Dorothy W Wong

Lots of loud music and missing sound throughout the drama - on/off - which is quite frustrating - I wished there was a better version of this drama somewhere else - that's not missing sounds or has lots of loud music in it.

Also, we have Shen Hao Nan - making cameo appearances on/off in the drama too.

The drama I watched and posted on Wang Dao Tie's ML - though a lot of loud music in it and missing sounds here and there throughout the drama.

Thanks for sharing and understanding on how I feel on things like this too.

Yes, tragedies and deaths happen on a daily basis - things that we cannot control. But as long as we trust in God, things will get better. Though it may not be easier, but still at least we can carry onwards. Our time here on earth are but precious, we can't take anything for granted - whether it be the ones we treasure the most or animals or even the planet itself - we must learn to take care each and every one of them. Whether we like it or not - including our enemies. We may not like them. We can forgive them if they hurt us, but we can't forget what they did to us. Since God has forgiven ours, we too must learn to forgive others.

The pain of losing many people in our lives will never be easy, and I slowly learn to get through them and push onwards. Living each day as best as I can, fulfilling, without regrets as much as I can.

朱一未💕周可兒《陸總夫人野又甜》- Zhu Yiwei 💕 Zhou Ke'er in "Mrs. Lu is Wild and Sweet"

This is one of the drama - that's not acted with his wife.

Yes, I know that type of love too. I too am a Christian too, God has been kind enough for me to get through that difficult time of my mom's passing. Sadly, she wasn't a Christian - nor were the rest of my family members (direct) - only a few of my relatives on my mom's side of hers, were.

Yes, unconditional love aka agape love is the hardest to learn and show to others. Others take it for granted - the "love" that the world desires but do not understand well. The FL's character in the drama and my mom's turns out to be more selfish, than of the "true love" she believes (FL) to have. Sadly this type of "love" is more prideful, hurtful, painful, regretful for the others, and everything else in between. Whereas the husband's (ML) - he truly loves her - and wants to be part of her life - to protect her, care for her, try to understand her, etc - close to agape kind of love - yet the FL - instead for the past 4 months before the ML found out after she collapsed due to her health declining super fast - it hurts him the most and all those who knew her.

As for my mom's situation - her side of the family - after my mom's death - took 1 full year of anger - at us all (my family) - it took a long time to rebuild that relationship again b/w my relatives and my family - through me. It wasn't easy nor pleasant at all. But I understood their pain and our pain too. To this day - the pain of losing her is still with me. Have I let go of her passing completely. No, not exactly - not 100% - but more than enough to not feel the pain/hurt of losing her after 14 yrs. Aside from her, I have a lot of others close to me - both of my grandparents on both sides of the family had passed away; my uncle on my dad's side of the family passed away last year. One of my best friend passed away when she was young (at the age of 32) suddenly w/o warning. Then, I had many friends over the years that passed away or many of my favorite actors/actresses too. Anyways, life and death comes hand in hand - never easy to accept but it's one thing that we have to face in reality - as you said - life is fleeting, we are but a grain of sand/dust on this earth - our time is short and we need to treasure every single moment of it.

Therefore, I wished that the FL learned that earlier and not till her last 2 months of her life - were she able to spend some quality time with her husband before her impeding death.

All the links don't work -- anywhere I can watch this with hard Eng subs?

none of the links work - any new links to watch it somewhere?

Any details about this drama?!? Any other links to watch this drama too?

links don't work anymore.

I see. Thanks for the clarification - that made a bit more sense now.

Ya, glad you see my point of view with this drama - the way the FL kept pushing him away all the time make me feel frustrated and selfish. Not only that - it does hurt when you leave something like that kind of news to the last minute - esp to our loved ones. She should've treasured every single minute and second of her life left with him - create more precious memories with him, treasure every time they have left with each other more. We only live once and our lives are but a fleeting time here on earth. We are but a grain of sand/salt on this earth, nothing more than that. She literally wasted her precious time helping others but not putting any effort in her relationship with the one she actually supposed to love. Like seriously girl -- if you really love him, you tell him the truth - you tell all your loved ones the truth - not hide it! I don't like people like that at all -- it's makes the other person live with regrets and hate themselves b/c of it all.

I understand tragedies - esp losing ones that l love and care about - my mom passed away 14 yrs ago due to a rare disease - no cure, worst than cancer or leukemia. Once she found out what she had, she left the hospital and went back home to use - to spend the remaining days of her life with us family - even if it was difficult to take care of her w/o anyone else's help. But one sticking matter for me - was still she hid the truth from her own family members and my dad's family members too (my relatives). It was too painful to hear when they found out she passed away - her own parents were mad at my family for not telling them - but I couldn't say so, b/c of my mom's stubbornness. She wouldn't even have an in-house nurse to help take care of her. Leaving the burden of us direct family members to take care of her - and my brother being out of the country work - was also left out until too late too. What's worst was that her pride = made her hide all her other health problems from us kids too. We didn't know until after her death - and I was so frustrated and angry with her for a period of time after her death - and made me regret many things too with her as well.

