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Probably the most perfect quote for that situation lol. And I feel that is how I am. In most situations I will watch crime/thriller/horror but there are moments that I will also check out a romance drama just because I feel a little too single lol.

Yea the 3rd couple was ust UGHHH to me. Like excuse me? Talk about being so self centered. All she cared about what was tht he apologize even though she was more at fault. I mean if a man is afraid to tell u that he wants to hang out with friends because u start throwing a tantrum - that means there is something wrong with U. Which I guess didn't click for her or her friends constantly told her that she was right and he was wrong and tht it was okay to be clingy. But being clingy isnt right? People need their own space no matter what point of a relationship u r in. Hence, why some poeple say it isnt the best to move in with ur bf/gf because it could cause more conflicts than not. I am just hoping he doesn't get back with her or she apologizes and realizes how she was at fault. I don't want to see him get back with her - he did the right thing.

As for the 2nd couple, San San *rolls eyes* lol. Idk how if I even care I am just glad she doesn't butt into Gu Wei & LZX's relationship anymore. Let her deal with her own situation. We have 4 more episodes so lets see what happens lol.

I just want to give a shoutout to Dr. Yan & Dr. Gao. The way they came & helped a colleague out in their time of need was just PERFECT. In my eyes they have completely turned a 180 and I actually love their characters. Especially Dr. Yan. The way he spoke up for Gu Wei and told the patient's family off - GOOD JOB. He is completely right as well - how are doctors going to save people's lives or even want to when they fear that they will get sued or defamed by the patients family. There was no malpractice and the patient was still alive but they defamed Gu Wei to the point he was about to lose his career.

Idk if anyone knows about the Good Samaritan Law but its practically a law that gives legal protection to people who give reasonable assistance because people FEARED helping someone in the case they would get sued or tried for battery. Which is insane! Imagine just wanting to do the right thing and ur reward for saving someones life is getting sued. Who would want to save anyones life if it meant that their livelihood was in peril? And that is what the patients family is like? Rather than be glad that their son is still alive after such a serious accident and not picking up the phone they defame the doctor that helped him and made him almost lose his job.

Lol, my thing is that she will never know what she did was wrong because Gu Wei apologized. So, in her mind she thinks she is 100% right so her behavior will be like this. Ughh. Oh wellz. Like I said at least its over. Time for them to just be cute.

ROFL. I know what u mean. I feel I am way too invested in these characters as well. I am like venting out all my issues and being like WHY are u doing this? LOL.

And ur right? I feel she knew what kind of character Gu Wei had and knew that setbacks were rare for people like Gu Wei and they are unable to handle it well when it does happen. So, to than turn around and make things harder for him - I just can't understand why she would do that? She knew he was having a tough time but rather than be supportive or help him she just broke up with him? Because he didn't tell her? I mean shouldnt she think of his feeligns rather than her own? Idk I just find it so infuriating for her to do something like that because I personally wouldn't do that to a friend. I mean even Dr. Gao & Dr. Yan was supportive and tried to help him in his time of need and tried to share his burndens. While she just piled on.

Yea I mean being an introvert myself I know how he feels to be honest. People, like myself, don't like telling people how we feel or how things are going because we prefer to handle it ourselves even if we cant do so. It's even hard to tell family members because that is just how introverts are at times. And to top it off Gu Wei is going through a lot of trauma and being bullied. I feel he needs someone to help him rather than point out how he isn't handling the situation properly. It's easy to say - "oh well I wouldn't do that if that was happening to me" but when it happens than u realize that things don't go as people plan it. There are a lot of factors that just aren't in your control. And the fact LZX just blames him for not handling it in the right way rubbed me a bit wrong. Because how would she know? Until she goes through the same situation. Its easy for her to say that because she is looking from the outside in - while he is living through it. I jsut wished she tried to take his feelings into account rather than just her own.

It seems like that but it doesn't mean that we can just blow by it because her dad loves yelling so it means she also loves yelling. Oh wellz - just glad it is over.

Hahaha no I wasn't refuting. I agreed with most of it to be honest lol. And I definitely agree. She did say "come to me once u solve your problems". Okay he solved it so he went to u. Why is she making it hard for him than? Like does she think the trauma he had was just a small thing and that he can just get past it. Like, oh he is a man so he should get over it? Ummm no that is untrue. Men also get emotional & stressed. And men are more likely to commit suicide than females are so she should have thought of his feelings just a little bit.

