That scene where BJ calls LJ into his office is such a quiet flex in romance.
When LJ admits his co-workers have demoted him to their personal secretary, BJ doesn’t waste any energy on an outburst. No screaming, no desk slamming, no bad boy posturing. He just quietly stands up, picks up the phone, and summons the Mofos straight to his office. 🫣
Just a cold, deadpan "I’m sorry, but absolutely not"
Loud anger makes me shut down. It triggers that instant, awful urge to internalize the conflict and feel like you're the one causing drama for existing. Just pure quiet dominance is so deeply satisfying and ironically feels louder and more fierce 🦁
Considering the sexual tension between you two right now, I feel like the next time you are stroking BJ collar will be when both of you are stripping .... probably, but most definately in a hurry 😂
Ohh, ohhhhhhhh, you see...Little details like that need to be pointed out or I'm left wondering if the stylist malfunctioned on Heng 😂 That makes more sense ❤️
Well I'm very much the minority here, but I've written a long comment about it below... Had to put the spoiler…
I don't have other socials, but I've seen on YouTube that the Phob hate train is at full steam 🥲 In an ironic twist of fate though, MDL comments have been overall more compassionate to both characters.
They both give up so much for each other, which just shows how well thought out the writing is.
I think the smartest narrative move now would be for them to walk in each other's shoes for a bit to reach a grounded resolution in a situation like this.
I dont know why I'm reading the same 'you dont belong here' crap I've heard all my life about being bisexual, down below. Why is the old half breed argument still alive?? 🥲
but anyway, I am a little on the fence about this show, I can't work out why. It has all the checked boxes of my usual interests, but I'm struggling to get into it. Maybe it's a show I need to binge watch to enjoy better? 🤔 I'll keep an eye on it for now and see where it goes. It's definately got MaxBas humour all over it 😂
I was so busy picking my shattered heart up off the floor yesterday, that something suddenly occurred to me. Myself, and I see a few others have since pointed it out as well, the dining room scene in the last episode. That Tinn had to walk through a long line of severe poverty, people sitting out in the sun and dirt, in order to feast with Phob in a nice restaurant.
Do you know what else stands out now?
In that really cute scene in the garden, Phob joked that Tinn didnt help plant the rose tree. Because he didn't. He stood and watched and gave orders, and then complained that Phob is sweaty and dirty.
He's sat in a cushy office, signing papers and eating well. He has no idea what the lifestyle differences are, and he's accustomed to it never being questioned.
Now he doesn't have a choice and I'm wondering, if that's how the penny drops, or is Phob going to help behind the scenes because you know he wont be able to stand watching Tinn suffer lol
It's just dawned on me why the theme colour for this show is our purple 🥹 I had been wondering why that colour at the beginning 😂 ohhhhhhhh 🪻🪻🪻
You know, I saw wild lilac growing yesterday, and P'Jane put the kettle on in my mind, and grabbed a cookie 😂 I'm not allowed to think of anything else until this show ends
Well, that was devastating. Even progressive Grandma snapped at Phop.
It a persistent, ugly truth about human nature: when you are born into comfort, how do you psychologically reconcile the fact that your comfort is actively built on someone else’s suffering? It's a question that happens from big to small issues every day. Being "progressive" almost makes it harder, like grandma, because it strips away the ignorance and forces you to face your own complicity in pain.
Human instinct is inherently selfish. We are hardwired to survive and maintain comfort. The ego is fragile and our brains build massive defense mechanisms against information that threatens our self perception.
Look at Siri; completely apprehensive until she realized it would benefit her.
Now look at Tinn. He doesn't live in luxury, his clothes are quite simple, he sits quietly by the rose tree. But he still had to walk past that long line of people scraping food together every single day just to go eat lunch. He knew. The reality was right in front of him. Did he ever sit with them? That big meal he was having with Phob? He comforted Phop but he didnt suggest to share it out. He was actively choosing to be an observer because that's what he knows. It's just the way things are.
We love to pride ourselves on our kindness, but our empathy stops right where our ego takes over. And it's job is to protect us.
That rose tree is a character all by it's self. Tinn sitting in the garden while the blossoms fall. Nature's quiet observer. When something rots and falls away, it just lets it go because it knows it's making room for something else. Humans arent built for that. We hoard. We hold on to what's our normal because that's what's safe.
