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bloomingtide

Currently In A Drama Hiatus
On The Real Has Come! Sep 9, 2023
It fills me with greatest joy that even the k-media called TRHC backwards/outdated af, ngl. Especially with that boring as hell focus on birth secret and thus on the importance of bloodlines. Here are some (google-translated) snippets of an article my buddy posted on twitter (viewable w/o account)

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Replying to Folza Sep 9, 2023
I am so glad I dropped this 20 episodes ago
You got out of this mess at the best time, friend xD
Replying to undisputedchamp8 Sep 9, 2023
The last weekend is almost here. Gonna b bittersweet16.7k. DAMN! ๐Ÿ‘Lets c how this wraps up cuz last ep was…
This show has been a MESS since eps 33, tbh but yeah. We will managed 17k in the end i guess and it should serve as postmortem warning for anyone wanting to watch it.
Replying to Kathryn_51 Sep 9, 2023
Jung Eui Jae (the actor) is doing great in his first main role - I'm glad the writer/director finally gave him…
Oh agreed he did a great job i just will need a long time to detox from his role here so i can actually watch him again, lol. I did not mean to insinuate that you condone the direction or actions of the character i was just saying this in general. However thanks again for making that distinction clearer.

Yeah fuck this writer, he is the worst in too many regards. The director should go on a personal blacklist too, tho. Here is to see the actors in much better roles going forward. Seeing this was AJH's comeback drama he deserves better, lol.
Replying to Ilovedramas Sep 9, 2023
I really want to see how this drama will end. I can not wait to click on my completed button ๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ˜ฉ. Looking…
Can't wait to return to 2023 with Uee's weekend drama, bc TRHC has been backwards af and downright misogynistic in too many regards, like it takes place in the 1945. Never will trust a male writer for a weekender again.
Replying to moonchild Sep 8, 2023
Once again, I don't get genres at MDL... There is comedy, but it shouldn't be the first tag, as there is way more…
The order of genres does not say anything about order of importance in the story. It is only just the order the tags were added heh
Replying to bloomingtide Sep 8, 2023
As it should be for this literal shit show.
yep, you and me both. The sunk cost fallacy got us all good with that one, sigh.
Replying to bloomingtide Sep 8, 2023
Lemme repeat myself as i feel this is needed:Pity? Pity, my ass. Just goes to show how the biased af narrative…
Yep. I keep thinking about how BN APOLOGIZED to this demon instead the other way around, and it boils my blood every time this intrusive thought pops up in my head. Like shithead she is never taking any accountability. Collective amnesia for the characters and viewers as this inept writer turd hammers the reset button, wheeee.

Oh and you can be sure that Jangho is gonna bite the dust to make her see the errors of her ways (lol) since i have seen there was shooting going on in a temple lately. So that is nice, something to look forward to, indeed๐Ÿคฎ
Replying to Kathryn_51 Sep 8, 2023
Jung Eui Jae (the actor) is doing great in his first main role - I'm glad the writer/director finally gave him…
Oh sure, but actor and character are two different entities. The actor did a great job, but the character himself is the greatest piece of shit. If he wanted to play a broader range he should have been required to pick another role, bc this sudden nicest man who did nothing wrong act is the fakest shit ever. The way this writer turd made him to a changed man thru two bottles of magic alcohol, i feel we need to add the fantasy genre to this crappy show. And yes given everything this abusive shithead has done for 25 eps or so, this is way worse than the magic hugs (which were shit too, mind)
Replying to bloomingtide Sep 7, 2023
Lemme repeat myself as i feel this is needed:Pity? Pity, my ass. Just goes to show how the biased af narrative…
Well said. Not a complete list of course, so lemme help. This is from the top of my head alone so it is not in chronological order. I am sure if i were to go back and rewatch (which i won't ever lol) i would find more.

