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Thank you!

Does anyone know the name of the song that I honestly can’t remember what episode it was in or what the lyrics were, other than it kept repeating wo de baobei? I don’t think it’s part of the OST

This drama is honestly so good but somehow despite that, I feel like I’m the wrong age to enjoy it properly. I ended up crying in several scenes because I identified with the mothers. But then, even tho I understand the feelings of a mother, I don’t have high school aged kids, so I can’t fully relate. On the other hand, I’m way past the stage of a dreaming youth, so while I love watching youth dramas for the nostalgia, I only want to if it’s going to fulfill my romance fantasy as someone who definitely did not have a high school romance! So basically what I’m saying is there’s no denying this is a great drama but its just not what I want 😂

Can you read?

I could not watch Go Go Squid because both their acting really sucked to me. Glad to see they’ve both improved a lot (especially Yang Zi!). I will definitely watch Yang zi’s shows from now on. Li Xian here reminds me of his role in Meet Yourself, but I can’t complain, both roles were likeable, even if similar

Same it’s so annoying and makes me dislike the ML. I’m so sick of all these feminist dramas these days. Like can they be realistic? No one can actually be totally independent. A true relationship of equals is one where you both rely on and help each other and are there for each other

I don’t think I can get passed the ridiculousness that was the first episode

I didn’t 😅

I don’t hate her but it also bothered me how she favors Yining so much when she has multiple grandchildren. And I had a hard time accepting she’s really a good person when she allowed LSY to suffer all these years

I really enjoyed this for the most part and even intended to rate it 10, but then the last few episodes left me feeling a bit disappointed. I’m pretty conservative, I usually don’t need or want gratuitous kiss scenes, but I feel like it would have been better if they had given us something at the end. I mean not even a wedding night kiss? And did she really need to keep calling him third brother until the very last minute? I was satisfied with their sibling type relationship for the majority of the drama, but then feel like they let us down at the end. I was expecting a bit of sweet fluffy romance but nothing really changed in their relationship. She even said that they’re like an old couple — but I feel like they shouldn’t necessarily. Still a great drama and worth watching. Just felt slightly disappointed.

Ooh ok thank god 😂 I’m still confused by the airing sched.

Is that gonna be like ep 32?!! It better not take that long for her to find out they’re not siblings wtf 🤬

Me neither and for me that’s perfect! I hate love triangles where one of the leads gives the second too much attention. I’m loving how they handled it in this drama!

I kinda wish she would get with him and live a spoiled pampered life, but to be realistic, I don’t trust him or his mom. If she stops being useful to them one day, how will they treat her then? But I would be happy if we got to know Mr Han better and were able to determine he is in fact a good person. Cuz I don’t want another love story between family members (and to be clear, I don’t see a problem with marrying your uncles wife’s much younger brother, but in this drama where we already have this pseudo sibling love affair, it’s like too much already!)

Why is this so good????! I’m obsessed and the episodes aren’t coming out soon enough! 😅

I also had to drop Go Ahead 100% entirely and only because I couldn’t stand Song Weilong’s terrible acting, and Zhang Xincheng outshined him in every scene. But I LOVED the first several episodes with the child actors. What I love about cdramas that deal with family and growing up is how authentic and nostalgic and relatable they are, even as a non-Chinese. They just make me feel a type of way kdramas never ever have, this adaptation included. I’m just not feeling the raw emotion and connection that Go Ahead gave me, so for that reason, I’ll probably drop this.

I agree. Which is why I said IF he didn’t become an actor

Nothing to do with the story — I just have to say, it’s interesting how I don’t find Zhang Wanyi particularly good looking, he’s not really my type, but his voice is so attractive it’s changed my feelings about him entirely. 😂 I never realized someone’s voice could affect your perception of them so much. If he didn’t become an actor, he could have become a voice actor

WTF was that ending??? If she loved the SML so much, why did she cheat on him with the ML in the first place??? Honestly she was playing both of them throughout the drama

I’m assuming this was filmed before Jermey Xu retired?