I don't think Tinn is angry with Phop. If he's angry about anything, it's that he wasn't Phob's first choice. We seen that in episode 1.
I think he's more shell shocked. He loves his family too. He’s sinking into that void where you absorb every fault and believe it's your own personal failure. If I had just listened to my dad. I put him first over my whole family, and now look what's happened, and he doesnt feel guilty about it.
I think now, walking in each other's shoes might be the next choice? Tinn's family is now the disgraced ones, with a ton of debt thanks to Chat. And Phob is going to see what it's like to have power over people's lives.
Notice how, in the earlier meeting, the 1st meeting, Little Jane couldnt stop staring at Big Jane, and he noticed.
But the 2nd time, Little Jane's full attention was on Dan....and Big Jane noticed 😢 And slowly got more and more jealous.
And then he watched him drive off on the back of Dan's motorcycle. No wonder he was crying and trying to escape from his apologies at the end. Just simmering in a big pot of pain with his broken heart.
You can give the world but some people will still want to play in puddles 💔
The 2am insomnia is going strong and the spicy brain has ways of amusing it's selfclears throat 🎙CASE:…
Transalation - 🪙🪙
1-Big Jane is a toxic disaster with still a lot of mystery surrounding his history and intentions. I'm sure we are all fully aware of it. I’m not defending his real world morals. I’m just here enjoying the messy, dramatic television. I have a bad boy bias so I'm wondering how many of us, have that in common? 😂
2 - Little Jane deserves better. At the minute anyway. His struggle with low confidence makes him vulnerable to being swayed, and I get why people want to protect him. He had a whole painting about trusting himself etc For someone obsessed with details, he's unfortunately being shown only half the data. But I’m rooting for his glow up.
3- The contrast is what makes it fun. Watching a big, intimidating red flag go soft and vulnerable for someone is a classic trope, even if it leads to absolute chaos. But I love it anyway 😂
4 - At the end of the day, this is meant to be fun. We can root for the chaos on screen without endorsing it in real life. We don't need to start wishing harm for differing tastes ✌️ Protect Your Peace
The 2am insomnia is going strong and the spicy brain has ways of amusing it's self
clears throat 🎙
CASE: The Fandom War of Big Jane vs. Little Jane
VERDICT: Big Jane has been found... Not Guilty, until further investigations have been concluded. He is hereby granted Temporary Safe Haven within my bosom, until he f**ks up royally.
TAX & TRIBUTE ADJUSTMENTS: +1.0 Faerie Bias applied to Big Jane. +1.0 Empathy Points awarded to Little Jane, alongside the continuing protection of his character and reputation. Low self esteem makes trusting his own instincts an uphill battle. And it really sucks, honestly.We will await him growing a pair and investing in fitted suits, before the Committee is injured awwwing at him repeatedly and reduces its tribute.
COURT DOCUMENTS: (Or whatever they're called) In Section 2, Paragraph A of The Faerie Bias Clause: The Fae Court reserves the absolute right to issue a +1.0 Immunity Pass whenever a character exhibits sheer audacity, supreme visuals, or chaotic pull, regardless of how radioactive their red flags are. We know. We saw. We heard the boss music.
In Section 4 of The Character Chaos Exemption: Enjoying Big Jane does not equal an endorsement of real world red flags, because we would all have been killed years ago otherwise. The Court fully acknowledges that Little Jane deserves protection from being swayed by the loudest voice in the room (mainly people out to get Big Jane, making him a liability, and now Big Jane is about to get shot again). However, the Unseelie Court simply cannot resist a tragic, messy disaster that makes for incredible television. Also, the big tough guy has gone weak in the knees, and we personally love vulnerability.
JUDICIAL NOTES:
The Court freely acknowledges that Big Jane's red flags are visible from space and that Little Jane deserves a safe space to find his confidence. We respect the moral high ground and validate the heartstrings being pulled, but under the laws of dramaland... the passport is stamped, and Her Majesty the Queen approves and is delighted with the verdict.
I jest, I jest. Joke guys, joke. Take a breath and dont swat at me ....
