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Oh it is frustrating alright. It is frustrating for me too when i am just unable to get the damn words out that i want to say at times and end up saying nothing at all, and it is frustrating for SH too, bc he said "do you think i like being like this?" to sangjin. But at this point he was already caught in the what if spiral "what if i am just a bother... what if she wants to get back with him and she only thanked me out of gratitude." It really is a catch 22 and not easy to get out of anymore.

I got better with it personally with reflecting on the probability of that exact effect to happen I imagined (learned in therapy) , but it still remains a struggle for me at times. 🙃

Haha, indeed. They are a good match, because i think Bora can tickle him out his headspace before he sinks too much into it. Since she challenges him instead to accept it just like that.

Yep, basically. That is a good addition to the reply i gave above your post. As a fellow overthinking introvert the more time passes on an issue the harder it gets to act, because then you basically have found already a million reasons to why it won't work/why you should not do this etc, lol.

Yeah, i am sadly too in the team overthinking for life, whoops. So i know exactly how that is/feels, that dreaded decision paralysis. Doesn't mean SH is cold-hearted, calculating or anything, quite the opposite... he feels deeply, very much so. But he keeps it all to himself out of fear of hurt/rejection, out of the million hypothetical reasons that get added the longer he thinks about what could happen. It is a struggle to get out of your own head sometimes and just say the things out loud, and gosh do i know that myself.

Ngl, just yesterday my more extroverted friend told me that i need to express my feelings better/more readily so she knows when somethings is up, i am not feeling well etc, but yeeeeah it is a struggle, as said. Needless to mention, SH is my spirit animal, i understand him too well, whoops😂

Honestly, after seeing eps 13 and the first part of 14, the ego is definitely not Soohyuk's problem. More like being introvert to a fault that he overthinks every single step he makes and is in effect rendered motionless as conclusion. He is so afraid to make a mistake and get hurt or worse hurt others, he ends up doing nothing at all. It is kinda scary how much i can relate to him as a fellow introvert. Whoops.

But yeah, now gonna watch the rest of the last episode first, lol. Just needed to mention it because it ain't pride with him, it is fear.

Yeeeees. His breakdown scene in the basement where he is tricked to think something happened to his wife still lives rent-free in my head several months later after watching it. So so so so good.

It is not scary, tho. Way more humorous and funny than scary, nothing graphic or even close to it. It has some few and far creepy parts regarding the big bad, but that's it. (they are well skippable without missing much if these few scenes are too creepy for you) The ghosts are very wholesome, funny found family crew around ML, and not scary at all. It is a very lighthearted drama with heartfelt, somber moments and a well done slow burn lead romance. combining their past and present.

Yep, they do, instead of, you know hating failwitch for stalking him. It is not him seeking her out and he barely tolerates her in a "keep the enemy close" kind of way.

2) it was a chance meeting and she left such a deep impression on him that he remembers it still years later. But nothing beyond that happened so even if he was with Yuri, which i think he was, calling it cheating is eeeeeh. I mean they did not even talk. It is like saying cheating is looking at celebrity pics online (bc they look pretty) while being in a relationship. It is silly.

Emotional cheating exists, of course, but for this it takes more than a look/moment, however impressive it was.

FR, all of the side couples are annoying and/or boring

He watched and waited after saying it to her. So I rather think he gauged her reaction and determined she wasn't comfortable with it. Hence why he retracted it.

It had been 8.3 for a long time tho (already) So it only dropped 0,1 point 🤷‍♀️

https://kisskh.at/743119-the-real-thing-appears

u can watch it on viki. 18 eps out, right now.

Since we are slowly nearing the weekend again, albeit at snails pace, have a friendly reminder that loony luna still does not know that the supposed gotcha messages she found/read on YD's phone are a) from the guy she had an affair with, b) he is the guy who cheated on YD c) that these messages are bygone news, since it was brought up before by tattlecow who, well, tattled on her about it to the whole fam at dinner.

And clownie thinks she has some real evidence and hot off the press incriminating info about YD being unfaithful to TK, or something, hahahaha omg. Oh the irony of that is so delicious and hilarious 😂

(I really don't get how anyone can take this discount failwitch seriously 🤣)

Definitely agree here, but tbh i just don't care for them enough, neither their story-arc nor characters, to get worked up about it. As the drama went on i skipped their scenes more and more in fact, lol

Taekyung also played that uno reverse card on manic manipulator and dryly replied "Yeondoo won't misunderstand something like that." as she suggested very suggestively not to tell YD that she picked out the cake with him, because "she could misunderstand it."

And i loved that 😂

Yeah, but she can still call him for the job tho and with how much she is hustling to get away from the gong house and TK atm, this could happen soon. Even if not, her mother goes to that school so either she will hear something, or YD will visit there for her mom and run into him or something. The blocking the number was just a temporary narrative fix for an otherwise too easy to be solved conflict (uncovering two-faced toddlers lies) and won't last long/forever.

health problems

I appreciate the bg infos you give here in regards of SK from someone living there and knowing way better about your country than we could from the outside. Thank you for this, but i also think you are wasting your time in engaging a person who thinks trump was a good and sound of mind president, lmao.

I agree, the man doesn't have to do so every time. But here in this story it is an important element of ML overcoming his past etc in stepping up to the task and fess up.