Dorothy W Wong

She has the biggest motive to kill her own sister. She didn't even cry for her ... Makes no sense to me at all.

True! She has the biggest motive to kill her own sister for personal gain.

I read somewhere that not only he's a schemer, manipulative, etc ... But that his whole family is like that too. Esp the mom...

Well after watching ep 12 today - looks like Fang Lei may be actually the one who killed her sister - and make it sound like she died in an accident while diving. Because base on the episode - she made Shen Hao Ming not be able to celebrate his wife's bday and threaten him by saying "I'll die and go to my sister" - preventing him from leaving her - cause technically I believe that she's really mental ill and messed up - needs to go to the mental hospital jail instead of annoying him all the time - because one of the sentences that she (Fang Lei said - was why couldn't you wait for me to return?!?) - and he clearly show no love interest in her - yet - really there needs to be full boundaries away from her (who is very toxic and mentally unstable mindset). When we see HaoMing have a flashback in the washroom after getting home to his wife -- he obviously must've lost his ex-wife there and ask Fang Lei what had happened to her sister - how did she end up dying - looking at her facial expression - she show no care/proper mourning/heartbroken emotions on her face - when explaining the so-called details to him -- to me, this signifies that she may be the one who killed her own sister out of jealousy - because all she wants is him (HaoMing) to herself. She'll (Fang Lei) want to do anything to destroy others who gets in her way of being with him.

Therefore, I hope that HaoMing realizes that quickly and put her into a mental hospital jail - so that she won't cause harm to the FL or him or others too.

As for the FL -- she seems to be confront by her sister (real) - to tell HaoMing the truth about her past - she tries - but does it indirectly (a roundabout way) of letting him know. But as we the viewers can see - he already knew long ago - from the get-go that she was literally lying - and whether or not her truly loves her is another matter - will do anything to sorta protect that image that she built up, but at the same time can be destroy by him too. I mean he keeps on giving her expensive things - but to her she doesn't want those things - like most of you said - she wants love (pure loving love) - not tied to "money" or whatnot.

After watching the upcoming episode preview of 15 & 16 today, their pending divorce is going to happen in ep 15 - b/c she can't handle him anymore, rumors circulating around them both - and looks like she'll lose her broadcasting/new anchor job because of all the mess - and I'm curious who spread those news to her supervisor about it - my guess it's Sun Si Wei again or Fang Lei or her so-called biological parents -- whoever it is - this news got out - Xu Yan - is being told that there's rumors of her and her husband's trouble relationship/possible divorce looming over them both. That pushed her to decide to divorce him that night - and we hear him threatening her that if she leaves him, she'll lose everything that then "Shen family" gave to her - but obviously I see her eventually don't want any of those things at all. The fight they had in the ep 14 trailer already was getting to the point of "the tip of the iceberg" really to break real hard and fall apart - they'll finally fight/argue with one another - him blaming her for everything - but in actual fact most of it was his fault too - he's not being clean slate with his background too. Also, we don't see much of his son/brother anymore in drama for now too.

As well in ep 11 & 12 - we see her sense something was off a few times throughout the drama - she's wondering how did that Zhu guy suddenly end up in jail and her sister's ex-bf too - abrupt departure and the further we watch in terms of the previews - suddenly her sister's ex-bf is back again - causing annoyance and trouble too. Sigh.

We then see in ep 16 she's (Xu Yan) on her own doing the low side of work - livestreaming to sell goods (food online) - trying to make a living on her own - and on-the-other-side of the picture - after their split (Xu Yan and HaoMing) - HaoMing is seen to be in a major meeting of being voted in favor or not in favor to take over his dad's company?!?

Backtracking to ep 12 - also - I feel like HaoMing's dealings aren't completely clean too - cause the phone call he had while heading to the banquet - doesn't seem like a normal one either too.

It was the other lady that had her dress up and have her make up done by her staff I think.

He's more calculative than her - more manipulative/controlling than she is. His love isn't really love - more like a chess game - and controlling her like a puppet - he monitors her every moves and wants to use her for his benefit somehow - which is what we'll see in ep 14 when they are arguing - she confronts his problems, he confronts her (which he already knew from the get-go she had been lying) - yet has that audacity to blame all the other problems on her/brainwash her to think she's the only one who is wrong and not him! Hence where we are going to expect a divorce for them both - otherwise she will be hurt by him even more too. Worst than she can do to him.

can't view it properly.

they should split up - b/c Haoming is toxic - he wants to control the relationship from the very beginning - he already knew from the start that she was lying - and he used that against her literally in the episodes leading up to 14 (basing on the previews) - because he thinks she is easy to manipulate and naive about everything -- yet when she wants to fight back - he won't spill the beans about his past - he too has been lying all these times as well. He has been monitoring her all the time, like almost 24 hrs - know where she is - and whenever she seems to have her lies be spill out he so happens to be there to pull her out -- literally is a facade.

