the thing is, couvade syndrome really happens sometimes. some men really get morning sickness, not instead of…
I get it, but dramas aren't real life. my point of view is "as long as it is possible, I let it pass." because I watch dramas for unlikely and weird things to watch. otherwise I could just visit my neighbors...
I dont get why many people hate Soo Jung getting screentime. Her and her found father's scenes are what I am really…
and above all, their story is the main story of this drama. She who loses her father is the reason why both families exist in the first place. Nothing would have existed if those two hadn’t gotten lost and reunited.
I'm enjoying the drama overall, but lemme just say how much I HATE the trope that the husband gets morning sickness…
the thing is, couvade syndrome really happens sometimes. some men really get morning sickness, not instead of their wife like it is often said, but at the same time. it's a psychological response when the father is completely engaged in the pregnancy. korean people see it like something romantic but that's a mental issue, same as false pregnancy in women.
I really don't like the first son's couple, but this one is not something I can criticize because it really can happen to anyone.
ep 47 so old daddy will not be able to give his liver to sooj neither. I am very sad for mirae too because she don't know what is happening and she will keep asking things to her mom and hurt her...
narcissistic haej stroke again:
"don't ask to your mother in law to babysit your child, ask only to your mom because I don't have a mom." so now, haej not having a mom become everyone's problem but her... the parents give medicine to their son having couvade syndrome, and she wants to drink it too...
BUT I am so happy she cornered kae with the babysitting thing. this is clearly a narcissist's move, but kae deserved that so much!
so now let's see if mirae's baby will be a warrior and hang in there. this shabby grand-ma just threw everybody's efforts away again!
I really loved protective hjae! isn't he cute when he takes care of mirae?
Hae Jun has always been like that, actually. She's acting the same way towards Yoon Jae's mother as she did with…
@MiHnn you are right. that's the comparison between the 2 couples, being in the same situation, and acting soooo differently that hurt the most. you have no choice but recognize that haej is a bad person. very smart explanation!
I really like this show but from the last few episodes, I feel the writers are trying their hardest to make Haejun…
haej has always been like that. you just didn't notice. she shows multiple signs of narcissism from the very beginning. re-watch the show and you'll see it clearly now that you noticed it.
every time I said she was being narcissistic I was told that "she is just more assertive because she is a self-made woman"... yeah you wish.
There could be high possibilities that she might have to give up on the baby if she will be the match for the…
I don't agree with you. everybody is responsible about his/her own health. if sooj is ill, it's because sooj messed up. period. a baby is responsible of nothing before being born. and his life has the same value as anyone else's life no matter the age (in my opinion, as long as the mother wanted the baby). as the mother, mirae is responsible of protecting the baby. as the father, hjae is responsible of protecting the baby. it's their duty.
even if emotional mirae can be manipulated to give up on the baby, hjae will NEVER do that. this is absolutely not in this character's state of mind. so this will never happen. never.
as sooj herself said in the last episode, hjae only look after his home way before looking after his family. and she said it was very good for mirae that her husband wants to protect their home before the extended family.
hjae will blow the city in flames before someone kills his baby. family or not.
There could be high possibilities that she might have to give up on the baby if she will be the match for the…
I don't know if medical law is the same in korea, but in france you cannot give any of your organ at a family member without the receiver's agreement. the doctor will seek the receiver's agreement before taking out any organ on his/her family member. so if the mother say no, mirae wont be able to do anything. that's why I only focused on sooj's agreement.
There could be high possibilities that she might have to give up on the baby if she will be the match for the…
I don't think mirae's mother will agree to sacrifice the life of her own grand child in order to stay alive. she has found her family, there also are the annoying great aunt's children who can match with her.
I have to say something though: they really suck in English! I mean, I don’t really speak either, I have to check on Google Translate every time I post something, speaking English doesn’t come to me naturally, but, if I had to learn a few lines and repeat them, I can manage to look like someone who actually speaks English. But K people do have problems with that language...
I only watched 5 min of episode 46 and I am already mad at haejun...(ep 46 spoiler under)
am I the only one who like kae? the boys' mother. she really is a nice step mother, especially regarding korean's standards
I laughed so much when hjae knew about mirae giving the pass code to the 2 mothers! hahaha! this is one of these times you realize you are now married!
and now kae is the one who feels uncomfortable around yuna! seriously! she shouldn't have done that if she was going to be ashamed afterwards!
in moment like this, I can't help but think that it would have been so much better if sooj made the first health control with her husband in the beginning of the drama. the cancer would have been smaller. so many adopted children do that mistake, it breaks my heart!
yes she is boomer. because of her, pregnant hjae and mirae were worried instead of being thrilled. because of her, the 2 pregnancies announcement went wrong. she is a boomer.
korean people see it like something romantic but that's a mental issue, same as false pregnancy in women.
I really don't like the first son's couple, but this one is not something I can criticize because it really can happen to anyone.
so old daddy will not be able to give his liver to sooj neither. I am very sad for mirae too because she don't know what is happening and she will keep asking things to her mom and hurt her...
narcissistic haej stroke again:
"don't ask to your mother in law to babysit your child, ask only to your mom because I don't have a mom."
so now, haej not having a mom become everyone's problem but her...
the parents give medicine to their son having couvade syndrome, and she wants to drink it too...
BUT I am so happy she cornered kae with the babysitting thing. this is clearly a narcissist's move, but kae deserved that so much!
so now let's see if mirae's baby will be a warrior and hang in there. this shabby grand-ma just threw everybody's efforts away again!
I really loved protective hjae! isn't he cute when he takes care of mirae?
you are right it's super cheesy.... I too am lactose intolerant event though I love cheese very much so now I have a beginning stomach ache...
you are right. that's the comparison between the 2 couples, being in the same situation, and acting soooo differently that hurt the most. you have no choice but recognize that haej is a bad person.
very smart explanation!
or, if you need summaries go to "recent discussions" and read this one:
https://kisskh.at/discussions/now-is-beautiful/73583-do-you-want-to-comment-on-current-episodes
every time I said she was being narcissistic I was told that "she is just more assertive because she is a self-made woman"... yeah you wish.
everybody is responsible about his/her own health. if sooj is ill, it's because sooj messed up. period.
a baby is responsible of nothing before being born. and his life has the same value as anyone else's life no matter the age (in my opinion, as long as the mother wanted the baby).
as the mother, mirae is responsible of protecting the baby. as the father, hjae is responsible of protecting the baby. it's their duty.
even if emotional mirae can be manipulated to give up on the baby, hjae will NEVER do that. this is absolutely not in this character's state of mind.
so this will never happen.
never.
as sooj herself said in the last episode, hjae only look after his home way before looking after his family. and she said it was very good for mirae that her husband wants to protect their home before the extended family.
hjae will blow the city in flames before someone kills his baby. family or not.
I mean, I don’t really speak either, I have to check on Google Translate every time I post something, speaking English doesn’t come to me naturally, but, if I had to learn a few lines and repeat them, I can manage to look like someone who actually speaks English. But K people do have problems with that language...
I laughed so much when hjae knew about mirae giving the pass code to the 2 mothers! hahaha! this is one of these times you realize you are now married!
and now kae is the one who feels uncomfortable around yuna! seriously! she shouldn't have done that if she was going to be ashamed afterwards!
in moment like this, I can't help but think that it would have been so much better if sooj made the first health control with her husband in the beginning of the drama. the cancer would have been smaller. so many adopted children do that mistake, it breaks my heart!
(ep 46 spoiler under)