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Ok. Thank you for letting me know.

I respect your beliefs and I understand why you would be influenced by it because of your father.
The Sun physically impacts our health because it is vey hot and is perfectly positioned. If it was closer the temperatures would be too high for us to be able to live, if it was further away, the entire planet would be like the North Pole. But from that to planets deciding our fate is a huge jump.
I personally believe whatever happens to us in life is the result of our choices, the environment around us and time and place.

For example, if I make bad choices like doing drugs, surround myself with bad people and am at the wrong place and wrong time due to those choices, I have more chances of ending up in jail or even dead compared to any regular person. That is not fate, that is the consequence of my actions/choices.

I already knew because I keep updated with a bunch of drama sites and fansubs on a daily basis. I did not check if the subs are good though. When it comes to Chinese apps, its either 8 or 80, you either get no subs/automatic translations or you get decent subs. I will check it later when I have nothing to watch.

But thank you for sharing as other people who do not know where to watch might read your comment.

I know, sorry that I had to break the bad news to you. This is why I replied to the top comment saying I was going to wait for it to finish airing. I just cant imagine watching this on a weekly basis when I will have to wait until 2021 to watch the last episode. I might as well forget about it and watch other dramas until then.

It aired on the 10th, today is the 17th and only 1 episode has come out (the 2nd will probably air today). Also, it says it will finish airing in January so if you do the math, it cant be 2 episodes per week when it is supposed to be only 10 episodes long.

Usually the info about the airing days is wrong. Just recently I was watching a drama that aired on Monday and Tuesday and here on MDL it said Tuesday and Wednesday.

He did not lie or pretend. He just avoided the question and asked where she was. He was caught by surprise when she asked that. He is about to go and tell her the truth and then she asks a question that he doesnt know how to answer and that will give away the truth in the most unwanted way. He wanted to be able to tell her in person. Which is why I was angry at the writers. They made her find out this way just to add more drama. How come she took the grandma’s phone by mistake? So you are telling me they have the exact same model and background picture??

Oh well, this is not the worst drama I have watched this year but definitely not the best either. At this point I am just watching to see how it ends, but I am worried about the way it is going. They better not pull a cliché situation like NDS going away for a few years, SDM starting to date HJP and then NDS comes back to South Korea and she becomes confused again and breaks up with HJP to go and date SDM. If she is going to be with NDS, I hope she understands her feelings soon and does not mess with HJP. I am done with all the drama and this cliché love triangle. If they do something like this, the rating will suffer a big deal.

The link I used at the time was for their wix website and it is not working anymore. They have deleted a lot of dramas and some like In Time With You are missing the last few episodes for months and probably will never have these episodes uploaded.

First I was angry at the fact the the whole restaurant scene where NDS was supposed to tell her the truth was just him having a drunk breakdown, although I was not surprised that they made a bogus preview about it, I was still mad. Then the episode kept dragging with so many chances of him telling her the truth but nothing happened. And when he finally reached the conclusion that it would be better for him to be the one to tell her instead of her finding through someone else, I knew where it was going.

Like really? The writers chose the most frustrating and hurtful way for her to find the truth. Now everyone will feel like trash after this because no one told her the truth and she found out the hard way. Sigh

I just finished watching episode 9 and I am pretty mad at the writers right now. Tell me if you already watched so I can rant about it. I dont want to spoilt it for you in case you havent.

Personal yes, romantic I just dont feel it. But like I said, that could and will probably change the moment she finds out he was the one writing the letters.

I agree and think the same about any other second lead in any other drama. If he is not going to get the girl, why torture him? Sometimes I think drama writers are sadists or even psychopaths. They enjoy torturing the characters.

She does definitely see him as important, like when she made sure he would be their mentor no matter what. I just personally did not see these things in a romantic light. I just think they have a great working relationship/friendship but other than that, she does not seem to be interested on a romantic level, which might change after she finds out he was the one sending her the letters.

There could always be a plot twist. They could have promoted NDS just to fool us and then make her end up with HJP. Though I do believe they did not think that far and will probably go the predictable route.

I do remember another Chinese drama I watched a few years ago. The male lead and female lead were sold as a package to the viewers and they were together for most of the drama. The second male lead was her best friend. Then a few episodes near the end, she realizes she actually loves the second male lead and they end up together. One of the few dramas where this happens. Coincidently, in real life the actors playing the female lead and second male lead actually got married.