I havent read the novel. This is just from comments here om this page and I also asked for enlightenment 😂 P'Jane keeps the photos of LJ, he bought from Dan in there like a little shrine, apparently. It was in the preview for next week so we ll be seeing it
I had seen comments mentioning the secret room a while back and I asked about it, so I get it. I know what saucy little pyscho secret BJ has 😂 I wont be surprised if theres an NC scene next week 😂 I'm not sure BJ can hold it in much longer anyway 🫡
The rabbit happens to be one of my favourite animals, and now I've put the image of Big Jane being an evil rabbit, into my own head as a passing joke. But now the jokes on me, because I'm going to have to run with that for the rest of the series. .... I seen both sides previously but now I'm looking at BJ like LJ and bias is fully taking control now 😘🐇😂
P'Jane's ability to phase in and out of reality needs to be studied 😂
Do you think he has a personal network of secret tunnels all over Bangkok's underground, and just pops up like an aggressive rabbit whenever and wherever the plot calls for his dramatic entrance? 😂
I can't decide which image is funnier. Popping up from a stage lift, like a popstar's concert entrance from his secret tunnels, or he's crouched silently in the corner, behind a plant or something, just stalking Little Jane, waiting for the right moment to reveal himself like, mwahaha, it's me! 😂😂😂
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When LJ admits his co-workers have demoted him to their personal secretary, BJ doesn’t waste any energy on an outburst. No screaming, no desk slamming, no bad boy posturing. He just quietly stands up, picks up the phone, and summons the Mofos straight to his office. 🫣
Just a cold, deadpan "I’m sorry, but absolutely not"
Loud anger makes me shut down. It triggers that instant, awful urge to internalize the conflict and feel like you're the one causing drama for existing. Just pure quiet dominance is so deeply satisfying and ironically feels louder and more fierce 🦁
That makes more sense ❤️
I'll bet BJ imagines that scenario everytime he puts his jacket on.
Helping the hubby get dressed in the morning 🤭
They both give up so much for each other, which just shows how well thought out the writing is.
I think the smartest narrative move now would be for them to walk in each other's shoes for a bit to reach a grounded resolution in a situation like this.
but anyway, I am a little on the fence about this show, I can't work out why. It has all the checked boxes of my usual interests, but I'm struggling to get into it. Maybe it's a show I need to binge watch to enjoy better? 🤔 I'll keep an eye on it for now and see where it goes.
It's definately got MaxBas humour all over it 😂
Myself, and I see a few others have since pointed it out as well, the dining room scene in the last episode. That Tinn had to walk through a long line of severe poverty, people sitting out in the sun and dirt, in order to feast with Phob in a nice restaurant.
Do you know what else stands out now?
In that really cute scene in the garden, Phob joked that Tinn didnt help plant the rose tree.
Because he didn't. He stood and watched and gave orders, and then complained that Phob is sweaty and dirty.
He's sat in a cushy office, signing papers and eating well. He has no idea what the lifestyle differences are, and he's accustomed to it never being questioned.
Now he doesn't have a choice and I'm wondering, if that's how the penny drops, or is Phob going to help behind the scenes because you know he wont be able to stand watching Tinn suffer lol
You know, I saw wild lilac growing yesterday, and P'Jane put the kettle on in my mind, and grabbed a cookie 😂 I'm not allowed to think of anything else until this show ends
It a persistent, ugly truth about human nature: when you are born into comfort, how do you psychologically reconcile the fact that your comfort is actively built on someone else’s suffering? It's a question that happens from big to small issues every day.
Being "progressive" almost makes it harder, like grandma, because it strips away the ignorance and forces you to face your own complicity in pain.
Human instinct is inherently selfish. We are hardwired to survive and maintain comfort. The ego is fragile and our brains build massive defense mechanisms against information that threatens our self perception.
Look at Siri; completely apprehensive until she realized it would benefit her.
Now look at Tinn. He doesn't live in luxury, his clothes are quite simple, he sits quietly by the rose tree. But he still had to walk past that long line of people scraping food together every single day just to go eat lunch. He knew. The reality was right in front of him. Did he ever sit with them? That big meal he was having with Phob? He comforted Phop but he didnt suggest to share it out. He was actively choosing to be an observer because that's what he knows. It's just the way things are.
We love to pride ourselves on our kindness, but our empathy stops right where our ego takes over. And it's job is to protect us.
That rose tree is a character all by it's self. Tinn sitting in the garden while the blossoms fall. Nature's quiet observer. When something rots and falls away, it just lets it go because it knows it's making room for something else. Humans arent built for that. We hoard. We hold on to what's our normal because that's what's safe.
