Does anyone feel that yueliang is overreacting for love? I feel that way ... for her relationship with Lingxiao…
She may have overreacted a little, but I found Zhuangbei extremely annoying. his crush on her is just as superficial as hers was on Li Xiao. She rejected him quite normally, though under shock because of her consideration for Tan Chan, but he kept on talking, asking for a chance when her rejection couldn't have been more clear. I didn't think it was rude to tell him that he made her uncomfortable (it was also quite obvious), he sought after her at her job and called her number with a stranger's phone. it would make me uncomfortable as well, and even after that he still told Ziqui that he wasn't sure if he would stop pursuing Mingyue.... what more does she have to do?
the writers really put a lot of effort into He Xi Liang but somehow forgot to give all the other characters likable traits. wanna rate this a 9 for Ryan Ding only, but the plot and characters really don't deserve it.
I don't feel it's "unhealthy". Imagine this: if for a decade you have been living with a heavy burden, now you…
yeah, but now imagine JJ's side. her being his only light of life, her becoming his obsession and him even confessing that he would just be unhappily in love with her for the rest of his life if she chose someone else. feeling so much pity for someone that you feel guilty for not giving them exactly what they want is unhealthy. JJ shouldn't be the only person LX dares to open up to. also, he only shares glimpses of his burden when he is asked or forced to because he bottles everything up. LX's behaviour is very relatable, I completely understand where he's coming from but it's still a little unhealthy. he wants to claim JJ for himself to the point that he wouldn't even consider the feelings of the guy he treated as a brother for the majority of his life. I'm still rooting for LX but I also think his appointment with a therapist is long due, his whole family situation did a huge toll on him. he should be able to have a life that doesn't only concern JJ. (ZQ is the same tho)
I don't really mind age gaps when characters and actors are of age. however with every age gap I need the story line to establish a believable reason as to why those two people are right for each other. there mustn't be any kind of unmatched power dynamic, no daddy/mommy issues, no continuously calling the younger person a kid and no fetishizing of the younger person's innocence and inexperience. with all that it's almost already too hard to find one. I guess the only one that comes to mind would be A Witch's Romance. I don't remember any of those themes to be in there but I could be wrong since I don't have the best memory. I do love Goblin but it's not my favourite romance. I like it more for the yearning and the characters and relationships, the romance was fine but it didn't sit right with me that she was still a high school girl when they met and fell in love. as youthful and young goblin's character seemed to be the power dynamic was off already, not only because he is a powerful being but because Eun Tak had no parental guardians of her own, she didn't really had another choice but to seek shelter with him.
most unexpected gem. I just really like character driven stories and this is one of them. all important characters had more and maybe even conflicting dimensions to them which made them feel very realistic. the reason why the political storyline is still interesting despite the fact that seemingly the majority of viewership dislike them, is that it's still easy to understand. you can relate with the complaints and we're looking into the part of politics that's rarely focused on - closer to the people. It's mostly always about the president and co., with difficult terminology and some issues with the military and international war, a lot of people die and the corruptness takes on unimaginable measures. this is different. the romance? chef's kiss. perfect from beginning to end. you have these childhood friends that reconcile and work with each other and slowly fall in love and they stay together. they don't fail to communicate even if they have different opinions, they learn from each other and make each become a better person. the chemistry is off charts and they don't have some unnecessary break up because they support each other until the end and stay strong until the end.
can we start every comment with the episode number we're at, so I can skim trough all the spoilers without spoiling myself at what's to come 20 eps later?
I'm really too emotionally invested. I feel like I need to take a break and wait for a few subs to come out, but I know I won't be able to hold myself back.
She rejected him quite normally, though under shock because of her consideration for Tan Chan, but he kept on talking, asking for a chance when her rejection couldn't have been more clear. I didn't think it was rude to tell him that he made her uncomfortable (it was also quite obvious), he sought after her at her job and called her number with a stranger's phone. it would make me uncomfortable as well, and even after that he still told Ziqui that he wasn't sure if he would stop pursuing Mingyue.... what more does she have to do?
JJ shouldn't be the only person LX dares to open up to. also, he only shares glimpses of his burden when he is asked or forced to because he bottles everything up. LX's behaviour is very relatable, I completely understand where he's coming from but it's still a little unhealthy. he wants to claim JJ for himself to the point that he wouldn't even consider the feelings of the guy he treated as a brother for the majority of his life.
I'm still rooting for LX but I also think his appointment with a therapist is long due, his whole family situation did a huge toll on him. he should be able to have a life that doesn't only concern JJ. (ZQ is the same tho)
however with every age gap I need the story line to establish a believable reason as to why those two people are right for each other. there mustn't be any kind of unmatched power dynamic, no daddy/mommy issues, no continuously calling the younger person a kid and no fetishizing of the younger person's innocence and inexperience. with all that it's almost already too hard to find one. I guess the only one that comes to mind would be A Witch's Romance. I don't remember any of those themes to be in there but I could be wrong since I don't have the best memory.
I do love Goblin but it's not my favourite romance. I like it more for the yearning and the characters and relationships, the romance was fine but it didn't sit right with me that she was still a high school girl when they met and fell in love. as youthful and young goblin's character seemed to be the power dynamic was off already, not only because he is a powerful being but because Eun Tak had no parental guardians of her own, she didn't really had another choice but to seek shelter with him.
the reason why the political storyline is still interesting despite the fact that seemingly the majority of viewership dislike them, is that it's still easy to understand. you can relate with the complaints and we're looking into the part of politics that's rarely focused on - closer to the people. It's mostly always about the president and co., with difficult terminology and some issues with the military and international war, a lot of people die and the corruptness takes on unimaginable measures. this is different.
the romance? chef's kiss. perfect from beginning to end. you have these childhood friends that reconcile and work with each other and slowly fall in love and they stay together. they don't fail to communicate even if they have different opinions, they learn from each other and make each become a better person. the chemistry is off charts and they don't have some unnecessary break up because they support each other until the end and stay strong until the end.