-found greatest joy in humiliating TK in making him kneel in front of him and apologize in the tea-house, and that after he assaulted him first in the bathroom during that golf event.
-He also stalked YD's fam every day FOR A YEAR, leaving unsolicited gifts (โœ” on a stalker trait list) and harassed them with constant phone calls, and trespassed into their home several times
-fanned the flames of suspicion regarding the paternity to achieve YD being thrown out of the Gong family and being isolated to make her crawl back to him
-He nearly caused YD to lose the baby with the whole duress he put her under due to the anon post. Something he was conscious of for five hot minutes, before doubling down in harassment again to make her "come back to him"
He openly threatened YD's mother when she refused to do as he said and blackmailed her he would ruin YD . Twice.
-Gaslit YD after caught cheating to shift the blame of it onto her (bc she took too long or something) Also belittled her and generally talked down to her in their breakup talk. (I grew bored of it/you etc) also the whole "it took ages to get with you to second base" thing which yiiiiiiiiikes. Not to mention that he he started the affair with the other demon right after sleeping with her, basically. Use and discard, as narcissist and abuser do.
- When getting YD his obsession shifted to the child as a means to control her, make her feel unsafe with constant threats to take Haneul away, if she does not come back to him and does as he says.
- used granny as a means to get haneul and to push TK out of the family, so YD would be isolated or just for the sake of it to make their lives a living nightmare. Which he very much enjoyed and gloated about.
- refused the offer of visitation rights from YD instead escalated everything to the world's most pointless custody suit, again as a means to control YD and punishment for her not obeying and out of spite for TK
- never once apologized and took accountability for any of of these things on this long list.

But sure tell me again how one minute of crying in the dark redeems this demon and makes him worthy of pity/empathy. And how he did all of that just because "he felt lonely and misunderstood."
Replying to Dylan Rodrigues Sep 7, 2023
fr tried at least two weekend dramas and I always got burned. but I might try for Uee...
Ah, i see. Can't speak about that one have not seen it yet. But there ARE good older family dramas too, which are good and stay good all the way thru unlike TRHC lol
Replying to Dylan Rodrigues Sep 7, 2023
fr tried at least two weekend dramas and I always got burned. but I might try for Uee...
What was the other one outside of trainwreck TRHC?
On Destined with You Sep 7, 2023
Title Destined with You Spoiler
Some may call it filler but you also need those slower story bits where you pause and let things breathe, especially in regards of the leads' feelings and thoughts. Let THEM marinade in it, and see progress made, however small afterwards. Those quiet character moments in between the usual spell/drunk SY/love square madness that brings them closer and that was really done well in eps 6. You can say that alcohol served as a truth potion for SY, as it removed his prickly defense and left him bare. And oof that scene, i felt that. Hongjo felt it too. This goes way past the love potion, for sure. It seems to me that SY was never in love before, and now feels the full brunt of it, heightened by the love potion sure, but it is more than that. I knew that and told ya that "what is real and what is fake" is one of the central themes here and it was proven today. Already we have SY questioning if it is really the spell or himself heh.

In fact, they are both developing feelings at this point. Hong-jo isn't trying to stop Shin-yu every time he says he's missing her anymore. She is glad to be missed, At some point, she started to miss him too, and she's aware of it now, even if she is still denying it verbally.

Both actors are doing a phenomenal job with the small subtle emotions and microexpressions. The chemistry is soooo chemistring and the way they look at each other has definitely changed. And if that is just a fake kiss daaaamn then how is the real one gonna be? I also love how Rowoon shines in physical comedy, his drunk bit on the ground was hilarious "I am scared of buuuuugs" :( ๐Ÿ˜‚ And his different versions of GET IT TOGETHER SY!!! feel like a challenge by now to package it anew each time hahaa. Plus the whole bit with the dog and the "paw" had me hollering. Hongjo trained Shinyu really good, a loser puppy indeed ๐Ÿถ๐Ÿ˜‚

