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I am not the one who used that word.
The original post was explicit in stating men who date multiple women are manwh0res...
So, was just asking if that logic extends of women dating multiple men, like the FL of this drama...

a natural question anyone would ask..

Btw, I firmly believe dating and having sex is a perfectly natural and healthy thing, for both men and women.

Your post was very specific about asians not taking sexual relationship lightly and gave that reason why ML is like that.

So, the question still remains, is the FL not behaving like an asian for having multiple lovers? After all, as per your logic, as asian does not take sexual relationships lightly. The FL does not fit this pattern.

So, a bit confused.

Do you see ML showing any kind of attraction to his GF?
Do you see them holding hands, kissing or anything remotely like that?

She even tells her lover that she was shagging him because her bf never does anything with her.

The drama makes it clear that she was the GF because their families set them up for marriage. Not once does the drama say they got together because they loved each other.

ML being experienced is not the common trope at all,
The most common trope is a Virgin ML who only ever loved the FL.
Second most trope is FL being chased by ML and his brother. The love triangle with FL, ML and few other men is another popular trope.
The ML being experienced is one of the least used tropes.

Some of the dramas you mentioned, it is exactly the opposite...

Destined with you, the ML has the fakest girl friend in Kdrama history.

She was GF in name only because of arrangement between families.
The ML is never shown to be remotely interested in his gf. The drama literally confirms they never even held hands, let alone do any bf-gf stuff.
The drama shows FL having more romance with 2ML than between ML and his gf.

Haven't watched good bad mother, so can't comment.
The other drama no one is inexperienced.

Kdramas have few rare dramas where both leads are experienced but there rarely is a drama where the FL is NOT and ML is....

Anyway, Kdramas used to fare better but the cdrama crap of having certain type of ML's, especially the cold CEO tropes has hit them hard in last few years.

Just to understand what you are saying -

FL's can date multiple men, thrash men around, get piss drunk and put their life and career before romance.

but they want a handsome Virgin prince who never liked any other woman to settle with and put her before everything else in his life...

Is this accurate depiction of the expectation?
If so, it seems like like these women have mental issues that need to be treated asap.

Btw, how is ML dating woman similar how FL is dating men, two-timing?
How is ML doing things that FL is doing a red flag?

Your last 2 lines are spot on.
No men on earth are like that. Imagine if men start demanding virgins who never even looked at other men as their wives? That's how sick this whole premise comes across and it's dangerous as well.

All of the have ML who is single woman man.

In fact, King the land has FL in a long term relationship with another man.
ML is shown as a virgin CEO.

Name a Kdrama where the FL has a trauma that affects her liking or dating men?

This year itself there are like a dozen Kdramas where the ML has a trauma and does not even look at other women.

Can you name a single Kdrama where the reverse was shown?
The ML moved on and dated multiple women
&
the FL stayed put languishing in love of ML and did not even look at other men.

The ML's in kdramas never move on, it's only the FL's that always move on and date other men.
Another example is 'Strangers Again'. ML stays put, FL shags his friend.

You can't remember because there are exactly ZERO cdramas where the ML is showing attraction to other woman than the FL.

in last 3-4 years of my Cdrama experience, the count is exactly ZERO
and I have watched almost all popular Cdramas made in this time.

Now, why don't you ask me to show a drama where FL is shown being attracted to other men than ML?

recent Kdrama - Behind your touch, the FL pretty much shown horny every time she sees 2ML
Cdrama - The Day of Becoming you, the FL has orgasm every time she is near 2ML.

I remember these 2 because the FL's were very funny in both dramas, especially in how they were attracted to 2ML's.
If you want episode numbers where the hornyness is shown, I can get them for you.

As they say, now it's your turn to prove that there ever was a Cdrama in last few years where ML was shown sexually attracted to another woman than FL.

Ask me for more, I can keep going with example of dramas where FL is shown horny for other men.

It's an incredible coincidence how almost all ML's in Cdramas and kdramas are one woman man & it reflects on the CHARACTER of a man
but
the FL's are almost never one man woman & it NEVER reflects on the character of a woman.

Just to prove my point how shitty and predictable romance dramas have become, just watch ep1 of 'Welcome to Samdalri'.

The same TYPE of ML as we discussed here
the FL on other hand has dated multiple guys.

Even before watching ep1 of that drama, I would have told you exactly how ML would have been like.

Even a before a drama is released, in most dramas, you know exactly how the ML will be.
It's funny and tragic seeing these duplicated ML's in each and every Cdrama and kdrama.
They are just carbon copies of each other.

It's the job of kdrama and Cdrama ML's to keep themselves pure for the FL.

LOL, Kdrama ML's have zero self respect.
simping is the only mode they have.

The anger is not because of just this drama.
These kinds of ML's have been the trend in Cdramas and Kdramas for few years now.

Almost every Cdramas and a lot of Kdramas with romance as main theme has a ML who rarely would have liked any other woman than FL, while the FL is just as we see in this drama...

the disappointment comes from watching the same ML waiting for the FL, while the FL goes around doing her own thing and dating/liking other men.

This is Kdrama and that's exactly how they like their ML's.

Looks like it is you who needs some relationship experience.

And the ML and FL were NOT in a relationship when that happened.

THAT my friend is the problem.
Not only the writers but also viewers think ML needed to be sorry towards someone who he is not in a relationship, over an issue where was NOT at fault.

worse, the FL was at fault and the ML was crawling like an idiot to make amends..

May be this is the kind of spineless men that is trend now a days.

I did, could not find a single drama where the ML looks at a woman's body and reacts.
On other hand, challenge me and I will show you FL's drooling over a handsome man other than ML.

instead of asking me to find a ML drooling over a woman, why not just name the drama, episode and we can carry on the discussion..

You yourself are confirming couple of ultra short ones.
So, there was a small spark there to even start that relationship.

And I am pretty sure when a pretty girl walked by or even now walks by, you would have looked and appreciated the looks.

THAT never happens in Cdramas or Kdrama.

Like I challenged here, show me one drama where the ML looks at another woman and shows sexual desire.
I can show a dozen dramas in last 6 months where the FL is shown appreciating a handsome man.

Taking you as an example and comparing is very uncomfortable, I would rather be generic.

My point is simple ->
Be consistent.
If you are building a world where sexual feelings are rare and romance is pure etc etc, have both ML and FL the same way.
but showing ML as a monk and FL as normal girl does not work.

I hope the point is understood.

Kdrama 101 -
ML always have a trauma that always affect their sexual desires.
Fl's never have any trauma & nothing affects their sexual desires.

ML dating multiple women = man wh0re
FL actually having dated multiple men = ??

hmm...are you implying that the FL is a wh0re?