Therefore, people like these - some times I honestly don't understand their minds anymore. They rather suffer in pain in silence rather than sharing the pain with the ones they loved - causing more pain and misunderstandings than necessary. The FL's family were in so much pain after finding out what she had - when she cough up blood and fainted in the ML's arm in the palace. To the point where her own mom fainted from hearing the truth/news of her own daughter's condition! As well as the father's pain too along with the ML's and others as well. Seriously, that was not nice at all. I feel pity for all those who knew her - who didn't know about her condition and situation until too late. Made me so frustrated and mad at the FL instead. Sigh.

Omg - such a beautiful yet tragic drama - very sad - I literally cry buckets of tears - even though I was warned that it was a sad drama - I couldn't help but watch it b/c I like these two as a couple in real life -- in a sad drama together... :(

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The hardest fact was the one who came into the story of theirs (a transmigrator) - was supposedly have more power to fix things - but sadly she couldn't do much either - even with the so-called "system" b/c sadly it was set that way - that the Empress can't live (predestined life) long.

The last 2 months of the Empress' life was well spent with the Emperor - letting go his position temporary to spend time away from the palace together before she passes away - although it took a long time before the Emperor found out his lover/best friend/sister/Empress' was sick with no cure at all - by the time he did find out, he did everything he could to save her - but still couldn't - the only way the make the time that was left of hers was to spend it with her - doing his best to fill some of her wishes together before she dies. When she did die -- obviously this is where I cried the most nonstop along with the Emperor and everyone too in the palace - who loved her too including her parents and the kids she took care of at the orphanage/special education center.

After her passing, he (the Emperor) made the one the Empress' liked to take on her role as a Empress together - to fulfill her last remaining wishes together for 10 yrs.

One part I didn't quite get was the final minute or so - of the ending - when the Emperor walked to the plum/cherry blossoms place - where he and the past Empress tied the red ribbon together on the tree - they made a promised that whenever he make a mistake, after reflecting on the problem - she would pick (FL) him up - but suddenly the ribbon blew off the tree and onto the ground - and when he went after it - he met her (FL) again. @.@ I'm so confused - did she get reborn? or was he hallucinating/imaging her? I'm sure that he's not sick or on the verge of death yet -- so why suddenly after 10 yrs he saw her again - they both picked up the ribbon - faced each other - and sort of smiled, and then boom, it finishes there?!? So odd an ending (OE or HE or SE)?!?

Anyways, many life lessons learnt from this story/drama - treasure those who are important to you - don't live with regrets - you only live once - for tomorrow we'll never know what will happen/guaranteed - live in the now and spend your time wisely. leave a legacy behind if you can. Take care of yourselves - have good health - as money, wealth and power are useless to anyone if you end up with poor health.

Shout to all the actors/actresses in this drama - well done everyone - esp to the 2 main leads of the story.

OK, I watched it -- and still somewhat confused about the ending - didn't she returned back to her real world - where he was (the real him) - Lu Jingming ? So, why suddenly when they were being interviewed in front of everyone - and then it jump suddenly back to the other world that she was in -- and back with the other Lu Jingming (or is it the same person - not sure)?!? @.@ so confused! Anyone care to explain what's going on?

no problem!

When you have 2 actors with the same name - makes it confusing at times. But if we look carefully, of course we know there's a difference b/w the two. May be they need an extra name to differentiate between the 2 of them?!?

I agree - I think it's the other Xu Kai Xin - it's hilarious that there are two actors with the same name - it get's confusing at times. They need a different name somehow in order to differentiate themselves.

Thanks for the links! Appreciated! Finally can watch it with proper sounds in it! OK, nvm - the bibilili link one still has loud music in it. :( But I think the YT link is ok...

thanks for the info and links!

The Plot written here is totally incorrect and wrong - from what I watch of season 1 & 2, that was not the case at all! It was totally a comedy for them both!

ya quite sad that there's not a lot of dramas being posted - with real actors/actresses in them. I used to follow another YT channel - but I notice that they're not around anymore. Quite disappointing to be honest. I totally dislike A.I. drama crap - they're emotionless and can't make a viewer like me connect with them at all. Boring and lame to be honest. I want all the real actors/actresses back - filming dramas again!! I want more channels to air their dramas again!! Stop using A.I. crap! Makes the drama viewing experience very horrible and immature! It's like an immature film-maker taking so much shortcuts in filming something!! I demand directors stop making these garbage A.I. dramas! or even adding them to the current real actors/actresses dramas!! The A.I./doll stuff ruin the mood!