I just feel that she knew of his situaiton and how he was losing his job almost. Is that really a good time to also tell him that he is losing the love of his life? Just because SHE is hurt that he didn't tell her RIGHT away. I mean he didn't even tell his parents - he told no one. Would anyone really want to tell someone about that situation especially when its just hitting u in the face one after the other. Idk, I feel she could have been a bit kinder in her response.

Rofl, wow ur patience is amazing. I would never be able to do that. I have dropped so many dramas just because they were ongoing and I just didn't want to wait for the next episode lol. Only able to do it for this one because Xiao Zhan is my bias lol.

But u will have fun its a good drama. And I feel it has a lot of elements it touches on. And Gu Wei is just so good looking :D

Okay, so at the time of that post I wasn't caught up lol. But now I am. So, even though I am neutral at the standpoint that I don't feel anyone was completely wrong with how things became the way it did in their relationship. I do agree that how LZX treated Gu Wei once she found out about his circumstances was not necessary. She found him in the middle of no where and just started yelling at him and saying how he was a bad bf and just pushing him down even further. Honestly, in real life, no one would think that was a good way to encourage someone. Parents who do that to their own kids never get a satisfactory answer. When parents tell their kids "wow, ur nothing or u won't become anything" more times than not it will make that child lose confidence and become nothing like their parents have stated. And that is what she did - but its the storyline they were going with so I won't complain too much about it since it did help him in a way to see the light.

My major issue was that why did she make things harder for him after he was able to resolve the issue with the patient's family (screw them still!!!). Besides for trying to understand his situation of how he was having a hard time she just constantly made it harder for him. Did she not realize that he was being bullied online, about to lose his job and was getting attacked every where? But besides for trying to understand she just told him that "well we broke up". I understand some people are going to say "well he didn't communicate" - well that is fine but he deserves an opportunity to clear his head before he does communicate. It isn't that he didn't trust her its just that he didn't know how to tell her - he attempted to do so but was unable to do it because he didn't want to ruin her dreams. He thought of her even though his situation was so BAD. He didn't wnat to go to the family dinner but he went because he saw how much she prepared for it. Couldn't she at least take some time and think about how he feels? I wouldn't have minded but the fact she made Gu Wei practically beg her to take her back was just unfair in my opinion. Especially since relationships are all about understanding and trying to help one another - he was unable to communicate but u found out about it and should have helped him rather than make his situation worse. It just felt like she cared more about how she felt rather than how he felt. Sorry about the rant lol. I felt I had a lot to say about it.

I found it & read it lol. My thing is that u stated that he ran away from his problems but than said that LZX also needed time to think clearly about the situation between Gu Wei & herself. So, my thing is why couldn't Gu Wei get the same experience? His situation was 100x harder than LZX and he just needed some time to think straight. Are people not allowed to at least be able to curl up into a ball when everything is going wrong in their life? The man is human first and should be allowed to have some time to himself. LZX legit took longer into realizing where her heart belonged than Gu Wei did about his entire career being over almost.

Honestly, I still don't understand why LZX made it such a big deal about their issue. I fee she should have been more understanding and not just add more pressure onto Gu Wei when his world was already collapsing around him. Coming to him in the middle of no where and yelling at him - okay fine it helped him get a clue. But what was the point of giving him a hard time after his situation got resolved? Was it fun for her to make things hard for him? Didn't he already go through so much? Being in a relationship shouldnt she try to understand his feelings when he was having a rough time rather than just make it all about herself?

Sorry about the rant lol. But idk it just feels like LZX didn't think of Gu Wei's situation and just cared about she was treated.

After watching the entire situation go down between LZX & Gu Wei - the only thing I can say is that I am pretty neutral. I honestly didn't think it was anyones fault. Gu Wei had his entire life turned upside down in a matter of 24 hours and lost EVERYTHING. Any person wouldn't know what to do and who to turn to especially when it just happened. And to the top it off he had to meet his gf's parents and try to make it seem like everything was okay. But who honestly would be okay with everything that happened? I know some people would say "well he could tell her" - yes he could have but when exactly? When she was happy to go to Germany and sign the contract? Was he supposed to tell her and ruin her future opportunity of being accepted into an orchestra? There were multiple times he wanted to tell her but noticed that it was the wrong opportunity. And as an introvert I know that it isn't easy to just open up your feelings to people - they need time & space to think it over. And Gu Wei seems to also just need some time & space to clear his head and than maybe he is ready to open up. Idk if anyone has watched Hometown ChaCha but the ML was pretty much the same - he kept his pain & struggles for YEARS until he finally opened up when he was ready. And I feel that is what people want to hear when they are having a hard time - not being forced to tell people how they are feeling but somoene saying "its okay, take your time & tell me when YOU are ready to open up".