Yeah, I think they say sweet and sour. In my native language we say agridoce. But yeah, this one is definitely very tragic with a lot of deaths and people that are unhappy and unable to do what they want because no one really has freedom inside the Palace.

Yeah. I think the best thing would be for her to not date anyone, focus on their start up and get to know them better and then decide. That way she would have time to figure out her feelings and make her decision.

True. But I think there is more chance of it being with the Grandma because so far I have not seen anything that indicates she will choose him. But maybe things will change with the next episodes since she will find out the truth. We are halfway through so a lot can happen. Not long ago I watched a chinese drama where the FML was together with someone else for like 20 episodes but then there was a situation that made it impossible for them to be together (he was basically forced to marry someone else) and she ended up finding comfort in the other lead and then marrying him. So everything is possible.

I already shared the link in the spoiler.

True. This lie was kept for so long because without it there would be no drama. lol
Now I am guessing that she will go date HJP cause he is her "first love" and then realize that she actually loves NDS and go back to him in the end. That is the most cliché and predictable way this can go. Hopefully it wont happen. I dont want to see her date HJP if that will only cause all 3 of them to be hurt. I would rather have her date no one and get her feelings sorted before making a decision.

If they make HJP and DM date, they better be the endgame. I dont like people going back and forth in their romantic relationships.

It definitely will be hard for that to happen. But this is the drama world. I have seen main leads forgive and get along with someone who was the villain 99% of the drama and that even tried to kill them or caused the death of someone they cared for. So anything is possible.

I agree with the Grandma - HJP endgame tho. They have a pretty nice relationship. XD

I dont remember HJP wanting to ever tell the truth. I remember him wanting NDS to stop meeting her so they could get it over with.

About NDS not telling the truth, part of him never wanted to tell the truth because he knew there was a huge chance he would lose her, so all he needed was someone "stopping" him. The moment he met the grandma she went along with the lie saying it had been so long since they met and all that, so how was he going to say, "actually grandma, lets be real, we dont know each other, I am not the NDS that wrote her letters". It would be an awkward situation. And then with all the work they have been doing, there wasnt really an opportunity for him to tell her the truth. They were way too focused on work to have such a serious conversation. And that is why you should never start a lie, because it is easy to start one, but the longer you keep it, the harder it will be to tell the truth. And most of the times you end up telling smaller lies to cover for the bigger one.

He basically missed his chance to tell her the truth and kept her in the dark. I actually thought he would tell her the truth when he told her that the woman that wrote on that notebook and was going blind was her grandma. But I like that he came up with an idea for his work that would be something helpful for the grandmother, instead of something that would make them a lot of money. That shows that deep down he is a good guy. And on a human level, even with him being a nerd and everything, I feel he is more human than HJP. I am not saying HJP is not a good person or does not feel empathy. But NDS found practical ways to help people while I have not seen that much care from HJP.

Like I said, he did not even like Dal Mi until she was pretty much dating NDS. He is now feeling like he is losing something that "belongs" to him but it was him who actually "gave it away" to someone else. As adults, the one who had the first chance to tell her the truth was HJP and he chose to find someone to impersonate him instead. So for me, that makes him no better than NDS.

But like I said, at the moment, the only likable character for me is Dal Mi. Neither NDS nor HJP are at a level where I support them being with Dal Mi. A lot has to happen before that. But I guess if the truth was found earlier, there would be no drama. They are pretty much basing the whole story on this lie and without it we would only be left with the business part of the drama and her relationship with her family.

Well, if he finds someone else I can definitely see them 5 having dinner like a family since there would be no hard feelings between them. I hope the writers at least find him someone. I think the most cliché would be to make him be with her sister.

Since people dont care much about age these days, he could always marry the grandmother and take care of her. Just kidding, that would be weird. lol

SDM sure respects HJP views, not so sure about him respecting hers tho. NDS did stood up for her when he broke the name plate.

Also, NDS seems less scheming to me. He is mostly insecure and craving affection. HJP found a person to impersonate him, when he could have just come clean right there and then and she probably would have understood. But he made the lie even bigger by getting NDS involved. Also, some of his attitudes did not impress me. He does not seem to understand how big of a lie it is and how much it impacts her life until he falls for her.

In real life, to be honest, I would choose neither of them. lol

I would not date someone who lied to me about something so important.