don't know if it's only me but i cringed so hard at the scene where he compliments her in the meeting, it just…
Agree. I understood what he was doing (first, trying to apologize; second, trying to show he can be "like Alex" and speak to her with respect) but it was extremely hard to watch.
Have we talked about the fact that Luke flicked her HARD and she couldn't even bring herself to flick him at all? She's so soft for him. Makes me really anxious to find out what he does exactly to make her want to cut him out of her life. . .
The scene where he drinks to poison and she screams, "NO!!!!" gave me the chills. I love when he said, "I didn't save you from that nunnery just to watch you die now." I LOVE HIM!
im genuinely surprised by the the rating and how ppl is loving this, kinda expected the opposite with this, now…
I'm thinking it's because the show doesn't glorify his behavior, nor does it portray the FL as a Mary Sue. She's not perfect. The show does a good job of showing how she's trying her best, but she's very naive (and yet trying not to be at the same time). She's kinda down on herself (worthiness, not seeing herself as being on his "level"). I think two scenes really made a huge difference to her character and raising the quality of the show: 1. When she was buying bread and thinks to herself, "When a person's sincerity is treated with distain / lightly, all you can feel is embarrassment; it feels like a thorn when I breathe." <--- That's some extremely self-aware inner dialogue, and it's a universal feeling / relatable for all of us, no matter if it's a romantic relationship or a friendship or whatever kind of relationship. 2. When she told her friend that she wasn't mad about being punished for her mistake at work, but she was also upset with Luke for punishing her for her mistake. Both things were true at the same time. She didn't want special treatment, but when she didn't get special treatment it really hurt her feelings (coming from Luke). It makes her flawed, but that's so relatable.
Luke is also not perfect, but they don't glorify his behavior; in fact, they lean into how incredibly thoughtless and arrogant he is, shining a light on how his pride is incredibly hurtful and destructive. 1. When he tells her she's delusional after coming back from the ski trip 2. When she says "Happy New Year" and he tells her to check on his fish 3. When he gives her the bag and expects her to be grateful 4. When he says, "You left your bag at my place on purpose" and then never apologizes for that. None of those situations/behaviors are at all defensible, they're so obviously hurtful (to everyone but Luke because of his stupid pride).
I think that's why this show is so different from the usual toxic ML and submissive FL. She's not becoming less interesting / a doormat; she's growing stronger with each episode. Likewise, he's not just being a jerk and always getting his way. He's growing softer and trying harder (but still making mistakes).
They're both struggling and suffering and it's so much fun to watch. :-)
It's so strange to me how much I adore the character of Luke but also want to make fun of him at the same time. 😂
I keep thinking about episode 11 when he called her "delusional." WTF was he expecting her to say/do after he calls her delusional?? NEVER call your girl delusional. NEVER EVER EVER! That's dating 101, grasshopper.
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We were ROOTING for him.
Such a sweet talker. 🙄
Makes me really anxious to find out what he does exactly to make her want to cut him out of her life. . .
"Okay. Here, you're going to lean forward, place your chin on her knees, and give her puppy dog eyes."
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I LOVE HIM!
She's not perfect. The show does a good job of showing how she's trying her best, but she's very naive (and yet trying not to be at the same time). She's kinda down on herself (worthiness, not seeing herself as being on his "level"). I think two scenes really made a huge difference to her character and raising the quality of the show:
1. When she was buying bread and thinks to herself, "When a person's sincerity is treated with distain / lightly, all you can feel is embarrassment; it feels like a thorn when I breathe." <--- That's some extremely self-aware inner dialogue, and it's a universal feeling / relatable for all of us, no matter if it's a romantic relationship or a friendship or whatever kind of relationship.
2. When she told her friend that she wasn't mad about being punished for her mistake at work, but she was also upset with Luke for punishing her for her mistake. Both things were true at the same time. She didn't want special treatment, but when she didn't get special treatment it really hurt her feelings (coming from Luke). It makes her flawed, but that's so relatable.
Luke is also not perfect, but they don't glorify his behavior; in fact, they lean into how incredibly thoughtless and arrogant he is, shining a light on how his pride is incredibly hurtful and destructive.
1. When he tells her she's delusional after coming back from the ski trip
2. When she says "Happy New Year" and he tells her to check on his fish
3. When he gives her the bag and expects her to be grateful
4. When he says, "You left your bag at my place on purpose" and then never apologizes for that.
None of those situations/behaviors are at all defensible, they're so obviously hurtful (to everyone but Luke because of his stupid pride).
I think that's why this show is so different from the usual toxic ML and submissive FL. She's not becoming less interesting / a doormat; she's growing stronger with each episode. Likewise, he's not just being a jerk and always getting his way. He's growing softer and trying harder (but still making mistakes).
They're both struggling and suffering and it's so much fun to watch. :-)
I keep thinking about episode 11 when he called her "delusional." WTF was he expecting her to say/do after he calls her delusional??
NEVER call your girl delusional. NEVER EVER EVER! That's dating 101, grasshopper.