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Sun Ho broke the code that every friend, male or female knows. It is inviolable. He came home and saw that his only friend/loyal servant was in love. Without even knowing JoJo, SH immediately set about seducing the object of HY’s affection whether out of jealousy or to make sure that he kept sole power over HY. He did it purposefully and then cruelly expected HY to get back in his lane and under his thumb and forced him to watch as he romanced the girl HY loved. The level of disrespect and cruelty of this act is truly mind boggling to me. He should have been denounced as the villain for the willful pain he inflicted on his friend/servant. It also showed Sun Ho’s true nature.
This despicable act set up the dominos for the rest of the story. I don’t believe they were both sh*tty friends. At this point their friendship should have been completely and irrevocably broken. What Sun Ho did was irredeemable. Perhaps if he’d begged HY’s forgiveness he could have been forgiven, but he never once apologized for his selfish and self-entitled actions. Never tried to make amends. He simply couldn’t see how wrong his actions were and he could not handle the maid's son becoming autonomous. I can’t blame HY for standing up for himself, refusing to let SH dictate his life and confronting the boy he had once trusted over the girl he had loved first.
The writers took the clichéd pretty rich boy trope and turned it on its ear. This time the typical, misunderstood bad boy and his bad behavior was not rewarded with getting the girl. He got a girl, but not his friend’s/servant’s girl. Justice, karma, whatever you want to call it won out and he was not rewarded for his reprehensible behavior. He continued to act on his selfish impulses in the second season never once considering the damage he was causing to JoJo, much less the guy he was still guilting about the promise to always protect him.
Ultimately, this is JoJo’s story, not SH’s. If the writers had decided to keep her in her self-loathing, Sun Ho would have been the perfect, damaged, choice. But they decided to have her heal from her painful past and to find enough self-love and self-respect to enter into a healthy relationship. Perhaps with the support of Yook Jo, SH will find the healing he needs to move forward with his life. Given that they are fictional characters, my guess is yes. :)
This is strictly my opinion and my interpretation of what the writers presented. I hope this answers your questions as to where I was coming from and why I respectfully disagree with your opinion.
Like I said, people tend to look at this drama through different life experience glasses, but this season I saw a young woman working hard to become a better person and learning to feel worthy of love and happiness. :)
With Hye Young she was able to have the space, time, and support she needed to reflect and heal. Far from clingy he wisely gave her what she needed so that she could make her own choice about who she wanted and what she needed instead of a phone app or possessive boyfriend. He even realized she might choose no one and he was prepared for that if being alone or with someone else made her happy.
Who she chose to be with might not be the center of the story, but once the director focused the story on her, it became about her growth, her healing and her choices. I actually enjoyed her story as she made steps forward and fell back and moved forward again-just like we do in real life. Change is hard and change takes time. Before she chose HY she had to choose herself.
Everyone seems to have a different interpretation of events, probably in relation to how much they are able to tolerate a negative relationship (I have little tolerance for a man who would betray his friend) or a slower paced drama. There's no right or wrong for how we rated this drama or how we saw it. It's just a tv show and these actors have moved on to their next roles. I'll move on to the next drama as well and will never look back on the rating.
My exact thoughts when watching this.