Not only that - the so-called little brother is no little brother - he said it's his son - which means he had gotten married (hidden marriage) in the past - the stalking annoying girl - Fang Lei's (my guess is either her son or her sister's son -- where her sister died and he was force to take care of the kid - hence why the parents for a long time and him to spend any time with him at all). Either way, he's literally a manipulator/control freak/put all the blame on her and gets mad at her - when he too can't be honest with her either. They need this divorce - otherwise he will continue to hurt her - not love her. She will be completely be destroy by him - b/c she already lacks love from her biological parents, been bullied at school and at work. She doesn't need to be bullied by him - either.

Yes she lied to him - but he already knew from the get-go - so why bring it up to her - when she confronted him about the kid and the ex-gf/wife/stalker girl?! Because it's getting out of his control and he wants to take back that control again - so he spill it all out on her - openly - which of course will hurt her more.

Either way - they need to get out of that toxic relationship - she needs to move away from him - and start over again - hopefully on a cleaner slate - hopefully her sister will help her get the divorce she needs from him and help/support her to become a better person.

As for him - Haoming also needs to learn to admit his wrongs too - and lies as well. Otherwise there's no way he can get back into her life - if that's where the story is supposed to be headed - if he doesn't change from the expect "divorce" from each other -- and learn from his mistakes - then I would definitely do not want to see them get back together.

Both needs psychological help - proper healing - proper love, proper respect from all - otherwise their relationship will be hard to mend - and future prospects of even loving anyone will be much more difficult too.

same here - they should split up - b/c Haoming is toxic - he wants to control the relationship from the very beginning - he already knew from the start that she was lying - and he used that against her literally in the episodes leading up to 14 (basing on the previews) - because he thinks she is easy to manipulate and naive about everything -- yet when she wants to fight back - he won't spill the beans about his past - he too has been lying all these times as well. He has been monitoring her all the time, like almost 24 hrs - know where she is - and whenever she seems to have her lies be spill out he so happens to be there to pull her out -- literally is a facade.

Not only that - the so-called little brother is no little brother - he said it's his son - which means he had gotten married (hidden marriage) in the past - the stalking annoying girl - Fang Lei's (my guess is either her son or her sister's son -- where her sister died and he was force to take care of the kid - hence why the parents for a long time and him to spend any time with him at all). Either way, he's literally a manipulator/control freak/put all the blame on her and gets mad at her - when he too can't be honest with her either. They need this divorce - otherwise he will continue to hurt her - not love her. She will be completely be destroy by him - b/c she already lacks love from her biological parents, been bullied at school and at work. She doesn't need to be bullied by him - either.

Yes she lied to him - but he already knew from the get-go - so why bring it up to her - when she confronted him about the kid and the ex-gf/wife/stalker girl?! Because it's getting out of his control and he wants to take back that control again - so he spill it all out on her - openly - which of course will hurt her more.

Either way - they need to get out of that toxic relationship - she needs to move away from him - and start over again - hopefully on a cleaner slate - hopefully her sister will help her get the divorce she needs from him and help/support her to become a better person.

As for him - Haoming also needs to learn to admit his wrongs too - and lies as well. Otherwise there's no way he can get back into her life - if that's where the story is supposed to be headed - if he doesn't change from the expect "divorce" from each other -- and learn from his mistakes - then I would definitely do not want to see them get back together.

Both needs psychological help - proper healing - proper love, proper respect from all - otherwise their relationship will be hard to mend - and future prospects of even loving anyone will be much more difficult too.

Both males (main ML and 2nd ML) are toxic and dangerous so to speak - as well as the 2 FL (the one who keeps on stalking the ML - Fang Lei) plus the annoying coworker of the FL's at her workplace - Sun Si Wei. Snobbish ASF person - all 4 of them should go to jail - as for the FL her life has never been perfect - because her biological parents - never been caring of her at all. Their focus was always on her older sister - and she was ignored - just how she explained it in ep 10 - about the so-called little brother of Haoming's (but in actual fact it's his son). That's why she was able to related well with the so-called little brother of Haoming and change the perspective/outlook of Haoming's parents and him too.