I don't think Tinn is angry with Phop. If he's angry about anything, it's that he wasn't Phob's first choice. We seen that in episode 1.
I think he's more shell shocked. He loves his family too. He’s sinking into that void where you absorb every fault and believe it's your own personal failure. If I had just listened to my dad. I put him first over my whole family, and now look what's happened, and he doesnt feel guilty about it.
I think now, walking in each other's shoes might be the next choice? Tinn's family is now the disgraced ones, with a ton of debt thanks to Chat. And Phob is going to see what it's like to have power over people's lives.
But the 2nd time, Little Jane's full attention was on Dan....and Big Jane noticed 😢 And slowly got more and more jealous.
And then he watched him drive off on the back of Dan's motorcycle. No wonder he was crying and trying to escape from his apologies at the end. Just simmering in a big pot of pain with his broken heart.
You can give the world but some people will still want to play in puddles 💔
1-Big Jane is a toxic disaster with still a lot of mystery surrounding his history and intentions. I'm sure we are all fully aware of it. I’m not defending his real world morals. I’m just here enjoying the messy, dramatic television. I have a bad boy bias so I'm wondering how many of us, have that in common? 😂
2 - Little Jane deserves better. At the minute anyway. His struggle with low confidence makes him vulnerable to being swayed, and I get why people want to protect him. He had a whole painting about trusting himself etc For someone obsessed with details, he's unfortunately being shown only half the data. But I’m rooting for his glow up.
3- The contrast is what makes it fun. Watching a big, intimidating red flag go soft and vulnerable for someone is a classic trope, even if it leads to absolute chaos. But I love it anyway 😂
4 - At the end of the day, this is meant to be fun. We can root for the chaos on screen without endorsing it in real life. We don't need to start wishing harm for differing tastes ✌️ Protect Your Peace
clears throat 🎙
CASE: The Fandom War of Big Jane vs. Little Jane
VERDICT: Big Jane has been found... Not Guilty, until further investigations have been concluded.
He is hereby granted Temporary Safe Haven within my bosom, until he f**ks up royally.
TAX & TRIBUTE ADJUSTMENTS:
+1.0 Faerie Bias applied to Big Jane.
+1.0 Empathy Points awarded to Little Jane, alongside the continuing protection of his character and reputation. Low self esteem makes trusting his own instincts an uphill battle. And it really sucks, honestly.We will await him growing a pair and investing in fitted suits, before the Committee is injured awwwing at him repeatedly and reduces its tribute.
COURT DOCUMENTS: (Or whatever they're called)
In Section 2, Paragraph A of The Faerie Bias Clause:
The Fae Court reserves the absolute right to issue a +1.0 Immunity Pass whenever a character exhibits sheer audacity, supreme visuals, or chaotic pull, regardless of how radioactive their red flags are. We know. We saw. We heard the boss music.
In Section 4 of The Character Chaos Exemption:
Enjoying Big Jane does not equal an endorsement of real world red flags, because we would all have been killed years ago otherwise. The Court fully acknowledges that Little Jane deserves protection from being swayed by the loudest voice in the room (mainly people out to get Big Jane, making him a liability, and now Big Jane is about to get shot again). However, the Unseelie Court simply cannot resist a tragic, messy disaster that makes for incredible television. Also, the big tough guy has gone weak in the knees, and we personally love vulnerability.
JUDICIAL NOTES:
The Court freely acknowledges that Big Jane's red flags are visible from space and that Little Jane deserves a safe space to find his confidence. We respect the moral high ground and validate the heartstrings being pulled, but under the laws of dramaland... the passport is stamped, and Her Majesty the Queen approves and is delighted with the verdict.
I jest, I jest. Joke guys, joke. Take a breath and dont swat at me ....
He's like the Energizer Bunny from duracell, only with a boss music bass drop, a shadowy villain aura, and really, really horny 🤣
Do you think he has a personal network of secret tunnels all over Bangkok's underground, and just pops up like an aggressive rabbit whenever and wherever the plot calls for his dramatic entrance? 😂
I can't decide which image is funnier. Popping up from a stage lift, like a popstar's concert entrance from his secret tunnels, or he's crouched silently in the corner, behind a plant or something, just stalking Little Jane, waiting for the right moment to reveal himself like, mwahaha, it's me! 😂😂😂