I really am put off by SML tho. He acts like a scorned lover, is butting in where he should not bc she is neither your gf least of all your wife. And yet he acts if tho she is cheating on him with SY. The amount of entitlement is staggering and very creepy. Back up dude, this is so frikking weird. But that ending, daaaaaamn. Here is hoping SY does end things with that narcissistic SFL cretin next week. His reunion with her was only a kneejerk reaction to the whole forced destiny thing to begin with anyway. I think things are maybe not much, but quite a bit clearer where he stands and it is not on SFL's side, no matter how hard she grabs and claws around his arm ( ๐Ÿ˜ฌ)
Replying to Akashi Sep 7, 2023
I see people talking about SML syndrome and stuff, but that man acts weird af, like he rejected her, then he moves…
Yeah he is all kinds of "off" Creepy may be too strong a description but it ain't far from that anymore tbh. He acts like her husband and that she is cheating on him with SY which is so frikkin weird. Like back several steps up my dude, you are being way too much.
Replying to Aymen Sep 7, 2023
During these months of me watching TRHC, I've hated Kim JunHa aLOT.....But when I saw him cry for HaNeul, I seriously…
Lemme repeat myself as i feel this is needed:

Pity? Pity, my ass. Just goes to show how the biased af narrative is manipulating you into thinking ooooh poooor man, so alone, so orphan while completely whitewashing any and every of his many heinous acts done without any rue.

Fact is...JH was adopted as a new born which means he never went through discomfort or bullying because he was adopted. He's just finding out as an adult, & instead of processing that, he's going after his agenda to destroy TK for his ego. He's using his feet to step on his blessings. He and his sister went through the same family setting. Imagine that his sister knew he was adopted & still saw him getting loved on by both parents more than her. That's how much he was loved. If one of them has to lose their shit, it's her, not him. He grew up in a good home.

Tk is the one to be pitied. He grew up without a dad & the family he got into later was like a den of dangerous animals. Imagine that till date he & his mother aren't even in the family portrait. About 18 years of being a family & still nothing. JH deserves no one's understanding. JH is just a narcissistic piece of shit teemed in entitlement that he is owned everything, incapable of self reflection and empathy with the biggest victim mentality and delusion of grandeur. He has never, not even once apologized for ANYTHING he has done. Quite the opposite, he felt and feels completely justified to act the way he did to reach his goals, no matter what. As i said, a textbook narcissist and abuser. Those kind of rotten people never change. So don't tell me how "good a guy" he is just because he cried a minute in the dark.
Replying to yukata Sep 7, 2023
i felt so bad for him i cried a lot . He has still a good heart He didn't felt loved before that s why he acted…
This is satire, right? Please tell me you are joking. Because otherwise, fucking yikes talk about excusing domestic abuse just like the manipulative narrative wants you to bc whaaaa poor lonely man could not help himself than being a creepy shithead who stalked, harassed, threatened and made life hell for YD and her family for a YEAR and, but he is a good guy underneath i swear. YIKES. Please employ an ounce of critical thinking when consuming media, i beg you.

To quote Crissydiva:

People seems to think abuse is just physical when thatโ€™s just a step in escalation of abusive behavior with murder being final step. The way the writer and some viewers seem ok for him to skate on this and even trying to justify his behavior when he had a better upbringing than TK. ๐Ÿ™„ And no, even if you have a shitty upbringing, you wonโ€™t get a free pass from me. Life is about choices you make. Not everybody turns into human trash. So miss me with the bullshit!
Replying to bloomingtide Sep 7, 2023
idk how far you are in, but if you are not far in, drop, as it won't get any better and even worse in the second…
AJH does a great job with Taekyung here but sadly his character is the punching bag of the narrative so all green flags in spite it is not worth sticking to the quite good first half since the latter one is abysmal bad in all regards. Once again is the much better choice here.
Replying to bloomingtide Sep 7, 2023
If TRHC has been your first long and family drama I definitely understand that opinion but there are much better…
Thanks for the rec I think I have it already on my ever-growing watchlist ๐Ÿ˜
On My Lovely Boxer Sep 7, 2023
Kinda interesting how a quite a few of the currently airing dramas have FL's crushing on and pursuing SML at first (with SML being only mildly interested at best) and ML is the one slow-burning his way in (to her heart) Instead of SML crushing on FL while she only has eyes for ML. Outside of this lovely show here, we have also Behind Your Touch and Destined With You following that pattern. Is this gonna be a 'new trope'? ๐Ÿค”