build up so thoroughly and thoughtfully that I didn't expect such a cheesy and overused ending for the penultimate episode.
I like when a show gives me a whole set of emotions. I like my good laughs but I want more of a show. Especially from romances that have not a whole lot to tell. I don't mean this in a negative sense because romances have their raison d'être for sure! But I want more from them but angst and lovey-dovey. This show gives it all to me. And ep 10 hit me right into the core. The main reason was the Christmas dinner with Day, Night and their mother. It made me miss things from when I was a child. It made me remember how I was turned down by my mother when I was 13 and how I feel so empty sometimes when I think of my older brother. My mother never changed and I can't get my brother back so I was delighted to see the brothers making up again. I also hope for the mother to eventually come around because she was showing signs of that during the dinner when also caring more about her other son again. It's not this episode's fault how I feel right now. I'm really happy that it can set such a variety of moods.
It's kinda sad that this is a laughing matter. I know that through text there is a very high chance that I misunderstand…
Can you explain that to me as well? Of course it varies from person to person so even if in my head my words don't sound harmful, in written form you can hardly convey your intention. If you already expect a certain stance from the party that voiced a different opinion, one usually perceives the next reply in a negative or positive way. But I guess by now there's not really a chance for me to convince you that this was mainly curiosity. To me it's important to mention how I see and feel things and not project emotions onto the other one that I don't even know. Thus I used " I fail" because I thought I was something between the lines what actually could have been funny.
It's kinda sad that this is a laughing matter. I know that through text there is a very high chance that I misunderstand…
Then I seriously hope you'll never experience something as in that scene or IF (still hoping that's never gonna happen) that everyone will take you seriously and not just laugh at you. Mental issues are just not a laughing matter. I would have gotten the joke if mental issues weren't involved in that scene.
It's kinda sad that this is a laughing matter. I know that through text there is a very high chance that I misunderstand…
I didn't say that. My words were that "I fail to see how this is funny". You see something worked in one person so you copy that technique. So it is me who fails to see the funny thing in this. We have different approaches because I experienced such a situation and you probably didn't. This was more out of curiosity instead of exposing you. I think I would have understood if the doctor did some flirting with Tharn and some time later Phaya were to do something very similar. That would be funny to me. If it comes to a situation as we are talking about, I might come around of too sensitive.
It's kinda sad that this is a laughing matter. I know that through text there is a very high chance that I misunderstand you. As you said Tharn copies the mechanism of the doctor plainly because he sees that Phaya is starting to fall into a panic attack. That's what's being portrayed in that scene and I was really thankful for Tharn's calm approach. He could have just stayed angry with him and doing the complete opposite. So I fail to see how this is funny.
I think in comparison to the episodes before, ep 6 fell a bit short which is why I felt a bit sad last weekend. But today my artsy heart was crying! I received SO much joy...I have to let it sink in first but I already see myself rewatching this episode over and over again. I just feel extremely happy!
I really hope that one day Tutor and Yim will get roles in a serious show. Their chemistry is great and they work so well together. Just...something so overly silly was okay for a short show but doesn't really do the actors justice. I don't know the novel so I have no clue how the characters behaved in the written story. But I have enough of foolish "Yim". When I look at him, I totally see that he's capable of playing serious characters as well. But getting a serious BL with a proper story is pretty rare. But one can still dream.
Just caught the latest “The Sign” episode, and it’s quite the rollercoaster! The whole vigilante angle?…
I thought so as well. They are a fairly new squad but they were taught to keep their cool when under pressure. Thus seeing them quite panicky during the investigation felt a little bit off. But I still really love this show because it's so refreshingly different. I wish more BLs would portray an actual story. It's not that I can't enjoy romances but I prefer stories combined with romance. (Right now I'm watching The Devil Judge and it's an AWESOME "BL" 😂😅)
tl;dr: I understand but can't accept it.
We all see certain action differently but it's just frustrating that this is the typical ep 11 when it could have been solved otherwise. Because both characters grew and matured a lot.
I'm honestly saddened because I saw this show as another 10/10 for me. Everything was build up so thoroughly and thoughtfully that I didn't expect such a cheesy and overused ending for the penultimate episode.