But whether or not he will change for the better - is yet to come/see - they need a divorce/counselling - psychological help - and move away from each other - for healing purposes - before/if ever they get back together -they really need a genuine loving clean heart to pursue it - otherwise both of the 2 main leads will continue to be hurt - esp the FL.

yet Haoming is also a liar himself too - he has so much secrets that are yet to be reveal - we don't know his secrets still. Only in recent previews we find out that the kid is actually not his brother - but his son. Then, there's is this annoying, stalking, manipulative girl around him all the time - Fang Lei.

As well, he's very manipulative, controlling too as well. From the preview of ep 14 - we see them arguing and him blaming her for not being honest with him - well, he knew she had been lying - so why drop the ball now? And when she confronts him of things - he avoids it and put all the blame on her for lying - like he's not?!? So, therefore, they need to be divorce -- not just because all of it had been a lie - but for the fact that his lies are even more greater and toxic towards her, that she needs to move on from the relationship, seek professional help (both of them actually needs it) and she move somewhere else in order to start afresh too.

If he truly loves her - he wouldn't use her, manipulate/monitor her - every move - like a chess piece/puppet. As what she said in the preview of ep 14 - he was using her for personal gain for his company or something like that, etc.

ya big time liar - fake company, wants to steal people's money (scam them upright) and wants to get away with it all. I hope he gets thrown into jail soon! Another toxic annoying 2 ML in the story - isn't the FL's life already toxic enough? Can she not find one moment of peace without having to deal with toxic people around her all the time?? Argh.

same here - they should split up - b/c Haoming is toxic - he wants to control the relationship from the very beginning - he already knew from the start that she was lying - and he used that against her literally in the episodes leading up to 14 (basing on the previews) - because he thinks she is easy to manipulate and naive about everything -- yet when she wants to fight back - he won't spill the beans about his past - he too has been lying all these times as well. He has been monitoring her all the time, like almost 24 hrs - know where she is - and whenever she seems to have her lies be spill out he so happens to be there to pull her out -- literally is a facade.

Not only that - the so-called little brother is no little brother - he said it's his son - which means he had gotten married (hidden marriage) in the past - the stalking annoying girl - Fang Lei's (my guess is either her son or her sister's son -- where her sister died and he was force to take care of the kid - hence why the parents for a long time and him to spend any time with him at all). Either way, he's literally a manipulator/control freak/put all the blame on her and gets mad at her - when he too can't be honest with her either. They need this divorce - otherwise he will continue to hurt her - not love her. She will be completely be destroy by him - b/c she already lacks love from her biological parents, been bullied at school and at work. She doesn't need to be bullied by him - either.

Yes she lied to him - but he already knew from the get-go - so why bring it up to her - when she confronted him about the kid and the ex-gf/wife/stalker girl?! Because it's getting out of his control and he wants to take back that control again - so he spill it all out on her - openly - which of course will hurt her more.

Either way - they need to get out of that toxic relationship - she needs to move away from him - and start over again - hopefully on a cleaner slate - hopefully her sister will help her get the divorce she needs from him and help/support her to become a better person.

As for him - Haoming also needs to learn to admit his wrongs too - and lies as well. Otherwise there's no way he can get back into her life - if that's where the story is supposed to be headed - if he doesn't change from the expect "divorce" from each other -- and learn from his mistakes - then I would definitely do not want to see them get back together.

Both needs psychological help - proper healing - proper love, proper respect from all - otherwise their relationship will be hard to mend - and future prospects of even loving anyone will be much more difficult too.

He knew from the get-go that she had been lying - it's obvious when he hinted about it in pretty much the first episode of the drama.

Happy belated birthday Zhao Zhendong! I hope that you had an awesome bday ever!

Hmm - I wished there's more details about where he's actually born - in some ways, I think he could have either been born in Guangdong or Guangzhou or Hong Kong - because a lot of time I hear him speak Cantonese in his dramas fluently/smoothly. Anyone has more details about him?!?

Basing on episode 14 trailers - it is time that they divorce - he came clean telling her - that he knows she's been lying all these times - but the fact that he's not coming clean about his own lies will not make the relationship work - it'll be a toxic relationship between the two - I can see that he's still trying to control her life, etc and that will definitely hurt her more, plus devastate her even more.

