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i think she'll go one last time to catch the murderer myb sunjae dies again in present time and this time its a homicide so she suspects the murder and catched him in the past (and myb through that incident sol and sunjae in past become close and she wakes up to a future with sunjae?)

guys does anyone recall seeing 2ml in the future band? if he wasnt a part i feel like he may have also gotten into an accident or involved with the murderer (and myb sol was the witness? idk)

see he knows what his grandma's intentions were when she left xing'anli to MCH and although he didnt full agree with the decision he has grown to accept it over time...about her entrusting MCH and xing'anli to YZM, YZM obviously knew how much they both cared for each other and she would definitely want him to look after her(and i cant recall exactly when but i think there was an ep where he promised his grandma he would look after chenghuan) ,and i also think he said that because his grandma knew (to some extent) regarding his feelings towards MCH and how much he cared for her and before dying she also said that his personality changed because of MCH and that he became nicer....another pov for leaving the house could be that the grandma knew about the fact that Mai family would continue to live in that house and that he would no longer be lonely or it could be to express her wish that he stays in china and doesnt go to switzerland....I never said that the grandma resented him i just think that she knew that MCH would be more likely to continue managing the hotel with her values where as YZM is more cut throat and profit minded....

the regret is probably over the fact that she didnt pay much attention to him and he ended up living abroad and experiencing a lot of hardship (myb it even impacted his personality to an extent) either that or she means the regret towards the hotel which she built that isnt successful and she wants someone with the same values as her to make it successful so that she stops feeling sorry for the hotel and the staff there...YZM is referring to the problem of him having to give up on his promotion and help MCH, grandma had pretty much made it obvious that she aligns with MCH especially when they went on that trip to the hotel so it wouldnt have been extremely surprising to him (besides MCH has been by her side this whole time whereas YZM just showed up recently in order to get xing'anli

after the preview i feel like sol will help 2ml and ml form a band together (and hopefull 2ml doesnt become annoting/toxic)

i also have to say that sol is truly selfless, most people in her situation will somehow try to save themselves from future regrets (in her case the accident) but she is literally not even thinking about it

ohmg i was wondering why no one was bringing up their acting, i thought i was the only one!! the fl's acting is fine but the ml's acting is so off for me....

I think deep down she does know that she got lucky in terms of her children because she clearly loves both her children and wants the best for them, most asian parents get their love across by nagging at their loved ones, she probably resents her husband to some extent aswell because he would have promised her a good life when she married him but she does not live a great life like he may have promised....she went to talk to yao because she thought that their mutual relationship with grandma would help chenghuan and that he was a nice person (she is very naive when it comes to people's true intentions and she believes what she sees on the surface)....im sure that she is extremely wound up since she hardly has anything in her savings and considering her age if the have any emergencies (medical) they wont have any savings to spend......this type of parent is definitely not unique, i have many relatives who also think they are entitled to interfere in their childrens life and they can't see anything wrong with it because thats how they were raised....i'm not saying its right though its just that she isnt inherently bad

yeah because that means theres only 13 eps for them to be in love T-T

see everyone is status hungry to an extent, everyone wants to be the best versions of themselves and improve their reputation in fl's mother's case she came from a poverty background and moved to the city from the countryside and married chenghuan's dad in order to have more opportunities but she was still stuck in the loop of poverty....if you look at their situation itself they cant even do anything when their house is flooded and they have to rely on their daughter for most expenses....She was initially against chenghuan marrying but she eventually came to terms with it but once she realized he was extremely rich she was overjoyed in her pov it was a golden opportunity where her daughter could not only marry the man she loved but also live a great life (myb a selfish side of her also believed their whole family would be saved but thats normal).......Now keep in mind she has absolutely no idea how chenghuan has been treated since chenghuan never tells her mother any of her issues so her mother thinks that although his family is a bit entitled they will eventually come to accept chenghuan.....In her eyes jia liang's family is perfect she cant see any of the issues because she has never had those kind of issues (the part with mistress inheritance etc. are probably unheard of for her)........Her mother is also someone who was hardened by the harsh realities of poverty she believes that this is the best possible guy for her and that they and their children will never face what she went through....its just that her love for her is blind and she cant see all the glaring red flags

same id also like to see that family's reaction after she inherits the hotel and starts dating YZM (i want the ex bf to repent so badly)

i think he will shift his calculating mindset towards business only rather than letting it interfere with his relationships like he does now

in her eyes she can only think of making her daughter successful so that she doesn't end up like her...plus she is very naive and gullible (myb because she isnt very educated) and she is unable to understand the schemes of the xin family...for her all the issues in her like stem from her social status and poverty and the best way for them to escape that is through her marriage

no what i meant is that most shows tend to stick to 16-20 eps as a standard and very few change the number of episodes from this standard...due to this im sure that the writers are forced to write content for more episodes than required...

i think there are two reasons one being her first pregnancy and the other is the fact that she was married in order to improve her family's social status which indicates that she was probably married against her will to someone her parents chose and they probably don't love each other so she prefers staying with her parents

from her perspective she just doesnt want her daughter to undergo what she did and she wants her to have a better life, and in most cases the best way to climb the social ladder is through marriage, she believes that she knows whats best for her daughter (due to her age like most elders in asian households) and she tries to interfere in her daughter's issues as a way to help her..... She thinks her daughter will be happy forever if she marries xin jialang since he has a lot money and in her life the biggest issues arise due to poverty

She isnt an inherently bad person, she's just a typical asian mom that doesnt know about her daughter's feelings....And yes since this is a family drama her character will most likely get some development and she will become more mature

remember the ep where hyun-woo extends hae-in's lifeline temporarily using a pen? was it to show that hae-in was supposed to die when she was a child but hyun woo extended her life? does that mean her hope for survival now is less??

she did mention her WBC count increased though so idk

honestly writers should write the whole plot of the show and then decide how many eps are required, this show clearly does not require 16eps they are just extending it with unnecessary filler episodes

although it was annoying to deal with that family, it was very necessary because realistically she dated him for 3yrs and they were truly in love with each other so it would have been difficult to cut off that bond out of no where, if it was too quick it would show that they had no attachment to each other....

Its also necessary in order to contrast her ex and ml because both of them come from similar backgrounds of money and now the ml will be more careful with her since he already knows her past experiences and she herself will know more about the issues of having huge gaps in social status....(we have so many contrasts in this show, we have the 2 poor girls one is the fl who worked hard and did not lose her values in order to carve her own path and the other is ex-bf's dad's mistress who chose to use men to achieve what she wanted and another one we have is the ml and the ex, the ml although rich and opportunistic still cares about people and he does try to protect the fl to some extent considering they were strangers but the ex was wayy too timid and didnt protect the fl despite being so in love with her that he wanted to marry her)

i dont think so, because we can already see that he cares about her, and after he got sick and she helped him he clearly already started developing feelings...I think that he will unknowingly fall in love with her and after noticing this the grandma probably feels happier to give the hotel to FL since she knows they both will be there for each other

I honestly cant seem to hate her bf, because he clearly cares about her but at the same time i think that his lack of openness about his family situation and the huge difference in financial and social status would impact their relationship, And like the fl pointed out marriage is the coming together of 2 families and due to the lack of balance between their families and the superiority complex his family has its very unlikely that they would stay together for long (since she will clearly be mistreated even after marriage unless she proves to be useful to their business) ...Also are 12 eps out already?