As for LZX, I can also understand her predicament of not knowing and thinking that maybe something did happen to him. She didn't know his entire world was just turned upside down so her initial reaction was "is it because of me?". Even though I did find the reaction to be strange since he was shown to absolutley love her 24 hours earlier. But due to the fact she had no other information regarding his work life I can understand her jumping to that conclusion and thinking that way.

The biggest culprit is the patient's family. LIKE OMG - screw them! They had the audacity to get upset with Gu Wei because he saved their son's life but was unable to pick up a phone call. I know surgeries take time to prepare which means that they were trying to get a hold of them for HOURS and no response. And now that the surgery was done - they expected their son to just be OKAY after a major car accident? Gu Wei went through the proper channels even - he told the hospital and got their permission to do the surgery. And instead they turned around and defamed him - Gu Wei should sue them. I really don't want to see them get away with everything they did. That is just atrocious behavior. I feel they would have been okay if they didn't perform the surgery and just let their son die since they had such a problem with what Gu Wei did.

Which is absolutely ridiculous! It gives unrealistic standards for people that they can't even obtain without ruining their own health. But I am glad that Yang Zi does not try to go to that standard - hope more actresses start leaning towards a more healthier look.

Hahaha I feel ur Rebel Princess kind of reminds me how I for some reason enjoyed Because of You. It jsut had a bunch of females that caused drama and did evil stuff - while the FL would stay quiet and never say anything and hope people would change -_- lol. Usually I would hate those dramas and not even continue and drop it but for some reason I enjoyed it lol - its like a guilty pleasure drama for me now lol. I still don't know why I like it.

Ahhhh, I dont think I would watch her in anything else lol. I feel I just can't enjoy her acting the way u do lol. And her face just makes her seem to be a MEAN person lol.

So, she does tell her parents - well Gu Wei tells them lol. But I forgot what episode it was. Of course there are some issues brewing lol - its the end of a drama there is always something that comes at the end before the couple gets together. I just hope it resolves quickly like the other issues. And I hope the 3rd couple don't get back together. I can't stand that girl - OMG. I thought SanSan was bad but she is just as bad almost lol. I never thought a character could be so oblivious to their own mistakes to think they didn't do anything wrong. Just wow!

To be honest, I find that so ridiculous that people body shame Yang Zi because she is skinny - she just isn't SUPER skinny which in my view is a good thing because u can show young girls that u don't need to be that thin to have an advantage in society or be considered beautiful especially since it is SO unhealthy. Idk if u ever saw You Are My Hero but the FL Sandra Ma had such little confidence in her image because of all the shame she got for her body. And it was so strange because she was NOT fat - she was still pretty and skinny. But because she wasn't excesssively skinny peopel shamed her. I just don't get the standards.

Yea, I feel Dr. Gao might have thought they were meant to be together but I feel she is still good to Gu Wei even though she can't have him. Which, in all honesty, is SUPER respectful in my opinion because it shows that she still cares about their relationship at least as friends. So good on her to be honest.

From what I heard from Yang Zi fans is that apparently 44kg was the lowest weight she was at when she was filming Ashes of Love. And Xiao Zhan just remembered and thus said that she will always be "44kg in his heart" which made LZX aka Yang Zi scream at the end because he rememebred the number lol.

But I do agree that in general the body standard are a bit insane for a lot of c-drama actresses. But I feel that is the trend over there - but agree definitely not a good thing and even in accordance with BMI it is considered unhealthy I believe.

That actually gave Dr. Gao points in my book that she didn't mind Gu Wei being overweight and still liked him

But as for the bodyshaming - there was no bodyshaming scene though. I think what was mentioned for the 44kg was that he stated that "no matter what you will always be 44kg to me". Which pretty much means that she could be 100 kg and he would still think she was 44kg because he doesn't care what her weight is - its just a number to him and nothing else.

Exactly! And I don't want to end the episodes off with angst and rather just see them get together right after I watch it lol.

I am just here:
https://twitter.com/XiaoZhan_OFC/status/1508453339440115716?s=20&t=8RIXMce6_MkX3q5kxyaULA

Until the new episode tomorrow releases 😀😀😀. Xiao Zhan is just so chaotic lol.

Awww the little theater at the end of Episode 22 was so cute. The way Gu Wei wasn't admitting to how he still had feelings for LZX during the beginning. Gu Wei just looked so cute!!

I don't think I can watch 23 - might just hold it off to tomorrow when things resolve as well lol. Need things to be good for the GuLin couple.

Lol, sounds like Hermiones bag from Harry Potter. Might have a magic spell on it!