still love him but we're entering the "a little unhealthy" territory with LX. but since JJ is kind of aware of…
I don't feel it's "unhealthy". Imagine this: if for a decade you have been living with a heavy burden, now you feel you can put that burden down and take a deep breath, and you have a shoulder to lean on, what would you do? You'd want to grab it and hold on tight, even not sharing it for fear of losing it. That's how I feel about Ling Xiao's emotions.
When I begin to think this drama can't reduce me to tears again...Li Xiao had to take me down his very dark Memory…
Well, there's a saying: when the going gets tough, the tough gets going. That's how we get through life. He becomes brave because he doesn't self-pity which is the worst thing anyone can do to oneself.
I can empathize with both mothers, Chen Ting (Ling Xiao's mother) and Hei Mei (Ziqiu's mother). They are not bad people. If they are categorized as bad mothers, then many of our divorced or single mothers may also be wrongly classified under that category, which is very unfair.
Chen Ting has gone through a lot. She loses a child, has gone through 2 husbands, crippled herself. Not many people could have taken all these misfortune without going insane or becoming depressed. No mothers will be the same again. It is also a human instinct to blame others, as in Chen Ting's case, she blames Ling Xiao for the loss of her daughter. Many parents and husbands/wives do that to protect themselves. If we look deep into ourselves, I'm pretty sure we have repeatedly blamed others for whatever misfortune we have encountered. Therefore, we should not criticize Chen Ting because her character is very human. I must applaud her for walking out of her darkness so bravely. It's very very hard to do if we understand how depression affects the mind.
I can see Hei Mei a very caring mother. Being single with not much education and no financial security, she has no choice but to leave Ziqiu with her own mother in the rural area. She loves Ziqiu very much. Seeing how she's now treating her young son who may have developmental issues, I can tell she's a good mother. At this point, we still do not know what has happened in her life, so we should not jump into conclusion and brand her as a bad mother.
Three ground rules: 1. Equal treatment for brother and boyfriend 2. If boyfriend fight with brother, must stand at the brother's side 3. I'll beat the heck out of your boyfriend if he's not good to you
i feel so sorry for lingxiao , i'm afraid that his mom will try to commit a suicide and that will finally break…
No, I think his mother has walked out of that darkness. She's going to be fine and make Ling Xiao feel better. Even if she's not, Ling Xiao now has his whole adopted family with him to support him mentally, so he'll be fine. Don't worry.
Her kiss in the 27th episode looked fake. It showed that she was hesitant to kiss him. She did it like, she was…
It's a common knowledge that Chinese actors, and Chinese in general, are shy to kiss in public, hence their kisses are normally very fast or superficial. How well the kissing scenes are may reduce the enjoyment for some viewers but most viewers may feel such scenes are not the ultimate maker nor breaker of a drama, hence tolerating it better :)
I was the same in the beginning because I thought, do we have to...But then as I watched their story unravelling,…
Can't agree more. Jianjian has always had a special place for Ling Xiao from little. When the 3 of them sleep together, Ling Xiao sleeps by her side, Ziqiu sleeps by their feet :D It's only natural this special love blossoms into romance when they both come of age.
Could you guys explain me more about SF's parents? His mom committed suicide? What did his Dad do? I skipped some…
I just finished episode 39. It seems there are 2 versions of her death. According to Sifeng's father, her original sect captures her, interrogates her for his (Sifeng's father's) where about and tries to eliminate the Bird race. She takes her life to protect Sifeng's father. But according to the deputy sect leader, that's not the case; she takes her own life after finding out that her lover is a demon from the bird race and she's ashamed. As it is, I don't know which version is correct.
I understand that all the sufferings Sifeng is going through right now is a buildup for the final catharsis, but this buildup of pain is taking more than 40 episodes, and it's getting really unbearable. Poor Sifeng!
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Chen Ting has gone through a lot. She loses a child, has gone through 2 husbands, crippled herself. Not many people could have taken all these misfortune without going insane or becoming depressed. No mothers will be the same again. It is also a human instinct to blame others, as in Chen Ting's case, she blames Ling Xiao for the loss of her daughter. Many parents and husbands/wives do that to protect themselves. If we look deep into ourselves, I'm pretty sure we have repeatedly blamed others for whatever misfortune we have encountered. Therefore, we should not criticize Chen Ting because her character is very human. I must applaud her for walking out of her darkness so bravely. It's very very hard to do if we understand how depression affects the mind.
I can see Hei Mei a very caring mother. Being single with not much education and no financial security, she has no choice but to leave Ziqiu with her own mother in the rural area. She loves Ziqiu very much. Seeing how she's now treating her young son who may have developmental issues, I can tell she's a good mother. At this point, we still do not know what has happened in her life, so we should not jump into conclusion and brand her as a bad mother.
1. Equal treatment for brother and boyfriend
2. If boyfriend fight with brother, must stand at the brother's side
3. I'll beat the heck out of your boyfriend if he's not good to you