All in all - I don't think he really loves her - or more like really know how to love someone. I have a feeling that his background isn't as perfect as it seems either - don't tell me his company isn't real and that it's all fake (made up too) especially when we will find out - basing on the trailer - that the kid that she has been taking care of - is not his younger brother, but his son, will really messed her up too. Given that means - he had the ex-wife - whom I now believe could either be Fang Lei's or Fang Lei's sister - whom had died. Whichever it is - it will be a blow to her and she'll have trust issues too.

She was already hurt from her past - especially with her unloving real family members - except her grandmother and her older sister. Then, she was also bullied at a young age at school and currently still being bully at her workplace too by that Sun Si Wei. As well as her ex-bf too (coming to give her trouble as well). Now, we also learn the her current so-called husband (Shen Hao Ming) isn't any better, but worst - will make her in the end feel like she can't find any real "pure love" to be in a relationship with - if ever. Her current so-called husband is really a huge manipulator/controller/liar/eventually and will become toxic too.

Therefore, if they really want to ever heal - then have them divorce, leave him to go somewhere else for a while and make him understand too - that what he did was not right at all either. Otherwise, he will not learn from it and will continue to hurt her more than she has already been dealt with.

Not sure what kinda ending I want - for these two? At the current moment - I definitely don't want them to be together anymore. He's putting all the blame on her - when we as the audience sees is that "he wants to make others feel in the wrong/guilty", but never himself - if ever. Sigh.

Hmm, basing on the next few episodes of the drama - from ep 9 -12 -- there are suddenly more people getting taggled in both of the lead's life --

1. Zhou Ze Yuan has some kind of strange relationship/connection with our FL - Xu Yan.... her ex-bf? or was it her ex-husband?!? not sure - very confusing to see him show up suddenly... which makes Shen Hao Ming curious about there so-called relationship b/w the 2 of them. He seems to be also very calculative, controlling, threatening and manipulative too - not sure why though. Why is he trying to ruin her life that she's trying to build up?

2. Seems like Xu Yan's so-called family is getting tangled up in her life again - not in a good way either. Wanting to ruin her life too - argh. Ruin it already when she was young and even when she grows up, they want to ruin her life as well?!?

3. Fang Lei is back and messing up the ML's life too -- Shen Hao Ming - supposed to meet her (Xu Yan) at his flower shop (ep 12 preview) - but he didn't show up because suddenly Fang Lei is annoying Shen Hao Ming's time - even though time and time again - he told her off - that he's already married, etc. But she ignores everything and continues to try to hold him back - basing on his expression - he's getting pissed off. She's is obviously really wanting to control and steal the ML from FL - I honestly hope the ML won't fall for her and get rid of her. My guess is that the reason why he marries the FL is that he doesn't want the other girl to annoy him. But it doesn't seem to work?!? And also why did our FL met her at the cooking school and then sat down together over food?!?

4. Then, suddenly the competitor - Sun Si Wei - wanting to be always in control over our main FL - on a show, exposes our FL's lies via her so-called parents, etc. (ep 11) - not sure what will happen b/w the 2 of our main leads when this happens?!? - what is she -- jealous over her or selfish desires of being the main host of the show that FL worked hard in doing/making of?!? Seriously I want to kick her out of the company fast! She's been nothing but trouble for the FL - who has been working hard to stay in the broadcasting company of hers. It seems that she's stalking her too and prying into Xu Yan's life - not sure why and what's her business in wanting to find out about her personal life?!? Use it to ruin Xu Yan's life too?!?

5. Also, there is this annoying kid that wants to ruin the 2 main leads life too - sigh. Who's kid is that?!?

6. As well, the FL's sister - has an interest in the doctor who helped her and show up at her door in the morning too?! Hmm - not sure how that will turn out -- and also will the 2 sisters really work out their situations/problems?!?

Anyways, not sure how the 2 lead's life will be going forward - will they trust each other? or will they split? Will she run away from him because of her so-called family and ex-bf/husband is becoming annoying too? or will he leave her too b/c of Fang Lei?!? Either way - the two lead's lives are not clean slat - esp the part where Fang Lei is using her sister's death to control Shen Hao Ming's life - making him constantly guilty of something - did he do something -- that led to Fang Lei's sister's death?? Why is Fang Lei so obsessive over Shen Hao Ming - when clearly he doesn't like her at all?!? Really should put her in mental hospital jail asap! Then there's the ex-bf of Xu Yan that's giving so much trouble and headache for her. Plus Xu Yan's estrange so-called family - who never once loved her or care for - suddenly back to ruin her life too?!? What do they want from her?? Can't even give her happiness from the beginning and until now, still haven't done so either. Even when she was young in high school, she originally was accepted to university - her so-called father ruin it for her - preventing her from not going to university -- constantly only put the other daughter first rather than her. Even when Xu Yan confronts him, he calls her - a traitor/cheater, etc. Like seriously, such parents like that are the worst of the worst!

