Guyi's mom is the best relationship coach EVER (esp. as a fictional mom character, probably the best I've ever…
Also: FUCK cancer!!!!!! I usually can't watch cancer-themed stories anymore esp. if they're at a final stage (incurable/inoperable) 'coz it oftentimes triggers me due to my hubby having survived cancer/surgery/chemo, but this time around there are so many beautiful lines/scenes coming from Guyi's mom that I don't want to miss.
TMI: Guyi's half-drunk tirade when she was sick in front of the CCTV reminded me of how awful I felt when I was having a fever and on the way to the doctor after having my first breakup. I wasn't that crazy in love with the guy, but still I was heartbroken enough. In my feverish state when I crossed the road, I felt a lot of pain in my heart that I wished to be hit by a car. Not that I wanted to die, mind you. It's just that sometimes you feel so much pain inside that you wish to be physically hurt so that you'd be able to divert the attention of that pain in your heart.
My second breakup was different, because I lashed out towards people around me and I was gloomy and sad for a while he he he...
It was her birthday, she was excited because he was finally the one suggesting the meet-up at his place after a lot of silence treatment. She went there and found out he had changed his door passcode. When she was walking away angry, she kept asking him about the passcode door change.
Granted, it's his right to do so, but it also showed how he drew his boundaries when it came to their relationship. She used to be able to get in and out of his place easily. There he was, he confessed his feelings and even kissed her, but then drew this kind of boundary. For me personally, I'd be confused and frustrated as heck...do you want me to be in or out of your life? And it just had to happen on her birthday on top of that. It'd probably be better if he hadn't confessed and just kept his distance.
She is lucky to have someone who is patient and can understand her. It is most definitely not you (or anyone else).I'm…
Or bears ha ha ha...I have a different mindset on friendship now compared to when I was young. I also have a different mindset now on my expectations towards my inner circle compared to when I was young. Back then I was much more idealistic. It's good to get to know different people as I learn more things along the way.
The push-and-pull of LDW reminds me of a friend of mine. She can be really close to someone (spending a lot of…
I liked what Gu Yi's mom said to her, about how she wouldn't understand how LDW felt because she didn't know his pain. That's true. Nobody can fully understand what another person is truly going through. On the other hand, though, I can also relate to Gu Yi's frustration over this pull-and-pull aspect. For me personally, I'd want to be given the chance to go through the hard times with my loved ones instead of being pushed away over and over again (because the other person is afraid of being a burden). But I also understand LDW's stance. He just starts to be able to feel again after all these years...from the age of 10 until 29 he couldn't feel much. All in all, my point is: I'm hurting for both parties. 💔 💔 💔
The push-and-pull of LDW reminds me of a friend of mine. She can be really close to someone (spending a lot of time with them etc.) but then there will be a moment when she feels "suffocated" and then she'll pull away almost completely, staying away as much as she can. I had never met someone like this before, so it took me A LOT of time to adjust to this style of friendship. I told her that sometimes it felt like she had to go to her own cave and "hibernate" for a while and then she'd come back out when she was ready. In the beginning whenever she pulled away, it always made me think there was something wrong with me, although after getting to know her better, I realized that wasn't the case.
Yeah, if Lin Yi isn't adorable himself, SML may just make me smitten he he he he...the way he comforted FL was…
Well, SML is working at the same office as her, so he got the news faster than ML. FL also has other male friends in the Ounce club that are platonic friends.
I'm getting addicted with every OST of this drama OMG! I just can't get them out of my brain!
DITTTOOOOOO!!!!!!! I don't normally listen to opening or closing OSTs 'coz I wanna jump straight to the drama, but for this drama, I would even listen to them over and over again he he...
My second breakup was different, because I lashed out towards people around me and I was gloomy and sad for a while he he he...
Granted, it's his right to do so, but it also showed how he drew his boundaries when it came to their relationship. She used to be able to get in and out of his place easily. There he was, he confessed his feelings and even kissed her, but then drew this kind of boundary. For me personally, I'd be confused and frustrated as heck...do you want me to be in or out of your life? And it just had to happen on her birthday on top of that. It'd probably be better if he hadn't confessed and just kept his distance.