Basing on the insider interview with the director and the two leads - the two of them will divorce - the main cause, the ML is blaming her for not being honest with him, have evidence that really tears her down completely - so he left/ignores her - but to be honest - he already knew from the get go that she has been lying - so why suddenly at one point wants to blame her for her wrongs suddenly? Is it because he found out that the so-called ex-bf is always around her? or is it -- that he wants to hide his problems from her and divorce her because it? Either way - basing on the interview we can previews of them breaking apart over an envelope of so-called evidence/pictures of Xu Yan and the other guy - not sure who gave it to him though.

Then basing on other preview clips, Xu Yan's sister confront her about her lying and also we see another preview that her real parents bump into them her and her husbands family found out that she's been lying -- and walks away from her (Xu Yan) -- angrily. Which means that's where the two leads will break up/divorce - cause his parents (Shen Hao Ming's parents) will probably force him to divorce her and leave her. Either way - it's not going to be good for a while after all these confrontations b/w the two of them. Will they really get back together or forever separated? Will she disappear from his life because of her lies?

All, I know is - lying is definitely not good - but I do understand why Xu Yan does this throughout most of the drama - her biological parents never ever truly cares about her - constantly ignoring her and when they see fits, controls her life, ruins her life too and always constantly showing affection towards the older daughter - but not her ever. They even want to get rid of her when she was young - when she had a heart problem and her grandmother took her away from them because they don't want to take care of anymore and end her life possibly? She was also bullied when she was young too - at elementary school by bullies. Taunting her, etc. Also, at the same time, even the ML's mother constantly looked down on her too and treats her poorly throughout the drama on/off - plus his mother's so-called friends too. Feels like his family is completely snobbish and just because they are rich - constantly look down on her --- not until she did a special feature on her show (after she convinced her manager the change via her hardwork of changing those ladies perspective) that they look at her differently...Not only that - at the FL's workplace - she's also being bullied too by Sun Si Wei too. Then there's her ex-bf that must've hurt her in her past too and then suddenly shows back up in her life too - just because her life is getting a bit better?

On the other hand, I still don't understand why the ML is lying too and not being honest either - but put all the blame on her - when they break up/divorce each other? Like he was already trying to control her/manipulate her/treat her as a chess piece - but is he honest with his feelings towards her when they were together before they split? At times it does, but then at times he doesn't seem like it either. As well, I also realized that he keeps a tab on her - like some of his people spying on her/keep track of where she is or what she does, etc. Like under surveillance constantly or have a tracker on her (probably inside the jewelry he gives her)? So, not sure if that's actually a good thing or not. Also, I do noticed that when she ask him "how do you know what project am I working on"? and he answers her "I have my people there"... and her reaction was shocked yet at the same time quickly changes the topic - asking him if "her parents is satisfying/liked by his parents or not?" - he just answers, "I don't care if my parents like them or not, all I care is that I am satisfied and that's enough". Then she goes on to ask him, "do you really love me? why do you love me?" - he answers her "I love you, I love everything about you" -- and then proceeds on kissing her. But it seems like the two of them are walking on eggshells. He gives her things (jewelries) often and seems to know almost a lot of her - but doesn't come clean about himself.

One thing I do notice is that she (Xu Yan) at one point did say her in thoughts - that asks the (referring to the ML) question - "do I really deserve this pure innocent love or not?"

Anyways, my 2-cents worth of observation throughout this story/drama. What do you think will break the two up? How will they deal with the annoying 2 ML and 2FL that keeps on trying to ruin the two main lead's life, their parents issues - each one of them causing problems for the other. I hope those two annoying 2nd leads go to jail or mental hospital and leave the two main leads alone! Can they overcome all of these and get back together? I hope that when they get back together - it won't be at the end of the drama or break up again somewhere along the line again. Plus I do hope they will be honest with one another too sooner than later.

sigh

I want another ending - where it is actually happy - b/c I read somewhere in here from another novel fan - that the story was supposed to be a happy one for QS aka MM (in the real world).

Plus I really wanna see QS and LCZ worked more together - I also read those parts got cut out of the drama too!

What- argh...so it was supposed to be a happy ending based on the novel - but the drama ending in a bad way instead - so frustrated. I was also hoping to see some actions between the 2 of them - working together - doing things together, etc. :(